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By *k123 OP Man
over a year ago
london |
Hi,
Just wanted to know people experience of those who cum quick. Like how long you lasted? What did you do?
For me it can varies, sometimes I can be quick but if drinking i seems to last longer. It just one of them ones always back of the mind and seems embarrassing.
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Have you tried knocking one out on a regular basis? I have found at times this helps, with desensitising and thus lasting.
I did once when on a meet with a couple knock one out about 20mins or so before we went up to play.
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I John , have some experience in this. In fact I volunteered to give a talk last Saturday night in Warwick Town Hall to all the poor chaps , (and their partners ) suffering from this terrible affliction. But when I got to the town hall on Saturday night - there was nobody there.
Apparently they’d all come on the Friday!!  |
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" I John , have some experience in this. In fact I volunteered to give a talk last Saturday night in Warwick Town Hall to all the poor chaps , (and their partners ) suffering from this terrible affliction. But when I got to the town hall on Saturday night - there was nobody there.
Apparently they’d all come on the Friday!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what you mean by too quickly as there are a number of papers and it seems that the average time for sex (copulation) to last is between 3 and 5 minutes. This is not a mean average but a cluster average. Don't be embarrassed, laugh at the situation as they will know you were in the moment. Have a giggle and then use your hands and mouth to ensure they get there. It'll pop back up in no time. |
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"Hi,
Just wanted to know people experience of those who cum quick. Like how long you lasted? What did you do?
For me it can varies, sometimes I can be quick but if drinking i seems to last longer. It just one of them ones always back of the mind and seems embarrassing.
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Strategic pre-wank helps. Plus it's fun to repeat |
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Me, Fiona , I don’t mind if a man cums too quickly in me at all ! It’s a feeling of ‘ yes’ I’ve got him ! It makes me feel that I must be good to make him cum so quick. As long as he then licks or fingers me until I’ve cum then that’s fine.
To all you men who have cum too quick, don’t worry, I take it as a compliment.??
Be interested to see what other girls think? |
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" Me, Fiona , I don’t mind if a man cums too quickly in me at all ! It’s a feeling of ‘ yes’ I’ve got him ! It makes me feel that I must be good to make him cum so quick. As long as he then licks or fingers me until I’ve cum then that’s fine.
To all you men who have cum too quick, don’t worry, I take it as a compliment.??
Be interested to see what other girls think?"
Would be great to hear other ladies opinions. Cuming too quickly is not the real problem, its what the guy does next thats important. I often cum as quick as i can then spend time pleasuring the lady until im ready to go again. 2nd time always last longer |
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By *k123 OP Man
over a year ago
london |
It’s interesting to hear everyone views and how common this is. I usually find having a few drinks helps last longer. Trying the edge option aswell so shall see how that goes but yeah second round find myself to last much longer. |
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It can depend on when you last came, many things. I can come quickly and again within 20 minutes sometimes if it's been a while and I'm really going for it, other times second round can last for hours.. your body isn't a machine and you just have go with it!
Nerves can make it difficult to get hard but also can make you cum quickly, there's no science in it! But yes as said a wank before can sometimes help, but if she's that good it can be quick the first round |
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I think for me the longer I go without sex the quicker I am, but I have strategies for dealing with that.
During the deed I find that when I get to excited it helps to stop and do something like go down on her that normally lets the excitement subdue a little before carrying on |
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"I don't really mind but, it's not all about the man my pleasure is a priority to. Ms"
That’s kinda the point of it, PE doesn’t give the chap to please the lady.
For me I would always find other ways but sometimes a lady just wants a damn good shagging |
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I've had this in the past, normally if i've been very stressed or if i've just got a massive horn. I knew it would happen once when I met a friend and we were going to have sex for the first time together. We had been chatting and it got a bit hot and she ended up coming over. As we were about to kiss I said I would blow my load as soon as she touched me, I sure did.
But it made me laster long for when we got down to it
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" Me, Fiona , I don’t mind if a man cums too quickly in me at all ! It’s a feeling of ‘ yes’ I’ve got him ! It makes me feel that I must be good to make him cum so quick. As long as he then licks or fingers me until I’ve cum then that’s fine.
To all you men who have cum too quick, don’t worry, I take it as a compliment.??
Be interested to see what other girls think?"
I agree, I take it as a compliment if a guy cums quickly, as long as he doesn't just roll over and leave me to it I have no issue at all |
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" Me, Fiona , I don’t mind if a man cums too quickly in me at all ! It’s a feeling of ‘ yes’ I’ve got him ! It makes me feel that I must be good to make him cum so quick. As long as he then licks or fingers me until I’ve cum then that’s fine.
To all you men who have cum too quick, don’t worry, I take it as a compliment.??
Be interested to see what other girls think?
I agree, I take it as a compliment if a guy cums quickly, as long as he doesn't just roll over and leave me to it I have no issue at all "
Same here! There is still plenty more fun to be had  |
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" Me, Fiona , I don’t mind if a man cums too quickly in me at all ! It’s a feeling of ‘ yes’ I’ve got him ! It makes me feel that I must be good to make him cum so quick. As long as he then licks or fingers me until I’ve cum then that’s fine.
To all you men who have cum too quick, don’t worry, I take it as a compliment.??
Be interested to see what other girls think?"
If only more woman was like you lol |
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By *ocky82Man
over a year ago
Watford |
I’ve been with my wife 19 yrs now, and I’d say the last 2-3 years I’ve suffered from this, I probably on average last 30 seconds to 1 min or so and it’s so frustrating.
I feel ashamed
Embarrassed
Angry all at the same time I always say to myself no point even having sex !
I always make her cum before intercourse but sometimes u can see in her face the disappointment that it’s all over !
I’ve tried tablets, sprays wanking before hand nothing works and now it’s always in my mind!!!
Probably why I so badly want her to play as feel she deserves a good shag !
That’s my story sorry it’s not much help to anyone going through it !
But I’m happy to chat privately to anyone regarding it.
Hearing woman’s honest thoughts on this will be interesting.
James x
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By *sa JaneWoman
over a year ago
Cumbria |
I don't mind how quick a guy cums..and at times some have cum literally as soon as their cock touches my lips. I too take this as a compliment and find it all very exciting. I do like a guy to tell me just before he cums..I find that very exciting.
One guy I meet uses condoms with crystals in..I asked what they were and he told me they make him not cum quite so fast..they seem to work... |
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over a year ago
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" Me, Fiona , I don’t mind if a man cums too quickly in me at all ! It’s a feeling of ‘ yes’ I’ve got him ! It makes me feel that I must be good to make him cum so quick. As long as he then licks or fingers me until I’ve cum then that’s fine.
To all you men who have cum too quick, don’t worry, I take it as a compliment.??
Be interested to see what other girls think?
Would be great to hear other ladies opinions. Cuming too quickly is not the real problem, its what the guy does next thats important. I often cum as quick as i can then spend time pleasuring the lady until im ready to go again. 2nd time always last longer "
I guess wiping your nob on the curtains and fucking off to the pub isn't a good move then  |
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I think it depends on the situation and the passion. I've lady friends who say that sometimes they feel more sexy if they can make a guy or woman cum quickly than a long drawn out session when the climax can be more an anti climax. Remember sex is not always cum it is also the foreplay and use of our senses. Who cares if you cum quickly just remember how sensitive a cock is afterwards and the pleasure you can keep giving afterwards |
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