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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Evening all!
Tried many different things with my profile since being on here and don't seem to get too far, any advice from people with experience would be appreciated!
Thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Try writing one  "
XD XD I always struggle when it comes to filling it out, what kind of information is interesting for people to know if you don't mind me asking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just say your a ginger remove the bald and beard stuff.
Also remove that discretion bit that screams married to women on here
Remove your oldest pic its not helping you
Add a bit more in your profile about what type of woman you are looking for and what you enjoy doing.
Someone else advise but the two if us reckon that the social thing doesn’t do anything as most women expect it anyway |
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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago
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"Evening all!
Tried many different things with my profile since being on here and don't seem to get too far, any advice from people with experience would be appreciated!
Thank you "
It's a amazing profile, if they don't want to meet you after all that effort it's their loss I say. |
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There’s a common misconception that if you join a swingers site it’ll be easy sex, obviously all the women or couples will either be nymphomaniacs or tarts.
Couldn’t be further from the truth, they enjoy sex but not sex with just anyone. It’s fantasies or just a healthy dose of sex with a partner they fancy.
Can’t comment on your hidden profile, but your username isn’t doing you any favours.
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I’ve been on here for over 10 years so let me give you my two pennies worth.
First of all your profile is hidden so that doesn’t help anyone, you me or the female population.
Secondly I feel your profile names says a lot about the person behind it. In your case I can’t say I’m very impressed. Dickbetweenlegs? Really? I mean how much through went into that. You need to be a little more creative and intelligent with your profile name. How about something like , Changing Lanes, Purple Rain, Ginger Stories, Red Trumpet, Blue Dreams, Hard Shoulder, Red Coat, Windy Air, Private Dreams, Steamy Thoughts. I could go on and on and on but Dickbetweenlegs doesn’t put you ahead of the race.
I tested this site with a female profile. Yes I know but trust me it’ opened my eye and thoughts. I was shocked. The volume of men that send a photo of their cock is truly unbelievable and shocking. This is usually accompanied with a one line message, something like Fancy a fuck, you busy tonight, i’d like to fill you with my cock, I want to fuck you hard and long, can you handle this, let me know where and when. I could go on and on and on. Now let’s be realistic. A normal Man wouldn’t do this in public to another woman. So why on here.
Your profile should tell the reader something about you. Why you are here. What is it you’re looking for. What new things you might want to try. Write about your sexual experience? Maybe how frequently you’d like to meet and what turns you on. How you would treat a prospective woman. It’s not rocket science.
Finally when you write to a woman you’re interested in you should pay close attention to her profile. It will show them that you actually read their profile. Once again this isn’t rocket science it’s basic common sense stuff.
Then start compiling your message. Be kind decent and don’t talk in sms text language.
A message needs to have three components and that isn’t “Fancy a Fuck”. It’s simply the beginning the middle and the end.
Talk a little about yourself
Talk a little about them and what attracted you and drew you to their profile.
Finally tell them you’re keen to chat further and leave the ball in their court.
Desperation isn’t an attractive quality so don’t keep messaging them. You will piss them off.
Let me give you some facts. Me and my friend created a female profile at around 3am in the morning and the messages came in faster then we could deleted them all. This was a day ago. The message box has over 300 unread messages.
Now you put yourself in the females position. They don’t need a second unpaid job to read all these messages. They have English going on in their lives aside from the shenanigans on here.
The likelihood is your message will either get mass deleted with the rest of them or if it’s a one liner, you have two hopes. Bob Hope and No hope.
I have no idea why I have wasted my time writing this but I except the female population on here will appreciate that someone actually gives a shit about the crap they have to endure on a daily basis.
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"Try writing one
XD XD I always struggle when it comes to filling it out, what kind of information is interesting for people to know if you don't mind me asking?"
If you do not know how to interact with people you will not stand a chance on here.
If someone tells you what to put that's not going to be a genuine profile it is. |
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