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My profile from a womans/couples pov?
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By *onypm OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
Apologies for adding yet another one of these topics, I'd much rather do this than start asking people for surveys in an intro message though lol.
Just curious as to what my profile looks like from the pov of someone I'm actively looking to meet. Am I doing any major flaws etc? Anything I could improve on? |
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By *onypm OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"It's good .... maybe add a few more pics?
But yeah... I don't have any glaring holes to pick at
Good luck
Kat "
Thank you for the feedback, much appreciated.
More pictures is definitely something on the list. |
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It's average OP and I no longer help people that don't know how to write a profile. It makes the profiles non-genuine in my opinion.
I don't think you need more pictures though, your face pic is the best pic you can have.
If you ever decide to hide it then perhaps add some more subtle images  |
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By *onypm OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"It's average OP and I no longer help people that don't know how to write a profile. It makes the profiles non-genuine in my opinion.
I don't think you need more pictures though, your face pic is the best pic you can have.
If you ever decide to hide it then perhaps add some more subtle images "
Oh I completely agree. I understand all opinions are subjective, and everyone likes their cup of tea different, could be the perfect profile for one person, and the worst for another. Any advice will be taken with that in consideration
In your opinion do you think it matters if the face pic is the main profile pic? I have mine set as it is as a little extra privacy, just curious as to your views
Thank you for your input too, appreciate it. |
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If I am being picky I would say your profile pic is a bit dark. You look to me like you have a toned physique. I don't know why you say you are developing a dad bod.
To me it seems a good, friendly profile |
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"Apologies for adding yet another one of these topics, I'd much rather do this than start asking people for surveys in an intro message though lol.
Just curious as to what my profile looks like from the pov of someone I'm actively looking to meet. Am I doing any major flaws etc? Anything I could improve on?"
Your profile is average, but better than most. Which gives you a slight head start, not much, but it's still a heads start.
Build your network online and offline.
Chatrooms, forums, be friendly, get noticed.
Social events and clubs, be friendly, get noticed.
Build friendships, build a social network, opportunities will come from there.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I am honest. It looks like there has been no effort put into the profile. You are selling yourself and being compared to guys to have very good, well-taken photos of all parts of their bodies. The pics you have really don't help you purely because of the quality, nothing to do with you and how you look. Take some better pics and take it from there. |
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By *onypm OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"If I am being picky I would say your profile pic is a bit dark. You look to me like you have a toned physique. I don't know why you say you are developing a dad bod.
To me it seems a good, friendly profile"
The quality of the pic does seem to be a recurring theme, will definitely take some time to get better pictures.
Thank you appreciate you taking the time to reply |
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By *onypm OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Apologies for adding yet another one of these topics, I'd much rather do this than start asking people for surveys in an intro message though lol.
Just curious as to what my profile looks like from the pov of someone I'm actively looking to meet. Am I doing any major flaws etc? Anything I could improve on?
Your profile is average, but better than most. Which gives you a slight head start, not much, but it's still a heads start.
Build your network online and offline.
Chatrooms, forums, be friendly, get noticed.
Social events and clubs, be friendly, get noticed.
Build friendships, build a social network, opportunities will come from there. "
Lots of great advice in here, thank you
Clubs are 100% something i want to try soon. Been reading the reviews for my closest club and the amount of single guys i see saying they had an amazing time despite their nerves, and felt welcomed, is great to read. |
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By *onypm OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"If I am honest. It looks like there has been no effort put into the profile. You are selling yourself and being compared to guys to have very good, well-taken photos of all parts of their bodies. The pics you have really don't help you purely because of the quality, nothing to do with you and how you look. Take some better pics and take it from there."
Definitely not the image i want to portray, thank you for your input. Does the lack of effort come from just the pics or does the bio not read well for you either? I've read the forums quite a lot over the past couple of weeks and tried to take on board what others have said while still portraying a true representation of myself. I must have changed it a good 6-7 times haha. That's mainly why I posted this topic, to see if those changes made me "more appealing".
Some new pics are going to be going up as soon as i can though Thank you for being blunt, appreciate the honesty. |
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OP. There's nothing really wrong with your profile, except the lack of verifications*.
Your text is inoffensive, your pics are fine (though a face profile pic always makes a message stand out in the inbox) so there's nothing that would make us say no to you.
However....
In all honesty, a guys profile isn't *that* important. As long as it doesn't drive people away, that's as much as you can expect from it. Single women and couples rarely search and send the first message (sone do, we know, but most don't) so it's much more about how you approach those that you might be a match for.
* Go to a social or club and get a few meet verifications. We now don't consider anyone without a fairly recent meet verification.
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By *onypm OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"OP. There's nothing really wrong with your profile, except the lack of verifications*.
Your text is inoffensive, your pics are fine (though a face profile pic always makes a message stand out in the inbox) so there's nothing that would make us say no to you.
However....
In all honesty, a guys profile isn't *that* important. As long as it doesn't drive people away, that's as much as you can expect from it. Single women and couples rarely search and send the first message (sone do, we know, but most don't) so it's much more about how you approach those that you might be a match for.
* Go to a social or club and get a few meet verifications. We now don't consider anyone without a fairly recent meet verification.
(Bry)"
Appreciate the detailed response, thank you
I completely agree on the whole first message thing. I tend to always include a face pic with the first message, if for no other reason, i can't even begin to imagine how many messages some people like yourselves must get and helping them to quickly see if we're physically compatible or not just seems logical haha.
The verifications should hopefully start coming soon Won't be long until I go to my first club, just waiting for the right time so i don't get put off by my own poor planning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Following on. I would say that your profile is not well written. The content is Ok but women tend to not look kindly on bad grammar etc. try to make it all flow, rather a list in a sentence. |
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