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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hello all, think that this applies to everyone so hopefully I can get a varied opinion on it

I have sent out a few messages to various people, always making sure to meet their requirements in terms of distance, age, preferences etc....

A few weeks later I'll come across their profile again and see I've already messaged. When checking sent messages I noice my one is still unread.

I appreciate that some profiles can get 100's if not 1000's of messages in a day so it's very hard to get through them all.

So I am curious on people's opinions.

Do you re-send another message to get their attention?

Do you just wait to see if they read it?

Do you assume no answer is an answer?

All answers gratefully received

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If its unread don't bother sending another, they are clearly not interested.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No answer is an answer.

I’m no ones second best, if they don’t read my first message why would I want to send them another?

If they were interested in meeting they have to do some work as well.

I tens to just block and put a private note that they didn’t respond or read my message.

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By *elkieWoman  over a year ago

Durham

Please don’t check to see if your messages have been read, deleted or neither. That’s just borrowing trouble. You sent a message and they weren’t interested, that’s all you need to know.

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By *imply DeeWoman  over a year ago

Wherever

No answer is an answer in itself, doesn’t matter read, unread or deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

FAQ

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback guys, much appreciated.

As a guy obviously I don't get the attention the couples and ladies do, so good to get your perspective.

Also find it crazy the amount of guys that messaged me before I blocked them. I'm not interested in men, but always replied with no thanks.

Have got bit if OCD so could never have untidy mailbox, lol. However, couldn't imagine doing that 100's of times a day, nightmare.

Happy fabbing all

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