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By *ingcobra OP Man
over a year ago
Almondsbury |
I'm trying to understand where I'm going wrong with the messages I'm sending.
I only ever message someone if I fit all of their criteria (and they fit mine) and try to write a meaningful message - not too short and not too long, however they invariably get deleted.
I realise, that as a single male, I am just one in a large crowd. I've had some success in the past, but nothing recently.
Thanks for any advice, especially from women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me there’s a couple of things.
You’re 62 and would meet an 18yo. Totally your choice but would put me off
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Photos with others especially unprotected is a big no. I would be worried any photos would appear on your profile and I really don’t want to see a potential partner with others on a profile
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK - thanks, that's useful information, however none of my pictures show unprotected sex, I always use a condom.
Well it looks like it from your photos. Women just don’t want to see action shots
Added to which, the newest photos are 12 years old ?
I’d say that you could definitely use something more up to date that gives a prospective partner an idea of who you are and why you’d be someone worth replying to anymore than than the masses of other single males who message "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't respond to someone who's last picture was 12 years ago and I'm sure if a woman messaged you and had not updated her pics since 2010 you wouldn't respond either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any chance on some construction feedback on my profile ladies
I normally send a message with a recent photo (3months old)
And I try and make my message about things in there profile but I get left uread, read and ignored or deleted
I know I'm not everyone cup of tea but (apart from the ones I've chatted too) I've only had 2 women reply with a polite "no thank you" |
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"Any chance on some construction feedback on my profile ladies
I normally send a message with a recent photo (3months old)
And I try and make my message about things in there profile but I get left uread, read and ignored or deleted
I know I'm not everyone cup of tea but (apart from the ones I've chatted too) I've only had 2 women reply with a polite "no thank you""
You need to make your own forum post |
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"I'm trying to understand where I'm going wrong with the messages I'm sending.
I only ever message someone if I fit all of their criteria (and they fit mine) and try to write a meaningful message - not too short and not too long, however they invariably get deleted.
I realise, that as a single male, I am just one in a large crowd. I've had some success in the past, but nothing recently.
Thanks for any advice, especially from women."
You have super old pictures.
You say you'd have sex with an 18 year old.. And you're 62.. That's creepy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any chance on some construction feedback on my profile ladies
I normally send a message with a recent photo (3months old)
And I try and make my message about things in there profile but I get left uread, read and ignored or deleted
I know I'm not everyone cup of tea but (apart from the ones I've chatted too) I've only had 2 women reply with a polite "no thank you"
You need to make your own forum post"
Yeah I know, I just didn't want to clutter the place up with a pity post lol and this one's done now I though I would jump in
I'll look for a better section to post in |
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"Any chance on some construction feedback on my profile ladies
I normally send a message with a recent photo (3months old)
And I try and make my message about things in there profile but I get left uread, read and ignored or deleted
I know I'm not everyone cup of tea but (apart from the ones I've chatted too) I've only had 2 women reply with a polite "no thank you"
You need to make your own forum post
Yeah I know, I just didn't want to clutter the place up with a pity post lol and this one's done now I though I would jump in
I'll look for a better section to post in"
You are in the right section, just post your own thread  |
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