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Completely new to this world!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So we’ve never done anything like this before!! Super excited to explore pretty much anything (other than the obvious….I hope :D)
Both keen to try our bi-curious side! 
Decided to put everything public because we want people to see us as we are (faces, warts and all) in the hope they’d want to join us!
…. Any advice as to the best way to approach people we like would be MASSIVELY appreciated.
Thank you in advance!
B&A x |
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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire |
Welcome..
My advice.. Communication between the both of you.. Talk, talk and talk some more.. Don't feel pressured into doing anything you don't feel comfortable with.. Keep the communication open and most of all.. Have fun! |
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Just be yourselves. Keep communicating with each other. Your profile, pictures and videos are awesome. An attractive couple like you should have no trouble on here at all. Yeah keep an eye out for those fakers.
Enjoy ..... |
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"So we’ve never done anything like this before!! Super excited to explore pretty much anything (other than the obvious….I hope :D)
Both keen to try our bi-curious side!
Decided to put everything public because we want people to see us as we are (faces, warts and all) in the hope they’d want to join us!
…. Any advice as to the best way to approach people we like would be MASSIVELY appreciated.
Thank you in advance!
B&A x "
That's a refreshing attitude and brave we must add. Welcome to the lifestyle and by going public with your face pics you have made approaching a lot simpler, if you like anyone all you gotta do is wink, fab a photo or drop a note inviting them to look at your profile. If the attraction is mutual, it will just flow. One advice we can give is to focus on quality over quantity, we found that by spreading ourselves thin talking to a lot of people we end up missing the good ones.
You have a lovely profile and we have no doubt you will be very popular, just get some veris as it may put some folks off. |
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"Thanks!
Chatted with a few people…some turned out to be fake! 
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Few pointers for your fake radar
- no or really old veris
- some too good to be true nonsense
- saying they are a couple but only man available
- asking for numbers too soon
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The physical swinging world is far better than the digital one. Get yourselves out there, Clubs, parties, events. It's the best we get to meet new people and have hot times without all the BS and messing around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welcome , hope you have fun here.
The one bit of advice that I wish I had heeded when I was first here was not to lower your standards just to “get the ball rolling” so to speak.
I got too impatient and went with someone I had reservations about just to get past the nervousness. It was so much better when I got more picky with who I met.
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My advice/experience.
1. Discuss and agree together what you would like to experience individually and as a couple.
2. Get to socials.
3. Don't do anything unless you've BOTH agreed to it beforehand, it's easy to get carried away in the moment.
4. Review your experiences openly and honestly together.
5. If something doesn't feel right for one of you then it's not right for either of you.
6. Don't be afraid to say 'No thank you'. If people persist after you've said that then they are not worth knowing or playing with.
Best wishes and good luck. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
OP....you've got a really great profile, really good pics and you're going to be very popular.
Only advice we can give is to keep your chin up when everything else is going tits up. We're now lucky if one on four of our arranged meets turn up. Just this past four days, we've arranged five meets (we were having a bit of a Birmingham Bonkathon). One turned up but didn't manage to get hard enough to fuck Char. One turned up (but we knew he only wanted to clean up a cream pie), one didn't show at all, one we had to blow out as he started demanding videos of us out shopping six hours before the meet, and the final one blew us out last night saying he was too tired.
There'll be some weeks when you just can't give it away
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP....you've got a really great profile, really good pics and you're going to be very popular.
Only advice we can give is to keep your chin up when everything else is going tits up. We're now lucky if one on four of our arranged meets turn up. Just this past four days, we've arranged five meets (we were having a bit of a Birmingham Bonkathon). One turned up but didn't manage to get hard enough to fuck Char. One turned up (but we knew he only wanted to clean up a cream pie), one didn't show at all, one we had to blow out as he started demanding videos of us out shopping six hours before the meet, and the final one blew us out last night saying he was too tired.
There'll be some weeks when you just can't give it away
(Bry)"
You’re kind thank you!
Hahah sounds like you’ve been (almost) having fun! 
Thanks so much for the advice! We’re kinda still
Looking for a couple we both find hot (atm either she does or I do )
Don’t want to rush into anything so am thinking to try and see if some people want to cam chat initially (also need some veri’s! x-D )
Thanks again…. It means a lot!
Almost everyone is so nice!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most have already said it but communication is key
Not only do we talk as part of our foreplay, we talk about everything. Make sure their are no misunderstandings, agree our boundaries, swing, eat and repeat. The more fun you have, the Elsa talking is needing and the further the boundaries expand ha
Enjoy and take your time. |
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lovely to see photos of you both with faces and all 
