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By *aximus74 OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
So I have done anal with 2 guys in my life,first was fabulous after a build up, but don't see him anymore.
Now I've seen someone regular (from here) and we have done anal but only the once and I loved it (with him) I want to do it more with him,but everytime we get close I freeze!!
Any advice on how to help me.. I won't do it with just anyone,this is just for him? Please help
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By *L17m4fMan
over a year ago
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set the mood, have a drink, relax, dress up in some sexy lingerie, maybe try some small toys to start, plenty of kissing and foreplay to build up, use plenty of lube! try different positions, dirty talk, watch some anal porn or first time anal play guidence for couples on pornhub. then lay back and enjoy the moment x |
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By *aximus74 OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"set the mood, have a drink, relax, dress up in some sexy lingerie, maybe try some small toys to start, plenty of kissing and foreplay to build up, use plenty of lube! try different positions, dirty talk, watch some anal porn or first time anal play guidence for couples on pornhub. then lay back and enjoy the moment x"
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By *aximus74 OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"set the mood, have a drink, relax, dress up in some sexy lingerie, maybe try some small toys to start, plenty of kissing and foreplay to build up, use plenty of lube! try different positions, dirty talk, watch some anal porn or first time anal play guidence for couples on pornhub. then lay back and enjoy the moment x"
Sorry I've just reposted this by mistake.. thankyou,we usually do all that anyway apart from the porn bit.. lol
But thanks for advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I've done anal before (and I'm writing as someone who doesn't actually enjoy giving it), it was always very spontaneous. I.e. we never talked about it before hand, were already having normal sex, and it was asked for in the moment and I obliged.
I think sometimes when you set out to do 'x' it can lead to freezing. So just go with the flow. If you want it there and then, take it. If not, leave it for another time.
I would also say +1 to using lube.
Maybe a finger/thumb up the butt while he fucks your pussy to help relax into it might work.
Good luck! |
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By *aximus74 OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"When I've done anal before (and I'm writing as someone who doesn't actually enjoy giving it), it was always very spontaneous. I.e. we never talked about it before hand, were already having normal sex, and it was asked for in the moment and I obliged.
I think sometimes when you set out to do 'x' it can lead to freezing. So just go with the flow. If you want it there and then, take it. If not, leave it for another time.
I would also say +1 to using lube.
Maybe a finger/thumb up the butt while he fucks your pussy to help relax into it might work.
Good luck!"
Thankyou...yeah the first time was kind of spontaneous.
But I think of it all the time (wanting) that is..
But even though I want it,I just free,e,it's really frustrating.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe a finger/thumb up the butt while he fucks your pussy to help relax into it might work.
Good luck!"
Yeah this.. a finger to ease you into it... no actual anal but just some bum fun for a while to get you "used to it" (I know you like it so thats not an issue)
And as someone said, don't plan it...
If 'you' want it then 'you' guide him in
If he don't know its gonna happen then he will enjoy it more |
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By *aximus74 OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
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Maybe a finger/thumb up the butt while he fucks your pussy to help relax into it might work.
Good luck!
Yeah this.. a finger to ease you into it... no actual anal but just some bum fun for a while to get you "used to it" (I know you like it so thats not an issue)
And as someone said, don't plan it...
If 'you' want it then 'you' guide him in
If he don't know its gonna happen then he will enjoy it more"
Thankyou for the advice...it will be noted... |
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