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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
Clubs are neutral. It’s the people in them that make them safe or not. All clubs I have visited provide condoms (not necessarily free) and encourage safe sex, but you are an adult. It’s down to you what you are comfortable with, to hold your boundaries and not to pressure or get pressured into anything. If you’re uncomfortable, put your pants back on.
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"So how safe are clubs? condoms? Sti tests? First time going and I have no clue what to expect  "
Most supply condoms but you might have to pay. They don’t insist on Sti test. It’s up to you to decide what you do |
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"You'll walk in to massive naked orgy at bar, you'll get pounced on so be prepared, maybe put condom on under boxers to be safe  "
Lol.
Regarding condoms in clubs- those thar supply free condoms, usually use cheap(er) brands that not everyone may get on with. Best- bring your own condoms, ones you know fit you well and don't give you an allergic reaction.
As others have said re STI tests- not a requirement at clubs but clubs do promote safe sex and some even run sexual health clinics a couple of times a month. |
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Hey OP you'll only get out of clubs what you put into them, if you go with an open mind, be friendly, chat with as many people as you can, obviously don't expect to have sex and you'll be fine! With regards to STIs and condoms, what the other posters have said above, don't always expect free condoms from clubs, also no STI tests necessary. Enjoy yourself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your sexual health is your responsibility not the clubs.
Take condoms, only you know the ones that suit you best.
Expect nothing and take it as it comes.
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Bring your own condoms which fit well, etc. The ones in a bowl or sold over the counter will be generic ones as you can also blag at the friendly local health clinic.
Clubs - club rules - reason for going at least until you are confident in the scene. You are very safe in a club. Staff are usually excellent. Tactful but firm if they have to be. Go along, know what the rules are - they are likely to be what you regard as plain common sense - behave accordingly, be friendly and you will be fine. |
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