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Finishing while wearing a condom difficulties?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone - just a quick one was on a tinder date recently and wearing a condom because safe sex yo but I was trying and trying to finish but alas no end product so we ripped it off and she tugged off until I finished. Anyone having difficulties like this while wearing? I dunno if it was the type I was wearing as well |
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"Hi everyone - just a quick one was on a tinder date recently and wearing a condom because safe sex yo but I was trying and trying to finish but alas no end product so we ripped it off and she tugged off until I finished. Anyone having difficulties like this while wearing? I dunno if it was the type I was wearing as well"
Do a search for ‘UK condom sizing’, then follow the guidance about your cock size (the toilet roll tube test), and compare condom manufacturers and their shapes/sizing. When you work out which condoms actually fit you, so feel comfortable to wear during sex, it will feel more ‘natural’, and therefore enjoyable, and hopefully you’ll be able to finish 
You also need to retrain your mind to think “this condom means I’m having an awesome time!” instead of “this rubber bag is taking the edge off my experience” Good luck mate |
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"I'm the same... difference is once I've had one on then that's it, even once it comes off it still won't happen  "
I had a bad reaction to a free condom supplied in a club, and that prompted me to research the subject more. I now only use Mates Skyns, and they’re a part of the fun, not a barrier to fun |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I recently had a guy cum using a condom. He messaged me later to say he rarely cums so he was pleasantly surprised.
I have met a few guys who can’t cum wearing a condom but they are in the minority. Maybe you need to find the right condom and then actuality carry them with you. Don’t rely on the woman carrying them!
Meet people where there’s a connection, plenty foreplay and be relaxed. Also, if your using lube, make sure it doesn’t affect your condom.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve only played with three men who can finish wearing a condom, and I know a few who lose their erection, so no, not just you. Try more posh wanks?"
Yeah that might be a shout cheers  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've encountered a lot of problems with men and condoms. More fails than successes, it's as frustrating for us as it is for you. No pressure lads  "
Yeah sometimes I overthink like why am I not finishing x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi everyone - just a quick one was on a tinder date recently and wearing a condom because safe sex yo but I was trying and trying to finish but alas no end product so we ripped it off and she tugged off until I finished. Anyone having difficulties like this while wearing? I dunno if it was the type I was wearing as well
Do a search for ‘UK condom sizing’, then follow the guidance about your cock size (the toilet roll tube test), and compare condom manufacturers and their shapes/sizing. When you work out which condoms actually fit you, so feel comfortable to wear during sex, it will feel more ‘natural’, and therefore enjoyable, and hopefully you’ll be able to finish
You also need to retrain your mind to think “this condom means I’m having an awesome time!” instead of “this rubber bag is taking the edge off my experience” Good luck mate "
That’s brilliant I’ll deffo give that a try x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm the same... difference is once I've had one on then that's it, even once it comes off it still won't happen
I had a bad reaction to a free condom supplied in a club, and that prompted me to research the subject more. I now only use Mates Skyns, and they’re a part of the fun, not a barrier to fun "
Not tried Skyns I normally go for Durex and not had complaints until very recently might consider the brand change |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I recently had a guy cum using a condom. He messaged me later to say he rarely cums so he was pleasantly surprised.
I have met a few guys who can’t cum wearing a condom but they are in the minority. Maybe you need to find the right condom and then actuality carry them with you. Don’t rely on the woman carrying them!
Meet people where there’s a connection, plenty foreplay and be relaxed. Also, if your using lube, make sure it doesn’t affect your condom.
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I think I’ll try a few brands and see what happens and use the sizing guide as mentioned before but thanks x |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"I recently had a guy cum using a condom. He messaged me later to say he rarely cums so he was pleasantly surprised.
I have met a few guys who can’t cum wearing a condom but they are in the minority. Maybe you need to find the right condom and then actuality carry them with you. Don’t rely on the woman carrying them!
Meet people where there’s a connection, plenty foreplay and be relaxed. Also, if your using lube, make sure it doesn’t affect your condom.
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Wot she said...
In heyday of HIV it would be a death sentence if not wrapped. So you have to develop sexiness with condom... Like rolling it on him with your mouth while maintaining eye contact... And when you grip and ungrip his cock (pelvic exercises girls!) as he's fucking you... Then it is your whole mind/person having awesome sex... Not just your genitals... |
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So many have reported this and reading the comments here their accounts are corroborated.
At one time I thought that it was just a problem that I had.
One associated matter is that of the condoms lack of sensation causing my cock to go soft, fall off unbeknowenst to either of us, hey! Sensation returns, a lovely fuck follows but cum is inside the vagina not the dispirited bit of plastic that is fished out later..... |
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By *hanel3Man
over a year ago
Nr Chester |
I know from my own experience (I have a very large helmet) how difficult and uncomfortable they can be but never had the courage to ask the pharmacist if they did them in different sizes. I dont think they do - but correct me if I'm wrong |
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"I know from my own experience (I have a very large helmet) how difficult and uncomfortable they can be but never had the courage to ask the pharmacist if they did them in different sizes. I dont think they do - but correct me if I'm wrong"
They come in different sizes.
The chemist is not going to name and shame you right there in the shop either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know from my own experience (I have a very large helmet) how difficult and uncomfortable they can be but never had the courage to ask the pharmacist if they did them in different sizes. I dont think they do - but correct me if I'm wrong"
Theres lots of good condoms you can get online for the larger member, I like a company called my size. |
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"I know from my own experience (I have a very large helmet) how difficult and uncomfortable they can be but never had the courage to ask the pharmacist if they did them in different sizes. I dont think they do - but correct me if I'm wrong"
Even the free ones from the clinic come in different sizes. You could just Google it to see your options. |
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"I'm the same... difference is once I've had one on then that's it, even once it comes off it still won't happen
I had a bad reaction to a free condom supplied in a club, and that prompted me to research the subject more. I now only use Mates Skyns, and they’re a part of the fun, not a barrier to fun
Not tried Skyns I normally go for Durex and not had complaints until very recently might consider the brand change "
Skyns are brilliant, for me anyway, so I always have some with me, just in case, you know…..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm the same... difference is once I've had one on then that's it, even once it comes off it still won't happen
I had a bad reaction to a free condom supplied in a club, and that prompted me to research the subject more. I now only use Mates Skyns, and they’re a part of the fun, not a barrier to fun
Not tried Skyns I normally go for Durex and not had complaints until very recently might consider the brand change
Skyns are brilliant, for me anyway, so I always have some with me, just in case, you know…..?"
Skyns are boss class condoms for me its almost like not wearing one |
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Mr here. In the past I’ve struggled on a few occasions. Worked out it was the condoms
The thing is, they’re a one-size-fits-all deal. But I’m quite girthy so the tightness of off the shelf condoms actually makes it difficult to maintain an erection. Yeah, they can stretch to ridiculous sizes but that doesn’t mean they’re going to be effective!
I use theyfit condoms since I discovered them. Not had a problem since It’s really amazing the difference it makes. Highly recommend giving them a go |
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