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I am wondering where’s the best place to meet single ladies that are into swinging. I really want to meet a girl that’s into this lifestyle. So far everyone I’ve been with hasn’t wanted to even try it and most have been disgusted at the suggestion. |
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over a year ago
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I'd say a swinging club OP as you know they'll share that interest. But tbh it could be anywhere, I've used several well known sites and app to meet strangers for sex and come across other swingers sometimes on the way xx |
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We met on plenty of fish! Neither of us were swingers & had never thought about it either! After about 5 years, mrs said she wanted to watch me with another female & try out her bi side in an ffm...and that was that  |
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I met my husband in a bar/club they had a band playing and I was dancing and chatting to another guy but my now husbands accent caught my attention
I was kind of going between the two, definitely getting on with the first kissing etc but it was my husband who got my number at the end of the night
It was kind of inevitable we'd end up somewhere like here when I was kissing another guy in front of him while also trying to chat him up |
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We went to school together and were best mates before we got together...well still are, just beat mates with amazing benefits lol been together almost 11 years and married almost 6 of those x |
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For those that didn’t meet theirs on here or in a club how did you get to the subject of swapping/joining with oith other couples or having an open relationship without sounding sordid or ruining your relationship? |
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"For those that didn’t meet theirs on here or in a club how did you get to the subject of swapping/joining with oith other couples or having an open relationship without sounding sordid or ruining your relationship? "
I was open with tink from the start and told her i done it before a little and wanted to try more. Gave her the info and let her decide. You can’t rush or force people in to it it won’t work |
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"Try a festival. One of the ones frequented by non-mainstream folk. I’ve met loads of pansexual/non monogamous types at the one I go to each year.
Which one would that be? "
The Barefoot Festival at Prestwold Hall. Other ones will do the job also. |
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"For those that didn’t meet theirs on here or in a club how did you get to the subject of swapping/joining with oith other couples or having an open relationship without sounding sordid or ruining your relationship? "
ing your relationship? "
We have been together 28 years and married for 18. We watched porn together and introduced role play involving me (Gemma) having sex with other men quite early on in our relationship. This then developed into us talking about me doing it for real while having sex which turned us both on. Then in 2012 we created our fab profile and then in the November of that year with trepidation we took the plunge and on a weekend away attended Xstasia. And so our journey began We have had a few
long term breaks due to various reasons but we always seem to find our way back  |
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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago
Worcestershire |
"For those that didn’t meet theirs on here or in a club how did you get to the subject of swapping/joining with oith other couples or having an open relationship without sounding sordid or ruining your relationship? "
I met Mr many years ago at a quiz he ran. At the time he had a long term partner. We stayed in touch over the years casually. Then started talking more and more. Actually got together in lockdown.
He was on here as a single man and told me about it. I had no idea at all. I was really shocked. After a few days I accepted it and then we set up couples profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met in a nightclub 30 years ago when her mate pushed her into me whilst I was standing at the bar saying "talk to him he looks lovely"."
Very similar to me and my ex wife only 20years ago ...lol |
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First time we met was in an MMF so we never really had 'that' conversation. We have had numerous talks about boundaries and I think the only hard limit that has never changed is that we only play as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We met at Cupid's....
We'd been chatting a few weeks and had crazy intense connection, he was there with someone else (but open) we had a knee trembling kiss as I was leaving....
The rest, as they say, is history 
Kat |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I am wondering where’s the best place to meet single ladies that are into swinging. I really want to meet a girl that’s into this lifestyle. So far everyone I’ve been with hasn’t wanted to even try it and most have been disgusted at the suggestion. "
Sounds like your meeting people with a very different attitude to yours ? I would ask yourself are you living an authentic life ?
Most people I’ve met in real life amd apps are very open to it when I mention it and have visited clubs with me. |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
Wow! So many who met via Fab.. We met via Bumble, Y's open communication about (then) being bicurious led to my confession of previously swinging, one thing led to another, and then another, and then...   |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
Char and I knew each other through a car club. I ended up divorced, she ended up separated and we both ended up on hospital chatting over Messenger. One thing led to another and almost three years later here we are, married.
(Bry) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We met on a night out, in a pub, the old fashioned way when people actually talk to each other and chat each other up face to face . We clicked instantly, moved in together after 8 months, have now been together for over 18 years and married for over 16 years. It just keeps getting better and better  |
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"I am wondering where’s the best place to meet single ladies that are into swinging. I really want to meet a girl that’s into this lifestyle. So far everyone I’ve been with hasn’t wanted to even try it and most have been disgusted at the suggestion. "
I met Clare on Fab. She'd put in her status that she'd been let down for a meet. Thank you that man because I messaged her offering to step in and she accepted.
That meet was exactly a year ago today, and we now have a fantastic swinging relationship. |
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Currently single...but with a "lady friend" I met on here....though she isn't any more but knows I am and keep things seperate. My housemate I met through fab too.
Last partner before that in a pub...very vanilla. Prior to that on POF and introduced her to Fab. And before that found her d*unk and soaking wet outside my flat at 11.00pm. Told her next morning that I was a swinger....had a few great threesomes with her best mate.
Lots of places OP....just take things as they come! |
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