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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought my profile was well written. gives a general synopsis of who I am and what I'm looking for. I think the photos are okay. suggestive (as you'd expect on a site like this and there are more available to friends.
I understand the ratio of men to women on here is not good, but still struggling to get chats going let alone any meets.
What do others think of my profile. |
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I agree it is a well written profile but you start with 15 lines about how nice you are which I think is far too long.
You can't accommodate or travel and are in a relationship, which would make me think it was too complicated to meet you. The photo in the hot tub is nice but on a phone it is hard to make out what it is.
Wishing you success as I'm sure you are a nice guy. |
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It’s not a bad profile but I think the fact you are starched and can’t accommodate or travel won’t help your case. Also the picture with the handcuffs is off putting. Maybe a visit to a club would be easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cannot travel and cannot accommodate?
Presumably that means people must come to you at your convenience?
Too complicated mate.
You should lose the handcuffs picture too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’ve got a few paragraphs about being a nice guy. You don’t need to tell people that. They will decide if they think you’re a nice guy or not.
Other than that it seems fairly well written. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the comments.
I didn't even notice that it came up as 'cannot travel'! Now changed!
Tweaked the profile, so its not quite so long.
Lets hope that improves things.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Change "semi-polyamorous" to "ethically non-monogamous" (unless your partner is happy for you to have other romantic partners...?)
Otherwise, its a great profile.
Fay  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're being honest about being in a relationship but how you have worded it is somewhat mysterious and requires a google to understand what that really means.
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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The line about meeting parents is a red flag, makes it sound like you want to cross fab world and vanilla world and gain access to vulnerable people. Telling your reader what a nice guy you are is unnecessary - if you are consistently kind, compassionate and respectful, that will be immediately obvious. The two together makes it sound like you’re a bit naive, tbh.
I don’t know what you mean by semi-polyamorous, but the mention of rules makes me think you mean an open relationship? Also, nobody cares how much sex you have with your partner, what the two of you do together is your own business
What I can’t see is anything to talk to you about, other than sex or your wife. And if I can’t get smalltalk going, we’re doomed. |
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