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Am I a black man or white man?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This question is mainly for single women and couples . The tittle sounds daft, but for ages I have been thinking am I a black man or white man?. Im a light mixed race lad but When someone states on there profile only looking for black men or only white men what catogary do I fall into....?  Tell me couples and singles what you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What do you define yourself as ?
Go with that - it is much safer than using other peoples interpretations !
All I would say is have a pic to show, so that it allows the recipient to make their own mind up.
You never know, you might be lucky enough to fall into both camps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think, as you said yourself, that mixed race is your answer.
I guess you really want to know who to message, some profiles do say they are interested in mixed race, but given the choice of black or white and nothing else, I would think you fall under the category of black IMO |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd fall into the black man catogary. I have pictures just don't have a display picture you never no who may come across your profile lol "
Sorry, to clarify, I meant to attach a pic to any messages you send out.
Obviously everyone has the right to not show face pics (or any pics) publically. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This question is mainly for single women and couples . The tittle sounds daft, but for ages I have been thinking am I a black man or white man?. Im a light mixed race lad but When someone states on there profile only looking for black men or only white men what catogary do I fall into....? Tell me couples and singles what you think?"
Whatever gets you the meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually, this has made me think about something.
On the sister site, Fabguys, one of the criteria under the 'personal details' bit of a profile is 'race', with the profile owner being able to choose from :
caucasian (white)
black
mixed race
hispanic
middle eastern
asian, and
south asian
I wonder why this is an option on one site but not on the other ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This question is mainly for single women and couples . The tittle sounds daft, but for ages I have been thinking am I a black man or white man?. Im a light mixed race lad but When someone states on there profile only looking for black men or only white men what catogary do I fall into....? Tell me couples and singles what you think?"
Ours says mixed raced guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually, this has made me think about something.
On the sister site, Fabguys, one of the criteria under the 'personal details' bit of a profile is 'race', with the profile owner being able to choose from :
caucasian (white)
black
mixed race
hispanic
middle eastern
asian, and
south asian
I wonder why this is an option on one site but not on the other ?"
same on fabflirts when I was on there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd fall into the black man catogary. I have pictures just don't have a display picture you never no who may come across your profile lol "
We see this type of reply, several times a day, on forums but the obvious truth is this:
If you only send a pic with a message or open your private gallery to "Friends" you never know where those pics will end up either.
So doing either of the above kind of cancels any previous caution out don't you think?
Best to just publish and be damned, either way you're arse is hanging out of the window. 
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well yr profile says chocolate but doesnt say whether its milk chocolate or dark chocolate so no answer there and no pics on public profile so no answer there. It has been said that B men have the biggest cocks so measure it and go by that lolol have fun whichever colour you are xxx Cat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This question is mainly for single women and couples . The tittle sounds daft, but for ages I have been thinking am I a black man or white man?. Im a light mixed race lad but When someone states on there profile only looking for black men or only white men what catogary do I fall into....? Tell me couples and singles what you think?"
From experience ...anything that goes towards black and away from white is considered 'black' - Look at Obama for example - he's described as America's first black president - yet his mother was white - for the sake of argument he could just as legitimately be described as white, as he can be described as black - if we're merely talking about heritage - the important thing is how you see yourself. Just make a picture available |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Defo not a milky bar or Michael Jackson although it did make me laugh, may ill let people see my pics let them decide,,have decided I fall into both catogaries,lol  |
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Have a pic of your arse or stomach on your profile... One taken in good light so people can make up their own mind regarding your colour and whether you fit their definition or not...
A picture is worth a thousand words remember!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm mixed race(as in Caribbeanish/white heritage), I'd say I'm generally of an asian colour, my facial features are negroid(fuller lips and big nostrils), I dont have a problem professing which race I'm viewed as or justifying where I fit into preferences for play.Either way people will be attracted from a combination of features or personality..I just accept I wont be everyones taste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's like someone saying they want blondes but don't specify a shade.
I'd just send them a "hello" and a pic explaining your position and let them make their own mind up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's like someone saying they want blondes but don't specify a shade.
I'd just send them a "hello" and a pic explaining your position and let them make their own mind up."
.yeah that's what I do they can see by my pics I'm quite light, but 9 times out of ten they delete the messages anyway lol  |
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By *BC TWOCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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They ask for Black Only or White Only and since you are neither black nor white you don't fall into that category.
But then again why would you want to meet sombody1 that only sees you for the colour you are even if its just their "preference"?
Better to go for people who look at you as a person |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They ask for Black Only or White Only and since you are neither black nor white you don't fall into that category.
But then again why would you want to meet sombody1 that only sees you for the colour you are even if its just their "preference"?
True but have to be attracted to the person also, looks wise.
Better to go for people who look at you as a person"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey buddy,
I have been on/off site for a few years.
For all intents and purposes on this site us mulatto men are black I'd argue.
Certainly one or two meets I've had are directly related to my non-white origins.
However as someone said earlier, if you aren't cool with that meet someone who is into you for you where colour is irrelevant.
But a pic is a must. This isn't blind date, let them look and decide.
I'm not fab trisha by the way, i'm just saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's wrong is this: Attaching labels to individuals, whether 'white', 'black' Asian' etc etc. Perhaps it's easier that we all get some grips, avoid chippy shoulders and 'victim' awards (!) and just judge individuals as they are. Twats and lovely folks come in all 'shades, 'nationalities', religions etc etc. It's pretty simple really  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Best of both worlds ayy. Don't thinking people are attaching people everyone has there preference really white or black fat or think, dark hair blonde hair just seeing where what catogary I fall into but I'm saying black men lol |
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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago
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"What's wrong is this: Attaching labels to individuals, whether 'white', 'black' Asian' etc etc. Perhaps it's easier that we all get some grips, avoid chippy shoulders and 'victim' awards (!) and just judge individuals as they are. Twats and lovely folks come in all 'shades, 'nationalities', religions etc etc. It's pretty simple really "
couldn't agree more with that,iv always judged people individually as you will find good+bad anywhere in the world from my experience |
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