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someone that thinks they know me ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well thought id just ask for some advice on what others would do..i have had a message recently from a guy who i messaged back and said thanks but no thanks have fun stay safe ect..he then sent me a few mails back which were very abusive and threatening and says that he knows me ? i have reported him 2 admin but im very reluctant now to show people my face just incase they arent who they say they are ..i want to stay on the site and carry on having fun any advice on how to get round this plz  xxx |
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There really are some freaks, no one wants to be threatened or abused and I suppose that some people have more to lose than others - ie, lying to partners, cheating etc but it's no one elses business really - glad you reported him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There could be a couple more avenues to go down........raise your age limit,older guys on the whole can handle rejection better than younger ones,they're more used to it and usually less arrogant.
Also,only ever reply to profiles with face pics and state that on your profile,that way you'll recognise them if you know them.
Also you'll know if your likely to fancy them. 
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ignore him,you will find that some guys cannot cope with rejection and will be abusive,we have had this a couple of times,just block him and report him,admin will sort out as they did when it happened to us.
Try not to worry about it xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i do only ask to see a face pic before i chat but as this idiot stated to me i could send him any pic so the pic he has put on here obviously isnt his thanks for advice xx |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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I agree
Block him
And keep doing it if he pops up in another disguise.
I have 1 who reguarly turns up in my in box, on the day he joined the site, he says hi, by the time I reply, his account is deleted...go figure |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have blocked al newbies now so that should keep him at bay for a while anyway..ive also explained the situation to potential mets and they seem happy to wait until i dont feel so vunerable and am ready to meet again which is gd ..thanks for the advice xxxx |
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You could also play the double bluff card if required and tell him that he should know you and you remember him too. So how would his friends and family like to know what he got up to? Wouldnt let it worry you, he is obviously annoyed that he doesnt have a new pic to wank over. Xx |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"definately a bluff
so many guys cannot take rejection babe
chin up xx"
Statistically, women are worse at handling rejection. I told one lady this week "I don't think this is going anywhere so I'll leave you be - Happy Swinging" and she replied with "Your loss".
I sent back "I can't see what ammissing out on as you've been reluctant to show me your face after 6 emails requesting so - despite seeing mine hence why you emailed me in the first place."
I honestly believe a lot of women "expect" men to come running. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"definately a bluff
so many guys cannot take rejection babe
chin up xx
Statistically, women are worse at handling rejection. I told one lady this week "I don't think this is going anywhere so I'll leave you be - Happy Swinging" and she replied with "Your loss".
I sent back "I can't see what ammissing out on as you've been reluctant to show me your face after 6 emails requesting so - despite seeing mine hence why you emailed me in the first place."
I honestly believe a lot of women "expect" men to come running."
Could have possibly been a guy with a fem profile.
That could be why "she" didnt want to send you a pic. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"definately a bluff
so many guys cannot take rejection babe
chin up xx
Statistically, women are worse at handling rejection. I told one lady this week "I don't think this is going anywhere so I'll leave you be - Happy Swinging" and she replied with "Your loss".
I sent back "I can't see what ammissing out on as you've been reluctant to show me your face after 6 emails requesting so - despite seeing mine hence why you emailed me in the first place."
I honestly believe a lot of women "expect" men to come running.
Could have possibly been a guy with a fem profile.
That could be why "she" didnt want to send you a pic."
Oh I know that - I just wanted him to prove me wrong |
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