So you contact some that posts a meet, trying to establish a connection and maybe be a part of that meeting!
The get to know each other part is most of the part skipped by the posting party and they straight up say you are ok for the meet but if you are willing to contribute to the hotel cost!
Nothing bad until this point, you think is fair that for a good fun all the parts need from get involved in any cost, BUT….
As you get close to the location (because why not, they gave you their WhatsApp, the location…) you find out that you go only to watch or a pity BJ, at most, BUT…. you find out that if you want more (like sex) the cost of the room just went up! The contribution got higher if you want more!
What do you do at this point??
You are not desperate for sex, you think if the terms changed once they can change again, and most of all you dislike paying for sex! You dislike the thought of giving money for something you are definitely sure you will not find fun!….
Who’s the A-hole in this case?
The person who asks money for sex or the person who dislike's paying for pity mediocre sex?…..
P.s. I told the couple that I don’t search for escort services!  |
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"They are - fab isn't about paid meets, there are other sites for that.
You report them to admin, block and move on...
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Yep this. All fair enough to split the cost of a hotel room booking equally between whoever is involved, but not a changing rate depending on what type/how much fun is had. 
Report and block is probably the best option. Sorry you had to go through time wasting nonsense! |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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They are.
But, you took a risk. You skipped the getting to know you part and headed off to a hotel with a couple of people you barely knew. You got lucky that they were just after your money and nothing worse, IMO |
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Reminds me of the gang bang meets that are £80 to contribute towards the hotel room which at first glance sounds ok but on reflection is jka piss take because theore guys the cheaper it should be. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Reminds me of the gang bang meets that are £80 to contribute towards the hotel room which at first glance sounds ok but on reflection is jka piss take because theore guys the cheaper it should be. "
Which is great if all the guys turn up - last time I was involved with a gangbang out of the many many guys who said they wanted to come...
2 turned up |
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"So you contact some that posts a meet, trying to establish a connection and maybe be a part of that meeting!
The get to know each other part is most of the part skipped by the posting party and they straight up say you are ok for the meet but if you are willing to contribute to the hotel cost!
Nothing bad until this point, you think is fair that for a good fun all the parts need from get involved in any cost, BUT….
As you get close to the location (because why not, they gave you their WhatsApp, the location…) you find out that you go only to watch or a pity BJ, at most, BUT…. you find out that if you want more (like sex) the cost of the room just went up! The contribution got higher if you want more!
What do you do at this point??
You are not desperate for sex, you think if the terms changed once they can change again, and most of all you dislike paying for sex! You dislike the thought of giving money for something you are definitely sure you will not find fun!….
Who’s the A-hole in this case?
The person who asks money for sex or the person who dislike's paying for pity mediocre sex?…..
P.s. I told the couple that I don’t search for escort services! "
Get this a lot sadly, you get chatting to a girl/couple about a meet and they start saying it will cost x amount. So many on here think they can sell sex when this site is for mutual non payment meets. Also agree about hotels as i have txt a number given and chatted and even made arrangements for them to come over for a meet but just dont trust them to turn up and then you are left with costs. |
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Happens alot the other way too!
I've lost count of the amount of messages we've received where the subject is £££
Followed by offers of cash or gifts for a variety of sexual things. But I have no doubt many people do use this site to seek or offer paid services and probably very successfully too.
Like anything online, keep your wits about you! Only do what your comfortable with, it's your money, your life.
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"They are - fab isn't about paid meets, there are other sites for that.
You report them to admin, block and move on...
Yep this. All fair enough to split the cost of a hotel room booking equally between whoever is involved, but not a changing rate depending on what type/how much fun is had.
Report and block is probably the best option. Sorry you had to go through time wasting nonsense! "
Thx for the support! I’ve reported and blocked them! |
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"They are.
But, you took a risk. You skipped the getting to know you part and headed off to a hotel with a couple of people you barely knew. You got lucky that they were just after your money and nothing worse, IMO "
Being a man there’s not many worse that can happen (only if they are some maniacs…. let’s hope there are no such people on here).
Sometimes you can take the long knowing each other process and still get screwed!
Taking some risks can be exciting…..
I appreciate your opinion and concerns… and I hope, mainly for the ladies, that there are no “very bad” people on here, or anywhere…. |
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"Reminds me of the gang bang meets that are £80 to contribute towards the hotel room which at first glance sounds ok but on reflection is jka piss take because theore guys the cheaper it should be.
Which is great if all the guys turn up - last time I was involved with a gangbang out of the many many guys who said they wanted to come...
2 turned up"
Yeah, and with all this “screwing” around from all parties messes all the fun for the serious people that are genuine and want to have fun! As I’ve said on another forums, the clubs remain the only good option! |
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"Yep, I’m asked every day if I will accept £ for sex. I’d be rich by now if I accepted!
Me too hun, it makes me feel like not meeting, cos men can think of me like that  "
I know so many ladies that get upset by this!
Some desperate individuals spoil all the fun for anyone that knows how to treat a woman, in the bedroom…. other try to compensate and there are a worst type that try to offer money to catch the lady and do with her whatever they want, even if she is not comfortable (or doesn’t want)… I’ve had a GF that told me it happened to her….
Some people are sick (sorry if I’m too direct) |
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Something like this happens to me. A couple invited me over one Saturday night. A couple of days before they told me I had to pay.
Their rationale was. If I went to a club I’d have to pay and wouldn’t be guaranteed sex. By paying them I would be guaranteed sex.
I blocked them. Lol. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"a worst type that try to offer money to catch the lady and do with her whatever they want, even if she is not comfortable (or doesn’t want)…"
Those type pay escorts all the time then come out with lines like 'i can do what ever I want because I've bought you' |
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"Reminds me of the gang bang meets that are £80 to contribute towards the hotel room which at first glance sounds ok but on reflection is jka piss take because theore guys the cheaper it should be.
Which is great if all the guys turn up - last time I was involved with a gangbang out of the many many guys who said they wanted to come...
2 turned up"
Sorry I mean £80 each regardless of if 1 or 10 men turning up. Surely if you book a hotel room for a GB then the more that turn up the cheaper it should be.
Also sorry about the lack of spelling my fat fingers wasn't helping. |
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