Talking about sexual interests and fantasies is a good idea, to open up and to make things less pressured. It's not entirely honest, if you have an ulterior agenda.
You need to be prepared that a partner may not share your interests. If you have agreed monogamy, then it may be a tough situation, if you're unfaithful already, for example.
Opening up about sexual interests is a healthy thing, even if you don't swing at any point. Go at their pace. |
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"I'm wondering how you, introduced the idea of swinging to your partner, assuming they had no previous experience in it ( but maybe you did). "
You have been on here without her for over a year.
Show her this profile. |
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