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Thoughts after first ever meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey there....I was wondering what other peoples mind thought was in the days after your first meet. Did you think "lets start looking for the next one?" or did it take a while to get in the mood again?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey
yes i agree we both loved!! and i personally cannot wait to get the next one organised, but i dont want to push my luck. Im a bit nervous about bringing the subject up to LA for the fear of "not playing it cool" and putting her off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey
yes i agree we both loved!! and i personally cannot wait to get the next one organised, but i dont want to push my luck. Im a bit nervous about bringing the subject up to LA for the fear of "not playing it cool" and putting her off "
Just ask her if she's ready to have fun again 
She's probably thinking the same thing as you.
You have to learn to talk to each other with playing xx |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I remember the first one distinctly - it had gone well and there was also been a lot of laughter and we continued this all the way home (about an hour's drive). We stopped at a petrol station and bought a big chocolate bar to replenish our energy levels and we have kept that habit up ever since. The journey home is sometimes as good as the event |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was back online within half an hour looking for another stud to come and fuck me. This site is addictive!"
Lol As soon as my head left the pillow the next morning i reached for my phone..a/ to look at the pictures b/ to look for our next session
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey
yes i agree we both loved!! and i personally cannot wait to get the next one organised, but i dont want to push my luck. Im a bit nervous about bringing the subject up to LA for the fear of "not playing it cool" and putting her off
Just ask her if she's ready to have fun again
She's probably thinking the same thing as you.
You have to learn to talk to each other with playing xx"
Thanks for that and your probably right....i bet if i go into our hotlist she has filled it up to the max  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I remember the first one distinctly - it had gone well and there was also been a lot of laughter and we continued this all the way home (about an hour's drive). We stopped at a petrol station and bought a big chocolate bar to replenish our energy levels and we have kept that habit up ever since. The journey home is sometimes as good as the event"
ah thats sounds cute but by the time we got home the only place that would of been open would of been mcdonalds...not so cute sharing a big mac
the sex we had when we eventually got home was mind blowing..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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on the way there Kaz was like can u believe we are going to someones house to have sexy  then afterwards when we first got in the car she said " that was fucking lush " |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I remember the first one distinctly - it had gone well and there was also been a lot of laughter and we continued this all the way home (about an hour's drive). We stopped at a petrol station and bought a big chocolate bar to replenish our energy levels and we have kept that habit up ever since. The journey home is sometimes as good as the event"
lol we are like that we usually call into a 24 hour macdonalds near home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On my way to first meet I was thinking Jesus your doing this!! And after I thought wow,she was such a hot lady,that was about 6yrs ago,I had a great night and it always sticks in my mind |
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Our first experience was at a club and we hadn't commited to actually going through with it until halfway there.....
Needless to say it went rather well and woke up the next morning both feeling guilty that we didn't feel guilty!
After a good night we are usually still buzzing a week later.
Like others I'm sure, we both suddenly tried to work out why we hadnt tried it sooner!
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Remember it like it was yesterday, but specifically afterwards.. it was like "I can't believe we just did that - wow!". We were knackered and it was very very late, but we still managed to fuck for hours afterwards.. and days afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thoughts were wow I can't believe I actually just did that! When can I do it again? Such a high with all the nerves I had, 1st meet was great though and none pushy, still see him now nearly 2 years later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had my first meet planned for a Monday evening, had been planned for a while. But then I ended up seeing a different guy on the Monday morning too (though I had already met him socially). Was so horny after those two that I ended up seeing someone the next evening as well!
Greedy girl, but I had been celibate for 6 1/2 years! |
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"First ever meeting? One word - DISASTER!
OH NO!!! why?"
Lack of communication, deceit on the part of the other couple, boundaries crossed, resentment created ... it's a wonder I ever stayed in the lifestyle.
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This wasn't with Zed it has to be said
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"First ever meeting? One word - DISASTER!
OH NO!!! why?
Lack of communication, deceit on the part of the other couple, boundaries crossed, resentment created ... it's a wonder I ever stayed in the lifestyle.
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This wasn't with Zed it has to be said
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Sounds like you had quite a learning experience... still you're here now. Older and clearly wiser |
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"First ever meeting? One word - DISASTER!
OH NO!!! why?
Lack of communication, deceit on the part of the other couple, boundaries crossed, resentment created ... it's a wonder I ever stayed in the lifestyle.
PS
This wasn't with Zed it has to be said
Sounds like you had quite a learning experience... still you're here now. Older and clearly wiser "
Absolutely. We play by our rules and if people don't like it, well, they can find their fun elsewhere |
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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago
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My 1st meet was at chams just before new years eve,so straight in at the deep end!! Lol was not an experience il ever forget,can remember being pretty nervous before i got there+especially when i arrived,but ended up as really great night met some cool like minded peeps+couldn't wait to do it again so went the very next night+that was even better! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My thoughts were, omfg did I just do that with him, it was a young man I'd been chatting to for 18mths, he came up from London and it was amazing, I hadn't had sex in a very long time, but it reminded me what I'd been missing. It took me a while to meet someone else, but now I'm having the time of my life, I guess life begins at 50....I would like a couple more regular friends tho I think lol....is that just being greedy?  |
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We'd been clubbing for a while before we had our first real meet, and invited a couple we'd made contact with here to come to our place. R had previously been a bit dubious about home swinging but we really liked the look of this new pair.
When they arrived we had a drink and a chat and found them really nice people. We were wondering how to start things off so just suggested we went to the bedroom. We'd previously put out candles and condoms. turned down the bed and had pulled the curtains (R was very concerned about the neighbors guessing we were swinging). As soon as we were there we swapped, did some kissing while the men undressed the women and then got on the bed.
It was all much more erotic than being in a club, we have some big mirrors in the bedroom which helped us all to see the action. We absolutely loved the evening, everybody just let themselves go and the sex was great; we had 3 sessions, first two swapped and the last one with our own partners. We became very good friends with that couple, and after that evening we really moved from clubbing to home swinging.
It was erotic to sleep in our own bed that night with the smell of sex in the air, wet patches, opened condom packets around, etc. We didn't give a stuff if the neighbors had guessed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ha - have had similar neighbour worries. We only have one but it's very quiet here and noise travels easily.
In the summer we made the mistake of leaving the bedroom window open and the lady that visited was quite a moaner, and pretty vocal with it "OH FUCK" etc. (had seemed so quiet and timid earlier!).
Turned out our neighbours bedroom window was open too 
Thankfully she's elderly, so hopefully sound asleep by then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had my first proper meet yesterday. I've have to say it felt more like a date than a meet. We'd been chatting for a while an she wanted to come over. We had drinks and a meal and spent the night in a hotel. It was fabulous and now makes me wonder if I could just turn up for a meet, have sex and go. Think I may be a really shit swinger lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had my first proper meet yesterday. I've have to say it felt more like a date than a meet. We'd been chatting for a while an she wanted to come over. We had drinks and a meal and spent the night in a hotel. It was fabulous and now makes me wonder if I could just turn up for a meet, have sex and go. Think I may be a really shit swinger lol."
But does it matter? There's no rules, it's what suits YOU that matters.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first meet last night only having been on the site for a few weeks, still on a high from it!
Defiantly would suggest looking to organise another but each to their own |
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"My first meet last night only having been on the site for a few weeks, still on a high from it!
Defiantly would suggest looking to organise another but each to their own "
Wouldn't have believed it was his first time, he put in an amazing shift as well as being a very cool and engaging young man.
Suspect you will be much in demand Free and you are very welcome to come and have your second meet with us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I have to say Im rubbish at swinging too...
Ive had nsa sex before but never called it swinging or been through a swinging site. So when joining the site I thought I could do whats expected.
From the moment I first started talking to the guy I met I knew it felt different and it could become difficult but I was draw into chatting to him and found him so gorgeous and attractive. The meet ended up feeling like a string of amazing dates with every venue and opportunity to get to know him better. It felt much more than just lust or a need to have sex. It was a need to be with him and have him inside me.... The whole time was amazing and I have to call it a date because thats what it will always be in my eyes totally different to swinging....
Having come away from nsa sex before and moved on this time is completely different ...through meeting him I know I dont want to meet single guys I just want to meet that one guy again and again until Ive explored everything I can with him and more....I could be some time lol.
I still want to explore other situations so hey Im still swinger curious but single men well for now thats a non starter x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't have believed it was his first time, he put in an amazing shift as well as being a very cool and engaging young man.
Suspect you will be much in demand Free and you are very welcome to come and have your second meet with us "
I'll defiantly take you up on that offer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First meet on here was a social that became a little more. It went really well. Originally was gonna wait until the night we'd planned but I wanted to go over sooner so went on a Friday afternoon even though I was working that night but so glad I did. She's ended up in a relationship now(so the veri has gone lol) but still friends through facebook. Met quite a few times though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didn't want to count my first meet it was short notice (not on fab)it was a case of you know you want to so let's get it over and done it was terrible two nervous first timers one pushy clueless and fumbling  couldn't get out fast enough. Thought to myself
now you know how not to meet
First meet on fab was great took my time on the buildup and during the meet didn't want to stop ended up being a marathon
Now I'm addicted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first back in 2004 was a pre planned play with a very good friend. Unfortunately due to not seeing him for a while as he lived in Brighton and us up north the Friday night fun didn't happen. Saturday morning Mrs69 walked in the conservatory freshly showered and wearing her new lingerie and asked who's first.....
The next 36 hours were mind blowing. We met every couple of months for 3 years eventually he settled down with a lady and we've played as a foursome a few times but its not really her thing so we just socialise now.
Home meets on and off for the next 4 years and now club meets every week, we love the lifestyle and most of our best / closest friends are swingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first meet from from fab was a lovely couple at 10am in the morning at our house
We had a nice chat then up to the bedroom. We had agreed on soft swap but we already wanted more, 4 people on a bed, a wall full of mirrors. Everyone having fun and watching
We then had a great guy round that evening! First ever MMF.
Then addicted! |
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