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Gents don't be suprised
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A lady I met yesterday showed me how many messages, unopened , she had from fab .
So gents don't be suprised if you don't get a response , she had 950 unopened messages.....
You never know you may get lucky but we are in a vast majority here ...
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over a year ago
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There are plenty of ways to reduce the amount of messages one gets, by applying the appropriate filters.
Apart from applying as many appropriate filters, one can make him/herself unsearchable to reduce unwanted attention even further.
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"If didn't open my mail for two days and had over 300. It's mad lol. And my daughter on her first week had over a thousand messages"
You and your daughter will have a much broader appeal than us old 'uns, lucky you  |
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"If didn't open my mail for two days and had over 300. It's mad lol. And my daughter on her first week had over a thousand messages
You and your daughter will have a much broader appeal than us old 'uns, lucky you "
i dunno. nothing wrong with experience |
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"If didn't open my mail for two days and had over 300. It's mad lol. And my daughter on her first week had over a thousand messages
You and your daughter will have a much broader appeal than us old 'uns, lucky you "
I didnt say much of what I got was any good..lol..
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"There are plenty of ways to reduce the amount of messages one gets, by applying the appropriate filters.
Apart from applying as many appropriate filters, one can make him/herself unsearchable to reduce unwanted attention even further.
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"If didn't open my mail for two days and had over 300. It's mad lol. And my daughter on her first week had over a thousand messages
You and your daughter will have a much broader appeal than us old 'uns, lucky you
i dunno. nothing wrong with experience"
That's very true  |
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"If didn't open my mail for two days and had over 300. It's mad lol. And my daughter on her first week had over a thousand messages
You and your daughter will have a much broader appeal than us old 'uns, lucky you
I didnt say much of what I got was any good..lol..
cali"
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"I know this probably won't go down too well, but I personally think ladies could do themselves big favours by using the available filters. And save themselves a lot of the hassles and the hundreds of messages.
But think about it, do you really want guys of 21 and 99, and all in between? A wee bit of common sense wouldn't go amiss!!
Just my humble opinion! "
I agree! A few times I've seen comments saying that they receive loads of messages from others they wouldn't consider because of age etc. and I tend to think they enjoy 'moaning' about all the messages! (Not meaning anyone on this thread, just something I've noticed over the last few weeks!) |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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I got at least 6 pages of messages in just the first day or two of being here. Took me ages to clear them as I was being polite.
Then I discovered filters, and re-wrote my profile to appeal only to certain people. That has made my messages far more manageable and mainly from those who fit the criteria I am looking for, at the very least. |
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"She had 950 unopened messages.... "
If I didn't open or delete my messages I too would eventually have 950 of my own. (It would take a fair while, but it's a mathematical certainty.)
Will that entitle me to put up a warning message to females and couples?
My opinion is she was saving them up so that she could show somebody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She had 950 unopened messages....
If I didn't open or delete my messages I too would eventually have 950 of my own. (It would take a fair while, but it's a mathematical certainty.)
Will that entitle me to put up a warning message to females and couples?
My opinion is she was saving them up so that she could show somebody. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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A friend of ours did a single female profile, no pic, just saying " having a look and will fill in later " she left it as Eastenders was starting, watched Eastenders and came back to it and had over 100 messages, 2 hrs later 200+ .
She came off and told us she couldnt deal with all the messages. These werent just from single guys but couples too.  |
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Met a 'lady' off my previous site who had a large number of unread messages in her inbox too - nothing like 950 though, think it was more like 500.
While we were having a coffee and she showed my them on her phone, I just looked at her, left a 'pregnant pause' and asked '.. and the reason you haven't opened them is...? Hmmmm....?' She changed the subject... Needless to say, I didn't buy her a second coffee....
Think some peoples need for validation manifests itself in some strange ways.....
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"Wow now i realise why i dont get many responses from ladies ! Is it really worth being here if a single guy and seems there are a few fake profiles too  "
Yes it is, as there are plenty of guys on here who DO get meets and find what they are looking for. But... it is a war of attrition - the more effort you put in and the longer you keep going, the more chance you have of succeeding.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow now i realise why i dont get many responses from ladies ! Is it really worth being here if a single guy and seems there are a few fake profiles too "
Noooooooooooo not worth it. Certainly don't waste precious time messaging anybody. They will find you if they want you |
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"Met a 'lady' off my previous site who had a large number of unread messages in her inbox too - nothing like 950 though, think it was more like 500.
While we were having a coffee and she showed my them on her phone, I just looked at her, left a 'pregnant pause' and asked '.. and the reason you haven't opened them is...? Hmmmm....?' She changed the subject... Needless to say, I didn't buy her a second coffee....
Think some peoples need for validation manifests itself in some strange ways.....
Pork"
Totally agree, that just sounds like a massive ego trip for her. Things with that is, it's just wasting a lot of peoples time messaging her if shes got no intention of ever replying. |
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