Ok so I wanted to get everyone’s opinion and to validate my thought process and if I’m approaching this right.
I’m a single guy looking for a bit of anything so my search is broad and open to most.
I find a profile of a couple who had a relatively big age gap with the f not yet 20.
She is hot as balls and wants a g-bang. Profile states not long term partner or something on those lines.
Mobile online 1800miles away but within 10 to profile.. they say m on holiday f at home.
They want to talk on what’s app but haven’t given names, just sent a phone number. Face pics exchanged but some are screenshots.
Now, I say before we do what’s app, can you send me a photo of you holding a spoon or a toothbrush, which in my head was reasonable (and it worked with my first meet, she sent a fork and received her own forking a bit later) and they decline.
Say they don’t need to, I’m in not position to ask for stuff (I have meet verification) (they say the admin green tick is plenty) and say take it or leave it. So I say coffee first and they don’t reply.
So my question is this, am I being too cautious when faced with a great offer, asking for extra proof checks, or is my request(which I 100% reciprocate) reasonable and justified given the info?
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Think your being cautious and that's good cause they or he sounds suspicious they can get pics from anywhere on the Internet I always suggest a short video to say hi we're such and such and we're pleased to meet you!sounds to me a guy trying to push his luck! Just remember you don't know these ppl from Adam! And it's always good to be cautious...if they can't do the simplest things! Then I'd take that as a red flag...and cut your losses x cjx |
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"Ok so I wanted to get everyone’s opinion and to validate my thought process and if I’m approaching this right.
I’m a single guy looking for a bit of anything so my search is broad and open to most.
I find a profile of a couple who had a relatively big age gap with the f not yet 20.
She is hot as balls and wants a g-bang. Profile states not long term partner or something on those lines.
Mobile online 1800miles away but within 10 to profile.. they say m on holiday f at home.
They want to talk on what’s app but haven’t given names, just sent a phone number. Face pics exchanged but some are screenshots.
Now, I say before we do what’s app, can you send me a photo of you holding a spoon or a toothbrush, which in my head was reasonable (and it worked with my first meet, she sent a fork and received her own forking a bit later) and they decline.
Say they don’t need to, I’m in not position to ask for stuff (I have meet verification) (they say the admin green tick is plenty) and say take it or leave it. So I say coffee first and they don’t reply.
So my question is this, am I being too cautious when faced with a great offer, asking for extra proof checks, or is my request(which I 100% reciprocate) reasonable and justified given the info?
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 the mobile thing being 1800 miles away is a massive red flag. Run, run a bit more and then when you feel like you’ve run far enough, go a bit further. This is gonna end badly if you give them any info about you. |
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over a year ago
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Sounds like you are being messed around.
That is my (owl's) opinion.
Moreover it is your choice and you take responsibility for your own choices. If you decide to not go on my advice and you find out later it would have been for real then that is your choice. If you do go and it is a mess around that is also down to you. Predators prey upon the vulnerable and desperate people become sexually vulnerable and are open to being treated badly.
I feel that your request for a picture holding a spoon was a good option by the way. |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
Sharing a screenshot instead of face pic is RED RED flag. I wouldn’t bother to talk after it at all.
Firstly: Stupidity is a huge turn off and person who can’t trim screenshot properly before sending is not the wisest one
Secondly: there million of ways to get a proper photo within second this days. If people can’t do it - they most likely have no intention to meet |
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"Ok so I wanted to get everyone’s opinion and to validate my thought process and if I’m approaching this right.
I’m a single guy looking for a bit of anything so my search is broad and open to most.
I find a profile of a couple who had a relatively big age gap with the f not yet 20.
She is hot as balls and wants a g-bang. Profile states not long term partner or something on those lines.
Mobile online 1800miles away but within 10 to profile.. they say m on holiday f at home.
They want to talk on what’s app but haven’t given names, just sent a phone number. Face pics exchanged but some are screenshots.
Now, I say before we do what’s app, can you send me a photo of you holding a spoon or a toothbrush, which in my head was reasonable (and it worked with my first meet, she sent a fork and received her own forking a bit later) and they decline.
Say they don’t need to, I’m in not position to ask for stuff (I have meet verification) (they say the admin green tick is plenty) and say take it or leave it. So I say coffee first and they don’t reply.
So my question is this, am I being too cautious when faced with a great offer, asking for extra proof checks, or is my request(which I 100% reciprocate) reasonable and justified given the info?
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UPDATE——————————————————
First off, thanks to everyone who replied, took me ages but I think I’ve read everyone’s messages and I’m happy that I’m not alone in my view.
For anyone interested, when I offered to go for a day time coffee, non committed, the reply was “no we don’t do that, just send her a Whats app and she’ll probably send the picture you want” so that was the final red flag as if I needed anymore.
Won’t be replying to that one
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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago
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When i first joined and a little wet between the ears and eager to start meeting i got suckered into the same sort of thing as you've mentioned i arranged to meet a couple and when arriving at the address given there was a guy on a computer in the window grinning from ear to ear and another guy answered the door. Not knowing anything about this couple i was meant to meet so i left and noticed the guy in the window smirking at me as i exited the garden. I learnt from that first mistake and wont make the same again. Lessons to be learnt. |
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"Ok so I wanted to get everyone’s opinion and to validate my thought process and if I’m approaching this right.
I’m a single guy looking for a bit of anything so my search is broad and open to most.
I find a profile of a couple who had a relatively big age gap with the f not yet 20.
She is hot as balls and wants a g-bang. Profile states not long term partner or something on those lines.
Mobile online 1800miles away but within 10 to profile.. they say m on holiday f at home.
They want to talk on what’s app but haven’t given names, just sent a phone number. Face pics exchanged but some are screenshots.
Now, I say before we do what’s app, can you send me a photo of you holding a spoon or a toothbrush, which in my head was reasonable (and it worked with my first meet, she sent a fork and received her own forking a bit later) and they decline.
Say they don’t need to, I’m in not position to ask for stuff (I have meet verification) (they say the admin green tick is plenty) and say take it or leave it. So I say coffee first and they don’t reply.
So my question is this, am I being too cautious when faced with a great offer, asking for extra proof checks, or is my request(which I 100% reciprocate) reasonable and justified given the info?
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You can never be too cautious imo whether you're male or female
Everyone on here is a complete stranger and has the potential to be an axe murderer
Most guys would of still just gone along with it so it's good that you acknowledged something is wrong and stopped communication |
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nah,something dodgy there 