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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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iv been on here 5 weeks now, no meets as of yet, but i know that takes time. thing is i hardly ever get messages replied to. i try to make each message i send original and unique, pay attention to their profile etc. but still not much luck at all. any advice would be greatly appreciated. i think my profile is pretty decent.. i cant wait to get my 1st meet, because after that i reckon it will get easier.
Thanks for any advice given
Danny x ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi mate, I would say that updating your profile so frequently and putting dates on it may look a little desperate.
The thing to do is get out to any socials that ate taking place. Then people will take time to say hello and get to know you. There are loads of guys on here, bit only a small percentage attend socials.
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over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice so far. cant seem to find that thread : ( and you say about update dates, yet you have 1 on your own page.? just thought it was informative as to my situation and what im looking for etc. ill keep trying, and yes your right about the mutual attraction. Thanks again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get rid of all the update dates, just awful, keep the comments though
For me distance is okay but your age would put me off, change the age, surely you wouldn't consider a 65 yr old??
Nice face picture you just need patience, 5 weeks really isn't long, use the forums to show you are a nice guy and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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okay thanks, yeah to be fair i wouldnt consider a 65 year old think i rushed through that part of my profile without really thinking. so the dates do seem to be a big no no. Lol. think im gonna have to start posting more on these forums going to look for some local socials too, will help get the ball rolling
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thank you yeah im just going to keep at it, going to attend that ^^^ social too.
and same goes for you if your ever in worcester or maybe even birmingham xx |
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