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Should I leave Fab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Should I leave Fab?
I am first to admit that I have little cock. A lot of profiles want VWE or cocks of a decent size. This was never a problem when I was part of a couple. So should I just give it up? |
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No
If it wasnt a problem as part of a couple then its not the problem now. More likely your own insecurity BECAUSE you are no longer part of a couple!
There are plenty of women who arent size queens. Its yours...be proud....Its perfect for someone |
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By *luns1Man
over a year ago
Preston |
Certainly not, I'm sure there is a lot more to you than just your cock. There is someone for everyone and you have 10 fingers and a tongue, so as long as your foreplay and oral game is up to par you'll have no issues. Wishing you the very best of luck. |
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
The only time to leave is if this place is genuinely making you unhappy.
If you just feel you’re struggling to find what you’re looking for, then you’re in the good company of about 99% of the members here.
Not many people here get it easy; unfortunately, single blokes the least of all. It’s not pleasant feeling like you’ll get too little of the right attention, but ask any single female or couple what it’s like to get too much of the wrong type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP the problem with fab is there are too many single guys and not enough single women on the NSA scene and even less who are into it or joining in nowadays, also a lot on here are timewasters who have no intention of meeting it then makes it really tough. Keep plugging away but dont use this as your only means of NSA, go to bars and meet girls and try your luck. All the best. |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
As a few people on the thread have already said, single guys generally have a tougher time getting replies, regardless of size.
Certainly no reason to give up when there's plenty for you to offer another couple or single.
Those who only want hung guys are not worth your time, and are probably boring and one-dimensional anyway if that's all they boil sex down to |
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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago
belfast |
"Should I leave Fab?
I am first to admit that I have little cock. A lot of profiles want VWE or cocks of a decent size. This was never a problem when I was part of a couple. So should I just give it up?"
And a lot of profiles say they are not looking for VWE,and a lot more don't mention penis size at all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don t agree with its tough for single men think it realey depends on what yu are looking forward have accept that their are very few young females who are very attractive on here but there are quite few sexy young males the nature of the site is not just for sex which many men forget |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same boat I'm avarage size and yes I do see alot of profiles wanting vwe guys, just move on or do what I did take a break for 2, 3 days then come back and just browse and see what's going on |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
" And a lot of profiles say they are not looking for VWE,and a lot more don't mention penis size at all.
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Complete nonsense, I've never come across a profile explicitly saying no VWE, and I've seen plenty that have Hung or Hung only in their profile.
Unfortunately size matters to a lot of women. Thankfully there are some who can look beyond size
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" And a lot of profiles say they are not looking for VWE,and a lot more don't mention penis size at all.
Complete nonsense, I've never come across a profile explicitly saying no VWE, and I've seen plenty that have Hung or Hung only in their profile.
Unfortunately size matters to a lot of women. Thankfully there are some who can look beyond size
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I've seen alot saying not interested in vwe... not all women care about size. The ones that don't mention it at all probably don't care. |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
" I've seen alot saying not interested in vwe... not all women care about size. The ones that don't mention it at all probably don't care. "
You say you've seen a lot, and yet I've never seen a single profile saying explicitly that they don't want well endowed guys. Size matters to women. Just own it instead of trying to play both sides to not seem shallow |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Don't worry about it mate,trust me size is the least of a single mans problem on Fab.Take ot from someone who is Vwe lol  "
I'm sure your inbox is full, man. Haha. You don't have to try and make those of us with small dicks feel better, we know how fab works |
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I have thort the same recently as a cpl wr get lots of mail but as a singel guy lots of no thanks even from cpls who apparently want to meet when on cpls profile but sudnly am not thair type when, alone |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I have thort the same recently as a cpl wr get lots of mail but as a singel guy lots of no thanks even from cpls who apparently want to meet when on cpls profile but sudnly am not thair type when, alone "
Couldn't agree more. Not to say couples can't have their preferences etc, but its understated how tough it is for single guys on here to get messages, let alone meets. Ironically, the ones who say that isn't true are always couples  |
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Go to a club when they've got a Greedy Girls event on. Treat it as a night out and expect nothing. Smile, chat to people and network.
If you get a play, great. If you don't you've met a few people and when you go to the next event some of the same people will be there.
Your cock size will be important to some women but by no means all. We're regulars at Jaydees and have seen guys with all sizes of cock get a play.
Try not to let it define you. If you're a nice guy and go to the right events you'll soon be involved in the fun. |
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By *arc 7-6Man
over a year ago
Halesowen |
If it helps, I'm pretty well endowed and get nothing either, although I'm older.
There's way too many single men here to choose from, so don't get hung up about it.
Also trying to join a club locally is problem as there's restrictions due to the amount of single men who want to attend.
Stick with it, I am. If nothing comes your way, nothing ventured nothing gained |
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By *oodsyMan
over a year ago
tonbridge |
You need to just get out there. Go to parties, clubs, events, be friendly, funny, sociable, meet people, have fun, get involved and have some fun. Fab ignored me for years until I took the plunge and started going to parties and stuff. Unless you have some veris you will look like a keyboard warrior or a fantasist. You need to be a real person. Nobody gives a shit about the size of your cock, it looks about average to me. If you had a 9 inch penis and only ever messaged people on Fab asking for a meet you would be in exactly the same situation. Lose your body confidence issues, get naked, go to a party, and start living your best life. |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Some couples are looking for a guy with a smaller or thinner cock to try anal or dp for the first time, hang in there. "
I'm small, and there are no couples like this. Size matters to most of you, but thankfully a small amount don't mind |
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And a lot of profiles say they are not looking for VWE,and a lot more don't mention penis size at all.
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This
Why do people home in on the profiles that are looking for VWE when they are conscious they are not? |
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"Some couples are looking for a guy with a smaller or thinner cock to try anal or dp for the first time, hang in there.
I'm small, and there are no couples like this. Size matters to most of you, but thankfully a small amount don't mind"
Sorry but that is complete rubbish. |
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I'm small, and there are no couples like this. Size matters to most of you, but thankfully a small amount don't mind"
Maybe it's something else about you which is the reason you're lacking in success?
You seem very insecure about penis size. |
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"I have thort the same recently as a cpl wr get lots of mail but as a singel guy lots of no thanks even from cpls who apparently want to meet when on cpls profile but sudnly am not thair type when, alone
Couldn't agree more. Not to say couples can't have their preferences etc, but its understated how tough it is for single guys on here to get messages, let alone meets. Ironically, the ones who say that isn't true are always couples "
Lol. Its guy who are ahem hung up on cock size. But you wont get very far with SDE |
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"Should I leave Fab?
I am first to admit that I have little cock. A lot of profiles want VWE or cocks of a decent size. This was never a problem when I was part of a couple. So should I just give it up?"
Don’t be daft! Fab is a bit of fun to add to ‘normal’ life, don’t overthink it 
When you’re doing your local searches, just block all those profile you don’t match, or don’t match what you are looking for. Cut the wheat from the chaff so to speak. You’ll be able to concentrate on those profiles you are a potential match with, and feel less despondent hopefully
You’ve done well in the club scene as a single guy, far better than I ever did, so maybe stick with that as a priority, and keep Fab as an extra?
Cock size isn’t the be-all-and-end-all. Does anyone ever talk about tongue size or finger size lol? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t be daft! Fab is a bit of fun to add to ‘normal’ life, don’t overthink it
When you’re doing your local searches, just block all those profile you don’t match, or don’t match what you are looking for. Cut the wheat from the chaff so to speak. You’ll be able to concentrate on those profiles you are a potential match with, and feel less despondent hopefully
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I’ve started to block those who delete my messages as I take a deleted message as a no thank you.
I think by making the pool smaller I might have a better chance? |
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Don’t be daft! Fab is a bit of fun to add to ‘normal’ life, don’t overthink it
When you’re doing your local searches, just block all those profile you don’t match, or don’t match what you are looking for. Cut the wheat from the chaff so to speak. You’ll be able to concentrate on those profiles you are a potential match with, and feel less despondent hopefully
I’ve started to block those who delete my messages as I take a deleted message as a no thank you.
I think by making the pool smaller I might have a better chance?"
Exactly that mate Think about being ‘a cat among the pigeons’……are you running round in circles getting nowhere, or do you concentrate on just one….. |
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"Should I leave Fab?
I am first to admit that I have little cock. A lot of profiles want VWE or cocks of a decent size. This was never a problem when I was part of a couple. So should I just give it up?"
to an extent swinging is about fulfing fantasies, most of us are married to normal average people so i can understand why members are looking for different size members lol and various kinks  stick with it buddy and don't get down in the mouth . Look after yourself and things will pick up dan |
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