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am i just that unaproachable?
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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Dear Kurt
Your profile sounds to me as if you consider yourself god's gift to women. It comes across haughty and self-satisfied, as if we women should be grateful that you have made yourself available . . .
Just my opinion.
Good luck
Jane x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes you sound like a pompus ass to be perfectly honest i think you should rewrite it, as a fem i would block you straight away if you mailed us
Really some people!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm changing myself to athletic now after checkin the pics...
5 weeks if thats how long uve been on...well...calm the fuck downs my best advice"
With an atitude like his its gonna need 5 bloody years!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm changing myself to athletic now after checkin the pics...
5 weeks if thats how long uve been on...well...calm the fuck downs my best advice
With an atitude like his its gonna need 5 bloody years!!!!"
u saying its gonna take me 5 years to get athletic???...bloody cheek!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im sorry every one, but thats CRAP! have you lot seen most of these womens profiles? and you're all trying to say that i think im too cocky?! im just honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh, I love these threads. OP asks why they aren't getting meets, and when told by women, the group of people he wants meets with, why his profile isn't popular, he declares that they are all talking nonsense.
Brilliant!!
OP, it is you not getting meets, not us. Take the advice, or carry on doing the same and expecting different results. There's a word for that, you know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to agree with the other posters in that your profile is not really warm and appealing.
There's a lot of negativity in there. If you like your profile then brilliant, don't change anything at all. You've admitted on this thread though that your not having the results you want.
There's changes to be made, attitude to swinging, maturity etc, get thinking on how you can write a profile which will make women want to come and get you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im sorry every one, but thats CRAP! have you lot seen most of these womens profiles? and you're all trying to say that i think im too cocky?! im just honest "
Oh, so we're all wrong and YOU are right, are you? You'll go a long way in Swinging with an attitude like that...
Think you need to look up the term 'Self-effacing' and take it on board - PROPERLY. Oh, and by the way, where when you joined Fabs did it say that women will rush to message you, want to meet you, want to rip your kit off and fuck your brains out? Hmmmm...?
This is NOT 'Insta-Shag.com'....
 Pork |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think its arrogant; its a typical cocky young lads profile. The spelling mistakes would put me off and it needs more about you, your likes/dislikes, what particular woman you are looking for ie slim etc. Lots of face pictures is great but it needs more like a torso and bum picture. You cannot accommodate, does that mean you still live at home with your parents? If so are you willing to pay for a hotel? What about clubs and socials? And you have only been here 5 weeks, most guys wait months because they are patient
Good luck and welcome to Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me BOI is the way a gay/bi guy spells BOY... Which is why I wouldn't look at the profile and block before reading. Call me what you want with that. Just my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arrogant? Up himself??? There is 'nothing' wrong with your profile ?!!!! It's perfectly ok in my eyes !!! & it makes a change to see some nice face pics, & not full on cock shots. !!!
Give this guy a break people ..... |
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Op's of these types of threads seldom take notice of the advice they ask for. Your initial retort was expected so a mighty  for taking the advice offered.
Your profile is 100% better!
Well done you and good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm changing myself to athletic now after checkin the pics...
5 weeks if thats how long uve been on...well...calm the fuck downs my best advice"
Going on his profile I would change your pics to very muscular and fit , ang I should change mine to monster ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take the OP has changed his profile as it certainly isn't arrogant now. It's now a generic young mans profile with the usual spelling mistakes.  "
yes, it's been completely re-written  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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profile looks ok to me. I suspect the lack of meets is down to not being able to accomodate and only looking for females within a fairly narrow age range. good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for. Ms |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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Your re-written profile is still all about what YOU want, and that YOU are ever so good. . .
I am usually very patient and tolerant with young newbies but you are still putting me off. ( Not that you would want to meet me in any case, phew !)
Good luck
Jane |
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I had the same problem but with the kind advice of a number of fellow members, I rewrote my profile and changed my profile pics. The majority of what they said made sense and hopefully I wont come over as a complete arse any more. Have a look at the new to swinging bit. The people that have been on here for a while know what they are talking about. Ive only been on here for three weks myself with no takers and with a bit of constructive criticism, I know why now. Best of luck buddy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not to bad of a profile ive seen worse but 1 thing that will put some members off is the... carnt acomm as in the middle of decorating and will let you no when that changes....some mite smell a rat (wife,g/f) stuff like that.
will come back in 5 more weeks to check your profile to see if the decorating has finished lol but good luck to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im sorry every one, but thats CRAP! have you lot seen most of these womens profiles? and you're all trying to say that i think im too cocky?! im just honest "
One thing you may have not noticed. Theres a lot more men than women so men need to sell themselves. And as nature intends us blokes are horny little buggers and will message nearly every woman to get a meet. The women can affird to be choosy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not to bad of a profile ive seen worse but 1 thing that will put some members off is the... carnt acomm as in the middle of decorating and will let you no when that changes....some mite smell a rat (wife,g/f) stuff like that.
will come back in 5 more weeks to check your profile to see if the decorating has finished lol but good luck to you "
Or he lives with his mum lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not to bad of a profile ive seen worse but 1 thing that will put some members off is the... carnt acomm as in the middle of decorating and will let you no when that changes....some mite smell a rat (wife,g/f) stuff like that.
will come back in 5 more weeks to check your profile to see if the decorating has finished lol but good luck to you "
Looks like he ran off with the decorator! |
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