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By *isa2018 OP Couple
over a year ago
East Northamptonshire |
We have had a lot of fun with some single guys, having one extra lots of times and ow having tried two.
As others do I'm sure, we find it very hard to find either another straight lady, or a suitable couple with 4 way attraction.
We would like to find a straight lady that likes to play with another ladies husband together with the wife, just like we do with single straight guys. Does a thing even exist? Do ladies enjoy that kind of thing like guys do?
Other than that we keep looking for that elusive couple where we can all play together, maybe even with an extra guy as well to give the two ladies 3 gents between them.
Most couples and ladies seem to want to bi play with the wife, and that is something that S sadly has no interest in. It would be much easier if she did as that seems much more common. |
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From previous experience, I’ve found ladies like to have “the best of both” when it comes to couples. If a lady wanted guy only play, she has plenty to choose from on here, without the possible complications of playing with a couple where the female has no interest in bi play. Maybe why finding a female to play in a threesome but male play only might not be as appealing. |
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Now we are the complete opposite. Were a straight couple who only my missus "P" plays and i love to watch, P has joined a few couples before and she really enjoyed it as did i. But every couple we meet the ladie is bi and wants my missus to play with both of them. She doesn't mind touching, kissing but she is completely straight and loves sharing another mans cock
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By *vi8PairCouple
over a year ago
Greater London/ Manchester |
I (female) am bi but can play straight if needs be… I’d have to be incredibly attracted to the male in the couple for that to happen though, and it almost never does! 90% of the time I am very attracted to the lady in a couple, not so much to the guy… 
A full swap is always an option but then again, it’s getting that 4-way attraction which is quite difficult to find…
We’ve found clubs are a good option. 
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By *isa2018 OP Couple
over a year ago
East Northamptonshire |
"Why would a woman prefer to "help pamper hubby" than have fun herself ? "
There are guys that primarily like to give pleasure. I get off on getting S excited. S also enjoys the same for guys. Of course, it's not saying that the lady isn't going to receive any attention herself, but it is just asking the question if there are ladies that really enjoy getting guys excited over them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We play that way with couples exclusively as K isn't into women or bi play at all. We have reasonable success finding couples who want to play the same way in clubs.
That said we prefer events with some single guys attending so that we can always have a threesome with another guy if there is no 4 way attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single girls and like rocking horse sh*t
We are looking for single girls and the right couple for us. As stated above, clubs are where we are hoping to meet them. We would love to find local regulars. |
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I think it's tricky when meeting other couples. That 4 way connection/attraction can be difficult to find.
I'm happy to play straight so we state this on our profile but not everybody is the same as me.
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Oddly enough our biggest barrier is finding the right single man. Women and couples no so hard.
The trouble is in general we're really fussy. Combine that with we don't have a lot of free time for swinging.
For a MFM we're looking for something a bit special. We don't want some additional sex toy for Mrs Misfit. Looking for someone she finds hot, who has the right personality and the chemistry is there. Someone who naturally immerses them self fully and is not afraid to kiss or cuddle or show intimacy (which we totally get is not everyones thing). She want to be enjoyed by two men who are absolutely into her. To get all these things is actually pretty difficult to find in a single guy. So it's very rare we end up in a MFM or MMFM situation even though this is something we both want to enjoy more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither of us are into bi activity or experimentation. It does nothing for us either.
At absolute most we might consider a little suggestive flirting if only to tease the men but not in any way into girl on girl.
Not put off at the idea of a third male present if you've met them before and they aren't obese and sweaty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re finding it nearly impossible to find a female for our specific fantasy ..
The majority always want Hubby to watch …which isn’t part of the fantasy purely assertive confident female |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all! |
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"I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all! "
Same here, totally straight, speaking from experience |
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"I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all!
Same here, totally straight, speaking from experience "
Same. Fuck and play with the husband yes, the wife absolutely not. I just gave up talking to or meeting couples now, as its too much hard work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are the same, although very new to everything.. but with our couple of club visits I think once we are comfortable and decide to arrange to meet a couple, bec’s would be happy to play with the guy with no huge desire to play with the lady.. and rob is happy watching and playing with bec’s.. so they are are out there |
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I find that. I also find some of the female partners don't want the single female to play with the man at all. I like men. I'm straight but I play with women to turn a guy on which turns me on, but I'd rather play with the guy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all!
Same here, totally straight, speaking from experience
Same. Fuck and play with the husband yes, the wife absolutely not. I just gave up talking to or meeting couples now, as its too much hard work. "
Same! I’m fed up with couples trying to convince me to get involved with the woman. Im straighter than straight, I have zero interest in touching women or women touching me. |
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By *l1pp3ryCouple
over a year ago
Bradford |
"I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all!
Same here, totally straight, speaking from experience
Same. Fuck and play with the husband yes, the wife absolutely not. I just gave up talking to or meeting couples now, as its too much hard work.
Same! I’m fed up with couples trying to convince me to get involved with the woman. Im straighter than straight, I have zero interest in touching women or women touching me."
So why is it so difficult to get any interest from fems when we are a straight couple? |
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"I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all!
Same here, totally straight, speaking from experience
Same. Fuck and play with the husband yes, the wife absolutely not. I just gave up talking to or meeting couples now, as its too much hard work.
Same! I’m fed up with couples trying to convince me to get involved with the woman. Im straighter than straight, I have zero interest in touching women or women touching me.
So why is it so difficult to get any interest from fems when we are a straight couple?"
Probably because there are only a very small minority of women that want to meet with a couple and give the wife a helping hand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all!
Same here, totally straight, speaking from experience
Same. Fuck and play with the husband yes, the wife absolutely not. I just gave up talking to or meeting couples now, as its too much hard work.
Same! I’m fed up with couples trying to convince me to get involved with the woman. Im straighter than straight, I have zero interest in touching women or women touching me.
So why is it so difficult to get any interest from fems when we are a straight couple?"
Maybe because straight women don't want to be naked and in bed with another naked woman, just to satisfy her fellas fantasy of having two women at the same time.
Straight men don't care, any holes a goal and all that |
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By *l1pp3ryCouple
over a year ago
Bradford |
"I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all!
Same here, totally straight, speaking from experience
Same. Fuck and play with the husband yes, the wife absolutely not. I just gave up talking to or meeting couples now, as its too much hard work.
Same! I’m fed up with couples trying to convince me to get involved with the woman. Im straighter than straight, I have zero interest in touching women or women touching me.
So why is it so difficult to get any interest from fems when we are a straight couple?
Maybe because straight women don't want to be naked and in bed with another naked woman, just to satisfy her fellas fantasy of having two women at the same time.
Straight men don't care, any holes a goal and all that "
Fair enough, but presumably those would only be looking for men, yet I've seen plenty of straight female profiles that say they're looking for couples as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all!
Same here, totally straight, speaking from experience
Same. Fuck and play with the husband yes, the wife absolutely not. I just gave up talking to or meeting couples now, as its too much hard work.
Same! I’m fed up with couples trying to convince me to get involved with the woman. Im straighter than straight, I have zero interest in touching women or women touching me.
So why is it so difficult to get any interest from fems when we are a straight couple?
Maybe because straight women don't want to be naked and in bed with another naked woman, just to satisfy her fellas fantasy of having two women at the same time.
Straight men don't care, any holes a goal and all that
Fair enough, but presumably those would only be looking for men, yet I've seen plenty of straight female profiles that say they're looking for couples as well "
I've met with couples that say the woman's straight but in reality she did want to experiment, this was established before I agreed to meet, because meeting a straight couple where the aim is basically the two women pleasing the man, would make me feel like a sex toy, let's be honest those couples arent doing it because the woman wants to experience a threesome with another woman, it's because she wants to please her man |
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Most couples and ladies seem to want to bi play with the wife, and that is something that S sadly has no interest in. It would be much easier if she did as that seems much more common."
We have the same problem. |
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Most couples and ladies seem to want to bi play with the wife, and that is something that S sadly has no interest in. It would be much easier if she did as that seems much more common.
We have the same problem. "
Same here too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all!
Same here, totally straight, speaking from experience
Same. Fuck and play with the husband yes, the wife absolutely not. I just gave up talking to or meeting couples now, as its too much hard work.
Same! I’m fed up with couples trying to convince me to get involved with the woman. Im straighter than straight, I have zero interest in touching women or women touching me.
So why is it so difficult to get any interest from fems when we are a straight couple?
Maybe because straight women don't want to be naked and in bed with another naked woman, just to satisfy her fellas fantasy of having two women at the same time.
Straight men don't care, any holes a goal and all that "
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Mrs considers herself straight but loves bi fem play. I'm not sure we would play with a couple without bi fem tbh. It seems like it's the appetizer before the main course if that makes sense? Jumping straight into a F to M swap wouldn't feel right for us. Having said that I'm sure there are plenty of straight women out there who love swinging but without the bi fem element |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
As a straight woman I personally am select what men I play with. That's hard enough without having to involve a woman into the equation that doesn't need to be there. I enjoy 1 to 1 play. I don't need another woman there to complicate it. |
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By *isa2018 OP Couple
over a year ago
East Northamptonshire |
"I have the opposite experience im straight and would be happy to play with a couple but am only intrested in men all the couples that approach me want me to play with the woman which doesnt intrest me at all!
Same here, totally straight, speaking from experience
Same. Fuck and play with the husband yes, the wife absolutely not. I just gave up talking to or meeting couples now, as its too much hard work.
Same! I’m fed up with couples trying to convince me to get involved with the woman. Im straighter than straight, I have zero interest in touching women or women touching me."
That is exactly what we would are looking for but it does seem that couple that meet single ladies and vice versa are after the femal/female play.
Feel free to pop round ours any time. LOL. |
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