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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For years I, like many I'm sure, fantasised about going to a sex club
In october 2019 I went to the Bi party in Eureka...i happened to be working in the area and needed to stay somewhere!
I met some great people and enjoyed the nudity, the chatand seeing boobs bob about in the hot tub
After chatting to a (good looking) couple for a while they invited me to play
I watched for a few mins then the man invited me to join.
I couldn't get it up
Never happened before
But the whole thing felt like an out of body experience. I felt detached.
The woman coaxed me to an orgasm but it was unfulfilling...for her I'm sure but certainly for me.
Anyone else found reality didn't do what you expected..??  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Went a week later...kareoke party!
Sang 'la bamba'....which went down well...but turnout was low so aside from a singsong and a flirt with the barmaid not much going on...
...then c19 came along
Had plenty of 1-1 meets which have gone well |
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My very first time swinging as a couple with another couple - my partner was giving the other guy a blowjob and he was HUGE!
I was not *consciously* threatened by that at all. In fact, I was thrilled for my partner. However, clearly something was going on in my mind, as I couldn't get it up.
That happened again for the next few meets, but eventually I settled into it and the issue resolved on its own. |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
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"My very first time swinging as a couple with another couple - my partner was giving the other guy a blowjob and he was HUGE! "
To be fair, that's the only occasion where I'd really struggle. No way I'm going to be able to please a woman compared to a monster cock. Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had experiences the other way around. I’m naturally a bit queeny and “hard work” so struggle to drop my guard with strangers. But there been some CNC borderline times which..we’re amazing and I kinda hate myself for saying that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For years I, like many I'm sure, fantasised about going to a sex club
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maybe had you thought of it as a swingers club rather than a sex club ... sex is not on a plate in a swingers club big difference to sex club and swingers club |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For years I, like many I'm sure, fantasised about going to a sex club
maybe had you thought of it as a swingers club rather than a sex club ... sex is not on a plate in a swingers club big difference to sex club and swingers club"
That's a good point
And i cottoned onto that
But i was offered sex.... |
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"My very first time swinging as a couple with another couple - my partner was giving the other guy a blowjob and he was HUGE!
To be fair, that's the only occasion where I'd really struggle. No way I'm going to be able to please a woman compared to a monster cock. Haha "
Well, that's simply not true. However, I know from other threads of yours how much of an issue this is for you and how many people have told you it needn't be. |
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