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Does nervousness make you do silly things you regret?
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Life is a journey, the key ingredient for relative success being that you should try to learn from your mistakes,errors, misjudgements, indiscretions, etc., and try to move on from them as quickly as possible, as others do too.
Acknowledge the mistakes, analyse them, but don't hammer yourself forever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep all the damn time!
I am glad it is not just us men who do it.
Oh well, I only have myself to blame for being a clutz. "
I’m insanely shy so I get anxious in groups  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does your nervousness ever get the better of you? Do you try and make a good impression but balls it up due to nervousness?
Sometimes we are our own worst enemy. "
Completely agree
Do you also find that you don't realise at that moment. Not till later & u think back on it later.. |
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"Does your nervousness ever get the better of you? Do you try and make a good impression but balls it up due to nervousness?
Sometimes we are our own worst enemy.
Completely agree
Do you also find that you don't realise at that moment. Not till later & u think back on it later.. "
Yes. If I could turn the clock back about 28 hours I would do.
I need to learn when to shut up and when to stop typing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heehee 
Not at all I think its good that we're all able to write this sort stuff so that people have the opportunity to feel they can relate.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Heehee
Not at all I think its good that we're all able to write this sort stuff so that people have the opportunity to feel they can relate.
Sharing is caring "
I agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does your nervousness ever get the better of you? Do you try and make a good impression but balls it up due to nervousness?
Sometimes we are our own worst enemy.
Completely agree
Do you also find that you don't realise at that moment. Not till later & u think back on it later.. "
Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm usually a bucket of nerves ..especially around ppl I don't know ..I would say I get overwhelmed easily. To counteract I take a shot of vodka or a glass of wine.
Luckily this is only as it relates to non-business stuff so I won't be sacked for drinking on the job , fairly confident in that arena  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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when I was younger I would often sit and watch my crush ..... the day did come that he did approach me and turns out I was his crush too .... Nonetheless I've never been able to talk to him nothing comes out right to this day. .... This was when I was 15 ....fast forward another 15 years we met up as he moved to the US and would only visit the island occasionally. At 30 years old we could both only muster hi and stare at each other a bit...we both have always been so nervous in each other's presence. I mean we can chat online or he'd write me a letter (this is how I knew I was his crush) but I person we are both utterly useless ..to this day . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when I was younger I would often sit and watch my crush ..... the day did come that he did approach me and turns out I was his crush too .... Nonetheless I've never been able to talk to him nothing comes out right to this day. .... This was when I was 15 ....fast forward another 15 years we met up as he moved to the US and would only visit the island occasionally. At 30 years old we could both only muster hi and stare at each other a bit...we both have always been so nervous in each other's presence. I mean we can chat online or he'd write me a letter (this is how I knew I was his crush) but in* person we are both utterly useless ..to this day ."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes nervousness and anxiety
I laugh hysterically when I'm uncomfortable and/embarrassed
Literally can not control it
I stutter like crazy when I'm nervous or angry lol
Sometimes when I'm nervous as well I over react about the silliest little things.
Sometimes I have to block certain situations out of my head cause the memory makes me so embarrassed |
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In the early days of swinging I was nervous, as immdure we all have been there, since have understood my assignment and feel happy n comfortable in a club
Home or hotel meets are too uncomfortable, which is where the nerves take over
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"In the early days of swinging I was nervous, as immdure we all have been there, since have understood my assignment and feel happy n comfortable in a club
Home or hotel meets are too uncomfortable, which is where the nerves take over
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Typo # should say as im sure ... |
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I'm definitely going to be nervous going to my first club event but think afew vodka shots, I will be fine. I have to be as it's a long way to go and it's new experience. But that's what life is all about, right?  |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
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"Yep all the damn time!
I am glad it is not just us men who do it.
Oh well, I only have myself to blame for being a clutz.
I’m insanely shy so I get anxious in groups "
Yep, I can totally relate. |
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Often find it difficult to break in on a group of people when they obviously know each other and I'm the new girl. Doesn't help that I suffer from mild tinnitus, not enough to be too distressing, but does affect my hearing in loud environments. Feel very stupid if I can't tell what someone is saying and have to keep asking them to repeat. |
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