"Do you mean that one half pulls out of a meet but the other half still wants to go ahead with it??"
I'm thinking one half is saying that they no longer what to continue swinging as a couple and would rather play solo. |
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"Do you mean that one half pulls out of a meet but the other half still wants to go ahead with it??
I'm thinking one half is saying that they no longer what to continue swinging as a couple and would rather play solo. "
I was in a couple and she played at a club alone which was outside our agreement. It basically ruined the relationship I cut everything off so don’t see her now at all, it killed it for me |
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I can imagine that would be a pretty difficult situation unless one half is happy for the other half to continue to play solo.
Our agreement is that if one loses interest in swinging then we stop.
In theory all well and good. The reality may well be different.
Viv |
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We have always done this together, but have had periods when for vanilla reasons one of us wasn’t into it. We both stand down then, and if we want to start again we do it together.
We all have different circumstances and different feelings. We’d recommend talking about what you want and sharing your feelings with each other. Fab life should just be a bit of extra fun  |
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We go alone to clubs and together. We sometimes are a little miss matched in our desire to enjoy the scene at different times but in general we love to share it with each other. So we are not in the same boat exactly. I think as long as you are secure together, communicate and respect eachothers desires everything should be ok. Your with each other because you love each other and that includes their desires and sexuality. Naturally that's probably a bit more easier said than done depending on how the respective individuals feel, I get that. But hopefully you can talk it through and find a way forward where everyones desires and needs are respected and supported. |
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