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By *assiieneilx OP   Man  over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

Why is sending a wink a deletable offence to so many?

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By *iss KinkWoman  over a year ago

North West

Is it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do people tell you they are offended if you wink?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It seems that way.

A wink says "I like what I see"

It should be the 1st way of making contact, if they don't wink back, you can't contact them.

Save a hell of a lot of unread messages.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman  over a year ago

Thurrock

Maybe they use it as a filter and block if they don't think you'd be a good match

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By *ornucopiaMan  over a year ago

Bexley


"Why is sending a wink a deletable offence to so many?

...

Is it?

"

Only one way to find out!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We welcome winks as an icebreaker on the understanding that they don’t necessarily guarantee a reply.

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By *winckle toesMan  over a year ago

norwich

I’m in

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By *al kalMan  over a year ago

london


"Why is sending a wink a deletable offence to so many?

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As you get blocked afterwards or something else?

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By *al kalMan  over a year ago

london


"I’m in "

This is not a winking game thread

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's lazy. Read the profile and send a msg.

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By *assiieneilx OP   Man  over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

From reading many profiles, it seems so. Up there with sending dick pics and a “hi there” message. Seems innocuous to me

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By *isstinseltoesWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't mind a wink if they've read my profile and match what I'm after

Most of mine are from men miles away who don't.

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By *harAndBryCouple  over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"It's lazy. Read the profile and send a msg."

We don't think that way AT ALL. Single guys get so down about the messages that they put real effort into going to waste. A wink is a way of saying "I find you physically attractive, if you find me physically attractive then wink back and I'll then message".

(Bry)

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple  over a year ago

Middle England

I get the idea of a wink but why send one where the sender has the silhouette profile picture, no other photos on their profile and the profile text just says "hi".

As someone once said "You can not be serious!!"

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By *tudog1Man  over a year ago

Southampton


"It's lazy. Read the profile and send a msg.

We don't think that way AT ALL. Single guys get so down about the messages that they put real effort into going to waste. A wink is a way of saying "I find you physically attractive, if you find me physically attractive then wink back and I'll then message".

(Bry)"

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By *tudog1Man  over a year ago

Southampton


"It's lazy. Read the profile and send a msg.

We don't think that way AT ALL. Single guys get so down about the messages that they put real effort into going to waste. A wink is a way of saying "I find you physically attractive, if you find me physically attractive then wink back and I'll then message".

(Bry)"

This is my view exactly

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By *harAndBryCouple  over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"I get the idea of a wink but why send one where the sender has the silhouette profile picture, no other photos on their profile and the profile text just says "hi".

As someone once said "You can not be serious!!""

We get a lot of those....from couples more than single guys, too.

(Bry)

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By *andD300Couple  over a year ago

london

We like winks. C.

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By *razylady2014Couple  over a year ago

Bolton

First line of my profile is send me a wink and I will block you, I'm currently blocking around 5 a day.

My reasoning is if guys cant even be bothered to read the first line or respect my wishes then how can I trust them to respect my boundarys if I meet them on my own?

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By *haneportsMan  over a year ago

portsmouth


"It's lazy. Read the profile and send a msg.

We don't think that way AT ALL. Single guys get so down about the messages that they put real effort into going to waste. A wink is a way of saying "I find you physically attractive, if you find me physically attractive then wink back and I'll then message".

(Bry)

This is my view exactly "

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple  over a year ago

Exeter

We take winks as somebody is interested in us, though they are mostly from blank and pictuless single Male profiles.

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By *redy81Man  over a year ago

London

What if we could add up to 3 photos to the wink? (only face or "page 3 material", so no unsolicited dick pics)

Then it could work as initial match-making, and those who wish could set their profile only to allow incoming messages from those they wink-matched already.

Less irrelevant emails for girls and couples, and less frustration of unread messages for guys.

In its current way, a wink is useless for many of us. For example, I only share face photos if I fancy someone, I see no point to make them visible to everyone. It makes wink useless for me now.

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