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By *d1981 OP Man
over a year ago
Sheffield |
Hi I have been on here for just over a year now, & I have been to a few club nights at the attic in derby, I'm friendly with people, & have chatted to a few couples there & even had a play with a few, but when I've asked if they could verify me on here they don't seem to want to, & I don't want to push people, but I'm just not getting any responses or meets on here, is it something I'm doing wrong or is my profile bad. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Or he can ask a question of his own on a thread.
If you don't want to give advice that's your choice, but it may be best to leave the thread to people who might want to rather than tell posters to search instead or people might feel like they can't post |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
You've decided to post face pictures on your profile but in my opinion they are too varied and dont give people an impression of what you look like now...you say you have a beard..so hide the ones of you without a beard and post one with the beard
Do they tell you that they don't post any verifications or just not one for you ..... |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"Hi I have been on here for just over a year now, & I have been to a few club nights at the attic in derby, I'm friendly with people, & have chatted to a few couples there & even had a play with a few, but when I've asked if they could verify me on here they don't seem to want to, & I don't want to push people, but I'm just not getting any responses or meets on here, is it something I'm doing wrong or is my profile bad."
Some people are reluctant to verify club meets as it might be quite a brief interaction?
Have you asked the staff at the Attic or if its a specific night the hosts of they could verify you? A lot of the clubs around here do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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swinging is an attraction game not just a sex game dont get me wrong attraction is not the only thing but until you catch someones eye then nothing will happen factor in how many guys are also looking for the same as you then you have you work cut out to stand out ..
people give veris in clubs normally if they have played sometimes after a long chat but asking for one may come across desperate ...
you are one of many in a sea of sausage offering to meet only a small pool of women and couples ..its swinging not a free sex for everyone site |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"I have had quite a few meets on here, but I would not ask people to verify me after just one meet or even 2 or 3, I think they need to get to know you "
Surely someone can verify that you're the person your profile says you are, and that you turned up to a meet, just from one verification. What more does additional meets provide? Or are you looking for reviews instead of verifications?
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"Hi I have been on here for just over a year now, & I have been to a few club nights at the attic in derby, I'm friendly with people, & have chatted to a few couples there & even had a play with a few, but when I've asked if they could verify me on here they don't seem to want to, & I don't want to push people, but I'm just not getting any responses or meets on here, is it something I'm doing wrong or is my profile bad."
I hope it's just been bad luck, as we'd never not verify someone from a club if they asked.
The cynic in me wonders about some people only verifying people that they've met that fit into the classic "top 10%" as they are aware that people check to see who's played with who before. Someone may put on their profile that they only play with gym-fit guys, so won't verify someone of a different shape.
Have you tried looking through the club reviews in the days after your visit, seeing if anyone you recognise has reviewed it, and dropping a polite note to them?
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