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Am I that ugly??

By *allMeDaddy420 OP Man over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

Can I ask what is the average type that females and couples be meeting on here I've sent thousands of messages long ones short ones I've tried alot and get nothing back except your not my type or not looking for single guys right now? But females and couples be meeting single guys on here I've seen it in there verifications so I'm asking what's the difference between me and then?? Where am I going wrong??

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By *ornym66Man over a year ago

Col /ips

To many singles males I guess they can be picky on what they prefer. Also to many let downs on here

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

"Can I ask what is the average type that females and couples be meeting on here I've sent thousands of messages long ones short ones I've tried alot and get nothing back except your not my type or not looking for single guys right now? But females and couples be meeting single guys on here I've seen it in there verifications so I'm asking what's the difference between me and then?? Where am I going wrong?? "

They have the choice of the best on here.

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By *eamworkboyMan over a year ago

Irvine

You're cutting down your audience with the daddy scenario, some will like and some won't. Same with the 420 ref, a lot will avoid due to that, its not an ugly thing at all, your lady is stunning by the way

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By *al kalMan over a year ago

london

Every single fabber has their own requirements, so you can’t go comparing your qualities with others.

For every single girl/ couple there is like 1000 single guy options. All guys struggle.

You have only been here a very short time to be honest. And there is not much going on in your bio. Super brief and not really selling yourself or standing out. I’ll let females and couples opine, but I’m sure that is a good reason itself.

Some ladies don’t like seeing any cock pics, some don’t like seeing action shots ect…

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By *izandpaulCouple over a year ago

merseyside

28 years of age and call me daddy...

Call me son more like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your name may be off putting to many

Your 420 reference may be off putting to many

Your age may be off putting to many

The daddy thing may put many off and others who are into it are likely to find you too young to “daddy” them

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By *allMeDaddy420 OP Man over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

They have the choice of the best on here. "

Yeah but what makes them the best yano?

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By *allMeDaddy420 OP Man over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

Really I feel old at 28

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By *allMeDaddy420 OP Man over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

"Your name may be off putting to many

Your 420 reference may be off putting to many

Your age may be off putting to many

The daddy thing may put many off and others who are into it are likely to find you too young to “daddy” them"

Thanks guys all good points maybe I should make a new account with a different name and maybe drop the 420 reference

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple over a year ago

Coventry

I think you just have to accept that attraction is a very subjective thing, even when you have a lot of great things going for you. On top of attraction some people also factor practical implications such a distant or your availability for example. Simply there are so many factors unique to everyones tastes and dynamic. It's not a case of your wrong, just being wrong for the wrong people. Which is frustrating when you see verifications for other guys who you think I'm as good as them of better. But it's what it is. But obviously throwing your best foot forward with a great profile, personality and photos goes a long way too.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple over a year ago

liverpool

We know from experience have daddy in your profile name will put off a large number of people. We don't care but it's something something be aware of

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman over a year ago

Thurrock

The ratio of men to women & couples on here mean that every woman and couple would need to meet twice a week every week for every guy to get just one meet a year, that's obviously not practical which means most single guys will be very disappointed unfortunately

Take an honest look at your profile, do you think your showing yourself in the best light, there's a few things in your bio that stand out to me that would put lots of people off

- Your profile name Call me Daddy, as you'll meet 99yr olds do you really want a 99yr old calling you daddy, it sounds immature especially in someone so young

- 420 in your profile name, lots of people aren't 420 friendly so that alone is likely alienating half the site before they've even opened a message or looked at your profile

- Photos of females in your profile, your a single guy not a couple, we want to see you not who you've banged

- The dick pic some love them, some hate them, I personally think a male profile needs one but I wouldn't have it as the first photo they see when they click on your photos as again it's a turn off to many

- Your bio is one sentence it doesn't say anything about you why they should choose you over the other 20 guys in their inbox, how are we supposed to know your kinks to know whether we are sexually compatable, there's no information there & that's your place to sell yourself and show us why we should meet you

These are all pointers I've seen repeated time and time again as posts like these are daily you are not alone

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By *iss DevilWoman over a year ago

Bedford

For me, I didn't even move beyond your username...

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman over a year ago

LEEDS

I wouldn't be interested

No way would I call a 28yo "Daddy"! and the 420 reference is definitely a no no in my eyes.

I don't care what you do in your private life but for me swinging and 420 don't go together... or any other substances that are illegal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your name may be off putting to many

Your 420 reference may be off putting to many

Your age may be off putting to many

The daddy thing may put many off and others who are into it are likely to find you too young to “daddy” them

Thanks guys all good points maybe I should make a new account with a different name and maybe drop the 420 reference "

No leave it on at least your been open and honest so will interest those into drugs.

I hate it when people advise to loose the drug references for those of us who don't do drugs and don't want any contact with those that do it's a great filter!

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"I wouldn't be interested

No way would I call a 28yo "Daddy"! and the 420 reference is definitely a no no in my eyes.

I don't care what you do in your private life but for me swinging and 420 don't go together... or any other substances that are illegal"

This ^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also you say your an experienced bull. How if you haven't had any meets and are not meet verified?

If you are genuinely an experienced bull then explain how you are but at present your profile suggests your not.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

"Your name may be off putting to many

Your 420 reference may be off putting to many

Your age may be off putting to many

The daddy thing may put many off and others who are into it are likely to find you too young to “daddy” them

Thanks guys all good points maybe I should make a new account with a different name and maybe drop the 420 reference

No leave it on at least your been open and honest so will interest those into drugs.

I hate it when people advise to loose the drug references for those of us who don't do drugs and don't want any contact with those that do it's a great filter!

KJ"

2nd this

if it’s something that means so much that you’ll put it in your username, then be honest about it.

Those who are regulars as well, will prefer you over those who don’t smoke.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Daddy and 420 is an instant turn off

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

They have the choice of the best on here.

Yeah but what makes them the best yano?"

They sell themselves well, communicate well, often have a range of life experiences, and don't try to be something they're not.

Since you asked.

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman over a year ago

London

To be completely honest, I can see why you are not getting responses - your profile signals that you make as little effort as possible which is not attractive, from the bad quality photos (with mess in the background) to barely bothering to write a profile. No effort from a man = disappointment (chances of being stood up or poorly treated are high from such).

I know that the bar is low but come on

Also, thousands of messages seem a lot - but are they serving a purpose? It is always better to send less but focused messages than meaningless copypasta which does not even get opened.

I know I am not the only one who treats "hi there" type of messages as spam because that's what they are.

So the short answer is no, you are not ugly but you do need to present yourself much better and ensure you make a proper effort when contacting people.

Choosing a role and taking substances are divisive for people of course but if you improve your presentation then you would be more likely to encounter people who like the same things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your name may be off putting to many

Your 420 reference may be off putting to many

Your age may be off putting to many

The daddy thing may put many off and others who are into it are likely to find you too young to “daddy” them

Thanks guys all good points maybe I should make a new account with a different name and maybe drop the 420 reference "

You can change your name without making a new account. I did as I didn't like the name. I would ignore straight away. I dont like the name, just because I wouldn't call anyone daddy lol. 420 puts me off. And I don't like actions shots tbh.

Good luck with your search xx

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By *y gameMan over a year ago

open wide

I know that the bar is low but come on

Also, thousands of messages seem a lot - but are they serving a purpose? It is always better to send less but focused messages than meaningless copypasta which does not even get opened.

I know I am not the only one who treats "hi there" type of messages as spam because that's what they are.

So the short answer is no, you are not ugly but you do need to present yourself much better and ensure you make a proper effort when contacting people.

Choosing a role and taking substances are divisive for people of course but if you improve your presentation then you would be more likely to encounter people who like the same things."

That low bar, I can limbo .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's likely you aren't their cup of tea. It happens.

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By *ohn KanakaMan over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I know that the bar is low but come on

Also, thousands of messages seem a lot - but are they serving a purpose? It is always better to send less but focused messages than meaningless copypasta which does not even get opened.

I know I am not the only one who treats "hi there" type of messages as spam because that's what they are.

So the short answer is no, you are not ugly but you do need to present yourself much better and ensure you make a proper effort when contacting people.

Choosing a role and taking substances are divisive for people of course but if you improve your presentation then you would be more likely to encounter people who like the same things."

This

I think by asking if you are ugly and having a minimal profile you are assuming it is all down to looks when it really is far more about how you present yourself

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple over a year ago

Middle England

Even if we stumbled upon your profile; that one sentence would be all we would have to form an opinion. You wrote more in the forum post than you have on your profile. Why do you think you're not getting any responses?

And in answer to your question; maybe the difference between you and them is that they've put some effort in along the way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m in the same boat so anyone why advice? I have just accepted that I get a few hits from time to time have meet two members both who have now deleted their profiles, I’m doing the good things come to those who wait. Trying going to socials or parties make yourself known evening meeting up with a guy for a coffee swinging is a lot more than just sex

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

They have the choice of the best on here.

Yeah but what makes them the best yano?"

Don't know what 'yano' is, but being blunt best looks, best shape, best photos and best profile.

Simple really.

The problem is, there are many young guys who think this site is Instantfuck.

Putting up a basic profile, with basic photos doesn't mean you will get a fuck.

Same as in a pub really, a woman will fuck the best looking guy in there

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

"I’m in the same boat so anyone why advice? I have just accepted that I get a few hits from time to time have meet two members both who have now deleted their profiles, I’m doing the good things come to those who wait. Trying going to socials or parties make yourself known evening meeting up with a guy for a coffee swinging is a lot more than just sex "

Bio isn’t too bad but I would get some different pictures not just of your cock. One is enough. Maybe some clothed pictures too

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By *riel13Woman over a year ago

Northampton

"To many singles males I guess they can be picky on what they prefer. Also to many let downs on here"

We are ALWAYS picky... Attraction is a very personal thing and that's only the start... If you spoke to every woman you liked the look of, on the street, how many do you think would be interested? Just be we are only here for sex, doesn't mean we will fuck anyone that fancies us... Fuck! I don't even fuck people I like the look of!

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By *oirinMarkusCouple over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

For me it would be a lack of verifications x

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

Ok your pictures, lack of verification, profile name, bio is lacking. These are the reasons I would say no. Maybe make a bit more effort

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By *allMeDaddy420 OP Man over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

Also you say your an experienced bull. How if you haven't had any meets and are not meet verified?

If you are genuinely an experienced bull then explain how you are but at present your profile suggests your not.

KJ"

I've met cuckold couples in real life lol I actually have alot of success of this site which is why I'm so confused

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By *allMeDaddy420 OP Man over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

"Ok your pictures, lack of verification, profile name, bio is lacking. These are the reasons I would say no. Maybe make a bit more effort "
more effort ok thanks I think I need to overhaul my whole profile maybe

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By *ubytuesdaysTV/TS over a year ago

birmingham

"straight" mmmmm????? mutiplies the opposition by a couple of million.... "More Later" means " am I boverrred"

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By *redy81Man over a year ago

London

First: This site is a disaster for single men, we outnumber girls and couples here at least 100 to 1. But when you browse their profile you don't see the thousands of other men alongside you, just the dozens of girls who are "looking for fun", so you got the fake illusion that it will be easy. I'm quite successful with "hookups" in regular dating apps or IRL clubs, but if I was only using this page, my self-esteem would have been destroyed a long time ago...

Second: You definitely put yourself in a box with your profile. Your name ("daddy" +420), your bio ("experienced bull"), your photos (seriously, what did you want to tell to the girls with that photo where you wear a mask 50 meters away from the camera and staring at your mobile in front of a car?) all say to me that here is a boy from those gangs from the corner, I can smell the and hear the "gangsta rap" blasting from the car.

Don't take me wrong, if that's your style, it's nice that you are honest and there are girls who will get mad for a ride with/on you. But you need to know, that this "sociocultural background" is a quite narrow "niche", those who like this style will love to call you daddy and suck your dick, but others (the majority) will avoid you miles away. And I assume your style will rather be a turn-on for early 20s chics in a West End RnB club than for those girls and couples who make the majority of the members here.

If you want to have success with girls from the "general public" here, you also need to show yourself in a less "urban" light, I guess. And still, it will be bloody hard, as don't forget, there are at least 100x more men here than women...

I would also suggest try IRL swinger clubs, you will have way more success.

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By *allMeDaddy420 OP Man over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

I would also suggest try IRL swinger clubs, you will have way more success."
haha thanks mate great advice

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By *heekyredsoloWoman over a year ago

bromborough

Hello

You look lovely!

Try a club babes, no hiding behind a screen meet people face to face and have a brill time socialising with the possibility if you spark with someone then playing

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By *redy81Man over a year ago

London

I just don't understand what about having call me daddy in my name and describing my self as a bull makes me a bellend?? Or am I missing something ?"

With the cuckold/bull reference, you also narrow down the list of your potential meets a lot. Your bio is very short and these references play a huge part in it, which suggests that you are ONLY up for cuckolding scenarios with couples.

Luckily (sorry for being a bit judgemental) still not too many people find that a turn-on if they humiliate their real-life partner as a part of sexual play, instead of involving other(s) as equal partners. So that's also a small niche but your profile clearly says that you are exclusively specializing in that.

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By *redy81Man over a year ago

London

" haha thanks mate great advice

Cheers! One more advice, if you have a chance go for those swinger parties when the number of men is limited. The ticket will cost a bit more, but the party will be 100 times better. And you can't even compare that to this useless site...

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

" haha thanks mate great advice

I have to disagree; using Fab to find likeminded ladies and couples for fun has been an excellent ‘resource’ for me. I would always point a friend in Fab’s direction, and advise him to steer clear of the club scene (as a single guy), based on my experiences of visiting them

I don’t think there’s any ‘one size fits all’ solution, but I can tell you, that a deleted message in Fab, is a lot easier to bear than a cold shoulder turned/being ignored in person, in a club setting

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

If people are replying saying that they aren't looking for single guys probably means you aren't

reading the profiles before messaging.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Going for the wrong types of women?

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By *y gameMan over a year ago

open wide

"Going for the wrong types of women?"

Oh yes.

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By *ootprints1629Couple over a year ago

somewhere in moray

May I suggest that your pics don't look like there is much effort put into them. As said before the daddy thing at age 28 might be off putting for alot of folk. Put a bit more effort into your pics and bio. Good luck.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

Use of the word daddy, no photos and minimal bio.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

I agree with the majority.

You need a rebrand, fresh look at your profile and user name.

Increase your network online and offline.

Online - Forums chatrooms

Offline - organised socials, events and clubs.

Good network gives you opportunities.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman over a year ago

Newcastle

I apologise in advance if this feedback sounds blunt, but you ask for opinions so here is mine:

• ‘Daddy’ - at 28 years old? In my opinion, most women would view ‘daddies’ from 35yrs plus as a minimum, usually 40’s/50’s. Even then, this is limiting your target market straight away as the Daddy reference will give a lot of women the ick

• 420 reference - will put a lot (not all,but a lot) of people off straight away, again limiting responses

• No photos, other than very poor quality profile pic

• Profile pic has a very messy background. Looks very untidy and not somewhere you could envisage having a good time. Also represents total lack of effort on your part which women will tralare into lack of effort when arranging meets etc

• Your hairstyle is quite alternative - absolutely nothing wrong with that, you do you, and it will appeal to some but again, it won’t be everyone’s type/ cup of tea so will limit your responses

• I hate when profiles state ‘will fill in later’ - again, just smacks of lack of effort and laziness.

Overall, you need better quality, more appealing photos and a more detailed profile.

Good luck!

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By *ee_Preston_NewTV/TS over a year ago

Preston

I do agree with most of the messages. I like the 'daddy' types, but 28 ?, You need to almost double that. I can't state more, the importance of a reasonably constructed profile that does not mislead....Straight but looking for a TV is a much used example. No pics, verifications or crap bios don't cut it either. An honest approach with the ability to send informative and fun messages is a great attribute. I have lots of messages coming through that just don't do anything, what are these types expecting. I agree that is a lazy approach that smacks of either self importance or just not getting it...'fancy a fuck' or 'meet now' sums up a pretty poor idea of what is going on here. Can't Accommodate and Can't Travel always makes me laugh as I can't work out what goes on there, maybe means the bottom of their garden ? There are loads of great people on here and you have to make the effort for them, and you. Finally, I suppose we just become accustomed to the bad profile users and accept that is part of the game on here...good luck and wish you all well....

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

Can see the op hasn’t taken any advice on board. Why do they ask if they are just going to ignore

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Some more varied pictures and a fuller bio showing what you're looking for and what you like. This will allow people who are compatible to find you more easily. Then you'll do fine, I'm sure

Look on the bright side: you could look like me and have my tiny dick. You already have a big advantage to work on.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"Some more varied pictures and a fuller bio showing what you're looking for and what you like. This will allow people who are compatible to find you more easily. Then you'll do fine, I'm sure

Look on the bright side: you could look like me and have my tiny dick. You already have a big advantage to work on.

change the record on every thread you comment on seriously dude!

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Anyhow, you've had some good feedback, try some of it and see of it helps

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple over a year ago

liverpool

"Some more varied pictures and a fuller bio showing what you're looking for and what you like. This will allow people who are compatible to find you more easily. Then you'll do fine, I'm sure

Look on the bright side: you could look like me and have my tiny dick. You already have a big advantage to work on.

change the record on every thread you comment on seriously dude!"

I know so tiresome.

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By *hiregirl76Woman over a year ago

Scotland

"Daddy and 420 is an instant turn off"

This

both these references are instant block for me

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By *anshee99Woman over a year ago

all over

Where did you gain you experience as a bull if not here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some more varied pictures and a fuller bio showing what you're looking for and what you like. This will allow people who are compatible to find you more easily. Then you'll do fine, I'm sure

Look on the bright side: you could look like me and have my tiny dick. You already have a big advantage to work on.

"
Cammo ever thought it's not you it's your location like I said before nothing wrong with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your age might be going against you with some.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your name may be off putting to many

Your 420 reference may be off putting to many

Your age may be off putting to many

The daddy thing may put many off and others who are into it are likely to find you too young to “daddy” them"

THIS!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some more varied pictures and a fuller bio showing what you're looking for and what you like. This will allow people who are compatible to find you more easily. Then you'll do fine, I'm sure

Look on the bright side: you could look like me and have my tiny dick. You already have a big advantage to work on.

change the record on every thread you comment on seriously dude!"

My thoughts exactly! He’s a good looking guy but someone constantly putting themselves down is unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Must be buddy

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By *ilberto42Man over a year ago

north wales

Lots of men on site and not many women x

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Lots of men on site and not many women x"

Nail on head

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By *hoco DMan over a year ago

Clapham

Bro I'm gonna address elephant in the room, as I've have seen guys on here posted the same question time and time again, only for the forum dwellers to criticise your profile using passive aggressive tactics under the pretence of "we're hear to help", you will be told that your profile is crap for 100 different reasons or you need to send messages that are not copy and paste etc..

the one thing they do get right is when tell you need more pics,(of you in different scenarios so you seem popular, cultured, enigmatic) remember this is a social media site, and social media most works on voyeurism people want to see what you been upto, what you have been doing and on here whom you've been doing, which brings me to the what I think is the biggest factor which is body count aka "verifications" people here want to look at who you've met and will compare , then will either judge you or try to compete with those whom you have crossed paths with, people tend to give them selfs on a subconscious level a score, if they see them selfs as a 5/10 and they average your verifications at 7/10 they would more likely to compete for your attention or if 4/10 you just get ignored. what you need to do is use this site to find partys and clubs near to you and get out to meet people and get verification once you get a few under you belt you will people will more be more likely to reply.

Give it a try and gods speed good luck and all the jazz.

And in the past some people seem to have got upset when ive said similar in the past.

And now I await my fate of a slewing from the forums keyboard warriors and to receive more block than a bucket full of Lego's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nicely put ChocoD..... but the OP doesn't have any verifications on his single nor cpls account? Big RED FLAG to most on here?

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

We would love to answer your question that you ask in this thread, but we think that we would get banned!!

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By *amantha_JadeWoman over a year ago

Newcastle

"We would love to answer your question that you ask in this thread, but we think that we would get banned!!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in the same boat but learnt not to let it bother me what will be will be however I have found a lot of men pretending to women talking to me lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have some substance in your profile not just generic

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"I'm in the same boat but learnt not to let it bother me what will be will be however I have found a lot of men pretending to women talking to me lol "

Set your message filters to only allow verified profiles to contact you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's this 420 reference all about. Can someone please explain what it means.

Thanks.

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By *ackieSteveCouple over a year ago

Newbridge

Honestly, your username is a straight delete for me.

Wouldn't even read it.

And the 420 is a straight no too. You're going to rule out so many people with both of them. (420= we-ed)

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"What's this 420 reference all about. Can someone please explain what it means.

Thanks. "

420 is a reference to smoking cannabis

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan over a year ago

Southern England

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By *assiieneilxMan over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

"Some more varied pictures and a fuller bio showing what you're looking for and what you like. This will allow people who are compatible to find you more easily. Then you'll do fine, I'm sure

Look on the bright side: you could look like me and have my tiny dick. You already have a big advantage to work on.

Cammo ever thought it's not you it's your location like I said before nothing wrong with you

The thing that’s wrong with him is that he keeps talking about his tiny cock

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By *hoco DMan over a year ago

Clapham

"What's this 420 reference all about. Can someone please explain what it means.

Thanks. "

The story goes something like this a group of college kids in a town small town in America would meet up after college at 4:20 in a specific spot to smoke that used to refer to it as 420 as code so those in the know could partake

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By *ob198XaMan over a year ago

teleford

"Really I feel old at 28"

Average age on fab is about 70, though don’t quote me on that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And I ask myself the exact question....

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS over a year ago

doncaster

"What's this 420 reference all about. Can someone please explain what it means.

Thanks.

420 is a reference to smoking cannabis"
and it stinks vile

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

As a 42 year old i just cant take a 28 year old calling himself daddy seriously at all.

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By *lueeyeseyesblueMan over a year ago

sidcup

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By *axtool7Man over a year ago

Motherwell

Women are very choosy and rightly so but we men can give ourselves a huge complex by taking , or not taking rejection very well..... my favourite is the "too old" thing and yet the profile states 18-99 ? I seen a profile comment by a woman....."99 who are you kidding" and I find myself in agreement but on the whole most potential partners rule you out more in a contradictory manner and tend to use the 'block' button to cover for their stand offish lack of straight conversation.....but then that is only my very humble opinion

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Some more varied pictures and a fuller bio showing what you're looking for and what you like. This will allow people who are compatible to find you more easily. Then you'll do fine, I'm sure

Look on the bright side: you could look like me and have my tiny dick. You already have a big advantage to work on.

Cammo ever thought it's not you it's your location like I said before nothing wrong with you

Location isn't the issue. There are a lot of women and couples around me. Problem is there are lots of much better looking guys with much better dicks in my area, which makes it difficult to get replies

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By *ilthy brownieMan over a year ago

yours

Ffs my friend it could be worse just look at me!! I have no bloody chance!! ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women are very choosy and rightly so "

no i dont think most of us are very choosy i think we are just choosy ie we know what we like when we see it i have a low bar and i have a high bar and those inbetween them bars are what im looking for i know if someone is to hot for me so i dont look for them i know my zone but attraction in just the first step 99% after that fail with the messages and thats a fact..

forget about mr negative most women do not care about cock size me as long as average and about its fine whats more important is how you use it and your fingers n mouth ...

but guys you really need to stop these types of post you all know the main reason why your getting nowhere and you all choose to ignor it and that is the fact that there are between 100 to 200 men per women thats you main problem no other problem for men come anywhere near that one main problem and with 1,000 of men joining daily and women and couples trickle on in the low number and plus those that leave then add in how many men have womens accounts and couples accounts then as you see the amount of men getting meets is very very small ...

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Women are very choosy and rightly so

forget about mr negative most women do not care about cock size me as long as average and about its fine whats more important is how you use it and your fingers n mouth ...

Very easy to say from your position of being an in demand couples account where all the effort is made towards you and you don't have to do anything but read and delete/reply depending upon how hot they are.

Women are very choosy on here, and it's an observation, not a criticism.

Why have a weird looking, shit-bodied guy like me when you can have all the handsome and chiseled guys you want

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple over a year ago

Middle England

"Very easy to say from your position of being an in demand couples account where all the effort is made towards you and you don't have to do anything but read and delete/reply depending upon how hot they are.

Women are very choosy on here, and it's an observation, not a criticism.

Why have a weird looking, shit-bodied guy like me when you can have all the handsome and chiseled guys you want"

Here we go again... Another woe is me reply. As you well know it's not about being picky or anything it's about what appeals to the individual. Mrs isn't the most body confident person herself and frankly when we go out the honed chiseled body type is not what she's after. It's about some sort of connection; whatever just clicks, the right person at the right time.

I'm fairly sure most women/couples are not wanting to try every guy on the site or are you suggesting they should just to keep you happy. It's not about being ugly, not about penis size it's just how it is. Is Mrs looking for the most toned, gym fit guy? No. Does she want a 10 inch cock inside her? No. And if your observation is that's what every woman wants you know nothing about women.

There are more men on here than women. But you can't blame the genuine couples for that. There are loads, and I make no criticism, of men in relationships on this site that don't want or choose not to play as a couple. That would have as big an impact on the number of women on here as anything. Maybe you should address that rather than having a go at the real couples on here who do play.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

"Women are very choosy and rightly so

forget about mr negative most women do not care about cock size me as long as average and about its fine whats more important is how you use it and your fingers n mouth ...

Women are very choosy on here, and it's an observation, not a criticism.

Why have a weird looking, shit-bodied guy like me when you can have all the handsome and chiseled guys you want"

Fair enough.

But still loads of single guys moan about it on here.

We simply think face facts.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No but the 420 is off putting

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Some more varied pictures and a fuller bio showing what you're looking for and what you like. This will allow people who are compatible to find you more easily. Then you'll do fine, I'm sure

Look on the bright side: you could look like me and have my tiny dick. You already have a big advantage to work on.

Cammo ever thought it's not you it's your location like I said before nothing wrong with you

You have met people, so your profile and cock size are plenty good enough to attract others it seems. Just chill, Fab is an extra to life, not actually life

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

We simply think face facts."

I already have

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

A better profile pic would help and I’m sure you can change your profile name if you are a site supporter.

Definitely lose the ‘Daddy’ from it. Most guys your age are in to a different scenario.

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple over a year ago

Somerset

Why have a weird looking, shit-bodied guy like me when you can have all the handsome and chiseled guys you want"

You have been told over and over again on multiple threads that to most people on here, cock size and looks play little part in selecting meets but you you seem to take an almost perverse pleasure in ignoring all that and doing yourself down. We look first and foremost for nice people. One thing that would put us off is negativity.

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By *minorMan over a year ago

deed

Its bot you pal, dont worry.

I too havnt had anything close to and interaction with a woman or couple on here.

I think the ratio of men to women is way off and the amount of attention they get gives them a hugely inflated sense of self. They even seem to lose basis manners/decency

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By *riel13Woman over a year ago

Northampton

Its bot you pal, dont worry.

I too havnt had anything close to and interaction with a woman or couple on here.

I think the ratio of men to women is way off and the amount of attention they get gives them a hugely inflated sense of self. They even seem to lose basis manners/decency"

It's nothing to do with how many men there are, it's the lack of women... If you think that less men means women that don't find you attractive, will with less fellas here, you are mistaken! It's nothing to do with egos

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Its bot you pal, dont worry.

I too havnt had anything close to and interaction with a woman or couple on here.

I think the ratio of men to women is way off and the amount of attention they get gives them a hugely inflated sense of self. They even seem to lose basis manners/decency"

Your profile is much more appealing than the OPs profile.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its bot you pal, dont worry.

I too havnt had anything close to and interaction with a woman or couple on here.

I think the ratio of men to women is way off and the amount of attention they get gives them a hugely inflated sense of self. They even seem to lose basis manners/decency"

*some women

And *some men have a huge entitlement attitude that makes them believe that women on here are fair game for a fuck whenever they like, regardless of preference or they throw their dummy out of the pram and become abusive.

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

Women are very choosy on here, and it's an observation, not a criticism.

Why have a weird looking, shit-bodied guy like me when you can have all the handsome and chiseled guys you want

Just green arrow him...

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them. "

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

It's a hard lesson for some of us to learn, but we get humbled by it for sure. Since joining fab, I quickly learned that I'm nowhere near the level of attractiveness and physical shape that's desired on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

So how have you got so many meets then? Pity fucks?

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

Dude..we all know, we all fucking know. You pop up everywhere and take over someones thread to remind us.

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

So how have you got so many meets then? Pity fucks? "

Mostly socials and stuff like voyeurism

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

So how have you got so many meets then? Pity fucks?

Mostly socials and stuff like voyeurism"

Sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We haven't met anyone on here

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"We haven't met anyone on here

There are some really nice looking guys on here with great bodies. I'm sure they'll find you

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By *evon_LexiWoman over a year ago

Devon

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

You seem to be doing pretty well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

You seem to be doing pretty well. "

He is, he just loves the attention and is heavily into SPH.

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

You seem to be doing pretty well. "

As I said to liverpoolgirl, mostly socials and scenarios in which i wasn't involved directly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

You seem to be doing pretty well.

He is, he just loves the attention and is heavily into SPH. "

SPH?.... Or am I dumb?!! This is Danny typing during the rugby break....!! Nothing gets in the way of my rugby?

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By *riel13Woman over a year ago

Northampton

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS over a year ago

doncaster

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

You seem to be doing pretty well.

He is, he just loves the attention and is heavily into SPH.

SPH?.... Or am I dumb?!! This is Danny typing during the rugby break....!! Nothing gets in the way of my rugby?

"
my understanding of SPH is small penis humiliation

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

For me your user name stops thinga dead.

Call me daddy? Erm no thanks

420? Not everyone loves a stoner....

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

Always an excuse when guys say this. I know average looking guys over 50 with dad bods who are very very successful on here.

Mainly due to them putting in effort getting known for the right reasons rather than whining that their dicks aren't big enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

You seem to be doing pretty well.

He is, he just loves the attention and is heavily into SPH. "

Definitely into smh.

Cammo have you ever though your outlook and *tiny" penis would make you a great potential cuck?

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

You seem to be doing pretty well.

He is, he just loves the attention and is heavily into SPH.

Definitely into smh.

Cammo have you ever though your outlook and *tiny" penis would make you a great potential cuck?

KJ"

I'm not into sph and I'm not interested in being a cuck.

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By *ccidentprone2023Man over a year ago

middlesbrough

Must be to get blocked a thousand times lol

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By *rancois Du BoisMan over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Straight off the bat, 3 reasons (remember you only need one)

1. Daddy username

2. No verifications

3. Drugs reference in username

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Do guys think that women are going to fall at their feet the minute they walk in to a bar? Fab is no different. I could be in a bar with 50 guys and not fancy any of them.

Yup average looking guy with over 150 verifications. Just very friendly

No, we learn the hard way that fab will be successfuly for only the top 5-10% of guys, as in best looking and with the best bodies and penises.

Always an excuse when guys say this. I know average looking guys over 50 with dad bods who are very very successful on here.

Mainly due to them putting in effort getting known for the right reasons rather than whining that their dicks aren't big enough"

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By *ccidentprone2023Man over a year ago

middlesbrough

Nope but its not nice when u got low self asteem and everybody ignores u and the whole site are against u

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

guys guys guys before thinking its you or its your profile or what you write why cant you just understad how many of you there are on here guys outnumber women 100/200 to one woman that single handly puts you in negative territory before you even start just by joining youur already miles behind and that is it in a nutshell ..

dont listen to the negative men on here who moan about everything listening to them will get you no where ... only being posative can work there are loads of great suggestions in how to get on the ladder not all of you will but that again is down to numbers

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

" only being posative can work "

So what is your advice to the guys who never complain and are always positive and still don't get meets?

Acting as though positivity is some kind of magic wand for fab.

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Nope but its not nice when u got low self asteem and everybody ignores u and the whole site are against u "

Just be positive, according to foxy n hubs. That'll cure all your fab problems.

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By *ccidentprone2023Man over a year ago

middlesbrough

"guys guys guys before thinking its you or its your profile or what you write why cant you just understad how many of you there are on here guys outnumber women 100/200 to one woman that single handly puts you in negative territory before you even start just by joining youur already miles behind and that is it in a nutshell ..

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even if u are positive u can still get no where "

i totally agree but you have a little more chance ... negativity/moaning will get you no where on here as most will just block just for that reason ... we've always blocked negative thinkers life to short to pay them attention

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like.

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By *ccidentprone2023Man over a year ago

middlesbrough

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

Tried doesnt always work cus always get told no one type cus of way i look cus am ugly

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By *ohn KanakaMan over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"Nope but its not nice when u got low self asteem and everybody ignores u and the whole site are against u "

The whole site aren't against you though...

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By *ohn KanakaMan over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like. "

But when single guys who are successful on here give advice you tend to dismiss that too?

But it's hardly unreasonable to suggest that being negative is unlikely to get positive results

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By *ccidentprone2023Man over a year ago

middlesbrough

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like.

But when single guys who are successful on here give advice you tend to dismiss that too?

But it's hardly unreasonable to suggest that being negative is unlikely to get positive results"

Even if u try there advice doesmt always work its always about looks people say have a pic but yet get blocked straight away more about people look than personality

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By *ammo89Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like.

But when single guys who are successful on here give advice you tend to dismiss that too?

But it's hardly unreasonable to suggest that being negative is unlikely to get positive results"

I'm very sure that most single guys who are genuinely trying are not putting anything negative in their opening message?

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By *ohn KanakaMan over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like.

But when single guys who are successful on here give advice you tend to dismiss that too?

But it's hardly unreasonable to suggest that being negative is unlikely to get positive results

Even if u try there advice doesmt always work its always about looks people say have a pic but yet get blocked straight away more about people look than personality "

I'm am okay looking 50 year old with an average body and I have never struggled ,it is not about looks. It is about connecting with people and maximising possibilities

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By *ohn KanakaMan over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like.

But when single guys who are successful on here give advice you tend to dismiss that too?

But it's hardly unreasonable to suggest that being negative is unlikely to get positive results

I'm very sure that most single guys who are genuinely trying are not putting anything negative in their opening message?"

A negative attitude is more than just how you word a message

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By *ccidentprone2023Man over a year ago

middlesbrough

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like.

But when single guys who are successful on here give advice you tend to dismiss that too?

But it's hardly unreasonable to suggest that being negative is unlikely to get positive results

I'm very sure that most single guys who are genuinely trying are not putting anything negative in their opening message?"

Women just like to pick and chose who they go for even if ur positive which u always cant be positive in life the amount women that ignors or block is pathetic cus theyhave hugh standards and dont get to know people properly cus they want a lad with muscles and six pack or an asian guy happens all the time people just dont like to admit it and block the nice them then the women complain they get messed about i was talking to some ome of here and she meet a guy and he was a dick but yet she meet him and let him turn up and complained and turned the nice guy down l

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By *ccidentprone2023Man over a year ago

middlesbrough

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like.

But when single guys who are successful on here give advice you tend to dismiss that too?

But it's hardly unreasonable to suggest that being negative is unlikely to get positive results

I'm very sure that most single guys who are genuinely trying are not putting anything negative in their opening message?

A negative attitude is more than just how you word a message"

Even if ur nice u can still get no where ive been blocked cus the way i loook millions of times so think no one is perfect even tho they think they are the blockers are the waste of space and time wasters not the nice genuine people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like.

But when single guys who are successful on here give advice you tend to dismiss that too?

But it's hardly unreasonable to suggest that being negative is unlikely to get positive results

I'm very sure that most single guys who are genuinely trying are not putting anything negative in their opening message?

A negative attitude is more than just how you word a message"

This is an outlook that permeates your character and how you carry yourself in so many ways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh we do know as i and hubs have single accounts hubs before falling ill used his singles account with great success meeting often and hardly any were socials we also have 5 guys we've known for years regulars in fact ...all 5 now over 50 none of them have gym bods none of them have massive penis's only one is 7 inches the rest 5 or 6 inches yet they all do very very well on fab but you all turn deaf ears to this yet several women on here say the same they meet dad bods they meet guys who are all sorts of size in the penis department but you moaners will still insist that women are only picking hot men with big cocks but you are totally wrong ..

have i met hot guys too right i have but ive met many many more dad bods tes ive had big cock but again most were normal size but even tho im saying this and many other women are saying this your still telling others you have to be super hot to get anywhere ..

if you guy who are negative or consantly moaning were to put the same effot into being posative well guess what you may just get somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

Tried doesnt always work cus always get told no one type cus of way i look cus am ugly "

Your not ugly at all.

If you profile said more about what your into what you can bring to a meet etc and it was compatible with our needs then based on your pictures we would consider meeting you.

Your outlook and hoe your posting in this thread would be what goes against not your looks at all.

People are drawn to those comfortable in their own skin. Have personality and charisma. The most successful single guys we know are average looking with average size cocks.

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By *ccidentprone2023Man over a year ago

middlesbrough

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like.

But when single guys who are successful on here give advice you tend to dismiss that too?

But it's hardly unreasonable to suggest that being negative is unlikely to get positive results

I'm very sure that most single guys who are genuinely trying are not putting anything negative in their opening message?

A negative attitude is more than just how you word a message

This is an outlook that permeates your character and how you carry yourself in so many ways.

KJ"

My charachters are fine thank you its just other people ego and think there better than u when they aint just cus ur not there type doesnt mean u cant be good at other things it aint just a sex site u can chat and make friends but people seem to forget that and judge peoplr on way they look maybe if people where given half a chance they woukd have more confidence and like them selves this site aint even as good as use to be its more about looks and egos and bodies now a days than personalitu some people just dont like the truth evdn if u take others advice it wont change how u look will it no cus people aint attracted to u is always seem to get cus there expexting high stanrds but people are forgettkng it aint about looks

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By *ccidentprone2023Man over a year ago

middlesbrough

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

Tried doesnt always work cus always get told no one type cus of way i look cus am ugly

Your not ugly at all.

If you profile said more about what your into what you can bring to a meet etc and it was compatible with our needs then based on your pictures we would consider meeting you.

Your outlook and hoe your posting in this thread would be what goes against not your looks at all.

People are drawn to those comfortable in their own skin. Have personality and charisma. The most successful single guys we know are average looking with average size cocks.

Whats the point in putting anything when u put the effort in and u just ignored anyways or blockrd so whats the point in trying its a waste of time this site is so messed and shouldnt exist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

and i can totally see why no ones interested now ... people block for a reason theres always a rerason and they do it so they dont have to keep saying no thanks or they just dont want that person to look at there profile ..those blockers you refere to a the real people who really meet and play ... we block we meet weekly and sometimes several times a week so some timewasters we are eh lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like. "

Countless examples of males from fab couples have told you they started out on Fab as a single male, we're very successful and meet the current partner on Fab who they now form the couple with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

Tried doesnt always work cus always get told no one type cus of way i look cus am ugly

Your not ugly at all.

If you profile said more about what your into what you can bring to a meet etc and it was compatible with our needs then based on your pictures we would consider meeting you.

Your outlook and hoe your posting in this thread would be what goes against not your looks at all.

People are drawn to those comfortable in their own skin. Have personality and charisma. The most successful single guys we know are average looking with average size cocks.

Whats the point in putting anything when u put the effort in and u just ignored anyways or blockrd so whats the point in trying its a waste of time this site is so messed and shouldnt exist"

Are you successful in meeting women in the real world?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even if u are positive u can still get no where

So easy to say when you're a couple on fab, the most sought after group on the site.

Easy to give advice to single guys when you have no idea what it's actually like.

But when single guys who are successful on here give advice you tend to dismiss that too?

But it's hardly unreasonable to suggest that being negative is unlikely to get positive results

I'm very sure that most single guys who are genuinely trying are not putting anything negative in their opening message?

A negative attitude is more than just how you word a message

You’re not doing yourself any favours with a status like this.

‘ Think am the only real person on here cus no one actualy talks all robots’

We all have preferences. Just because you send a nice message does not guarantee anything.

As someone else has said many people don’t just go on looks alone. It’s how you make the connection with people in messages and in the forums that will also help people decide if they want to meet you.

Personally the way you’ve interacted in this thread is a huge time off for me.

Fab for many single guys here is a challenge. It’s just the way it is.

If you’re not having any luck perhaps rethink your approach.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

but many us included are not on here to chat to people we have no intention of meeting ?

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By *ccidentprone2023Man over a year ago

middlesbrough

The time wasters are blockers and dont know how to hold a conversation and nobody is perfect just some people like to judge and dont give a chance and any wonder why people are like this when they are genuine and not given a chance by no one when ur a nice person and people cant see that its more about looks now a days or being black