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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??"
I'd revise the 100% straight bit if I was you |
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??"
you are no longer 100% straight darling. like men fucking Tgirls and still think they are straight  |
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??"
The point is...are you enjoying it??
Seems a bit disrespectful to be typing on here while he is sucking you off.
Multi tasker  |
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"Didn't do anything for me.
I let him try as he really wanted to.
Had to stop him after a bit. "
You wouldn't have gotten hard if it didn't do anything for you
Ignoring labels lots of guys get off on doing something others would consider taboo, same as lots of people on here overtime will try things that at the start they'd said they never would
There's no shame, it's exploration, it's pushing your own boundaries, that's fun, that's exciting, good on you for trying something different
If there's a next time, try & forget he's your friend just try & focus on the experience, forget whether it's a male or female mouth, I bet you find you'll enjoy it |
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"If you like having your cock sucked by a man, then it sounds like you're gay."
So on that basis, if I enjoy my cock sucked by a woman, that makes me straight...????
I don't see it that str8forward.
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"If you like having your cock sucked by a man, then it sounds like you're gay."
Labels. There are straight people who engage in fun with the same gender not making them gay. There are gay people who engage in fun with the opposite gender.
Sexuality is very fluid and exploration doesn't make someone gay. X |
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Sexuality is very fluid and exploration doesn't make someone gay. X "
100% agree …. But then define gay… ?
I mean I enjoy being sucked and sucking guys … do I like anal - NO , would I kiss a guy ewwww NO
Is a label even required ?? |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??"
And you manage to start a post whilst having your cock sucked .....yea right (not!!)....thought it was only the ladies that could multi task??....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"& just like that we are back in the homophobic 1980's"
No offence intended at all, just stating the obvious. There's nothing wrong if you're gay or bisexual, that's up to each individual. Straight people don't typically experiment with homosexual acts. We should know as were both straight.  |
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Blindfolded, would you honestly know which sex was sucking your cock? Been to parties where this has taken place. Blindfolded guy been sucked to orgasm by another guy then told afterwards, when he almost vomited. What's that all about?
Isn't pleasure, pleasure however or whoever administers it?
Just asking for a close friend, obviously! |
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"& just like that we are back in the homophobic 1980's
No offence intended at all, just stating the obvious. There's nothing wrong if you're gay or bisexual, that's up to each individual. Straight people don't typically experiment with homosexual acts. We should know as were both straight. "
It don't know how that can not be seen as offensive experimentation doesn't make someone gay, curious possibly but if they didn't enjoy it they are back to straight |
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Sexuality is very fluid and exploration doesn't make someone gay. X
100% agree …. But then define gay… ?
I mean I enjoy being sucked and sucking guys … do I like anal - NO , would I kiss a guy ewwww NO
Is a label even required ?? "
Thats the best way to say it  |
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Tbh mate, a mouth is a mouth. You're still getting a blowjob regardless of which gender is giving it. I'm mostly straight, but I occasionally like to be sucked by a man if they offer and if we got a long and if I felt like it (depends on the guy obviously). Doesn't make my gay, maybe slightly bi, but tbh I just love oral. That's as far as I'll go with a guy though.
Honestly, the best way to enjoy the fact that you're getting blown by a guy, is to lay back, close your eyes, and enjoy. Forget the fact that it's a guy doing it |
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"Tbh mate, a mouth is a mouth. You're still getting a blowjob regardless of which gender is giving it. I'm mostly straight, but I occasionally like to be sucked by a man if they offer and if we got a long and if I felt like it (depends on the guy obviously). Doesn't make my gay, maybe slightly bi, but tbh I just love oral. That's as far as I'll go with a guy though.
Honestly, the best way to enjoy the fact that you're getting blown by a guy, is to lay back, close your eyes, and enjoy. Forget the fact that it's a guy doing it "
You’d only be Bi if you sucked him, all you do is recieve a blowy from a hot wet mouth, something both sexes have !!! |
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"For those who have received a bj from both, do you think one gender is better than the other?
Or is it person to person skill wise?
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if its the first time the person does it (male or female) then doubt it would be any good irrelevant of sex.
Saying that i am always told i suck cock a lot better than woman and so do my verif (and no i don't deepthroat)  |
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I was d*unk and it was the end of a very long night. He was going on and on and on about wanting to do it.
I didn't enjoy it. Will not be repeating the experience.
I think I have a better perspective from female friends who have told me they have sometimes slept with a guy just to shut them up, even though they didn't really want to |
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"Blindfolded, would you honestly know which sex was sucking your cock? Been to parties where this has taken place. Blindfolded guy been sucked to orgasm by another guy then told afterwards, when he almost vomited. What's that all about?
Isn't pleasure, pleasure however or whoever administers it?
Just asking for a close friend, obviously!"
Men have warm hands, women have cold hands. No way he didn’t know the difference |
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"Tbh mate, a mouth is a mouth. You're still getting a blowjob regardless of which gender is giving it. I'm mostly straight, but I occasionally like to be sucked by a man if they offer and if we got a long and if I felt like it (depends on the guy obviously). Doesn't make my gay, maybe slightly bi, but tbh I just love oral. That's as far as I'll go with a guy though.
Honestly, the best way to enjoy the fact that you're getting blown by a guy, is to lay back, close your eyes, and enjoy. Forget the fact that it's a guy doing it
You’d only be Bi if you sucked him, all you do is recieve a blowy from a hot wet mouth, something both sexes have !!!"
That’s actually a fair point |
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"I was d*unk and it was the end of a very long night. He was going on and on and on about wanting to do it.
I didn't enjoy it. Will not be repeating the experience.
I think I have a better perspective from female friends who have told me they have sometimes slept with a guy just to shut them up, even though they didn't really want to"
You don’t actually have to justify anything or suddenly have to come out of the closet or enjoy musical theatre. So take down those posters of Judy Garland and accept you tried something, didn’t particularly like it and probably won’t do it again.
Sorry you don’t join the Bi or Gay club that easily |
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It's a grey area isn't it?
I don't think about men or performing acts with them but on a couple of occasions I have shared sucking a cock with Aurelia.
I still list myself as straight but maybe I should change to bi curious but I don't think I am.
I never think about it or desire it, it has just happened in the moment.
I kind of just go with the flow. |
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I think I have a better perspective from female friends who have told me they have sometimes slept with a guy just to shut them up, even though they didn't really want to"
WTH???
Really? They force themselves to have sex with guys they don’t want to... just to shut the guy up??
Woahhhh and we wonder why there’s so many guys with feelings of entitlement 
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"If you like having your cock sucked by a man, then it sounds like you're gay."
Well, I have no interest in men as such. But I love big stiff cocks. Ideally these would be attached to lovely ladies with big natural breasts but unfortunately they are very rare.
So, I have to put up with ugly, hairy men ...
Not sure how common this is ... does that make me gay? Who cares, it is just a label ... |
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"Didn't do anything for me.
I let him try as he really wanted to.
Had to stop him after a bit.
You wouldn't have gotten hard if it didn't do anything for you
Ignoring labels lots of guys get off on doing something others would consider taboo, same as lots of people on here overtime will try things that at the start they'd said they never would
There's no shame, it's exploration, it's pushing your own boundaries, that's fun, that's exciting, good on you for trying something different
If there's a next time, try & forget he's your friend just try & focus on the experience, forget whether it's a male or female mouth, I bet you find you'll enjoy it "
Actually not true. It can be a purely physiological responses rather than a sexual one as it's being stimulated. Erection and arousal are different things. If he's not getting a sexual kick out of it then it's not for him. Simple |
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??"
Since I'm 100% straight and the thought of messing around sexually with anyone of the same sex is completely alien to me (it's never going to happen) it really rasies the question of who is being honest with themselves here.
And no, somethings just don't need trying if you 100% know they are not for you. Like I know I wouldn't like a car battery attached to my bollocks sort of know.
It's perfectly ok to admit you where curious though. Never be ashamed. |
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"Didn't do anything for me.
I let him try as he really wanted to.
Had to stop him after a bit.
If it did nothing for your then you wouldn't have been hard "
Lots of porn stars in gay porn are straight, as are some escorts. They can perform with the gender they don't find attractive. Maybe it can be a little like using a sex toy, which doesn't attract you but can support pleasurable feelings to be gained. |
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"Tbh mate, a mouth is a mouth. You're still getting a blowjob regardless of which gender is giving it. I'm mostly straight, but I occasionally like to be sucked by a man if they offer and if we got a long and if I felt like it (depends on the guy obviously). Doesn't make my gay, maybe slightly bi, but tbh I just love oral. That's as far as I'll go with a guy though.
Honestly, the best way to enjoy the fact that you're getting blown by a guy, is to lay back, close your eyes, and enjoy. Forget the fact that it's a guy doing it
You’d only be Bi if you sucked him, all you do is recieve a blowy from a hot wet mouth, something both sexes have !!!
That’s actually a fair point "
Soon as a cock goes in your mouth your bi. Not sucking still straight. Are you telling us thats your theory on how you process it that or it applies to all straight men and its universal. Cos its kinda said in a way that youd like us to believe it and if i thought you were bi this changes my mind? Correct me if I'm wrong
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"If you like having your cock sucked by a man, then it sounds like you're gay.
Well, I have no interest in men as such. But I love big stiff cocks. Ideally these would be attached to lovely ladies with big natural breasts but unfortunately they are very rare.
So, I have to put up with ugly, hairy men ...
Not sure how common this is ... does that make me gay? Who cares, it is just a label ..."
Your going to great lengths and compromising on so many things to get that cock more than the straight guy getting hjs cock sucked. What your doing is as close to being gay as possible without being gay. Your trying to convince the wrong crowd because we don't give fuck, use that if your non fab mates found out |
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??
you are no longer 100% straight darling. like men fucking Tgirls and still think they are straight "
Surely he’d only need to revise it if he offered to do it back, and enjoyed it.
I’ve had a woman lick me - but no way would I do it back, the thought of doing so does nothing for me. I am 100% straight. |
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By *ancadamMan
over a year ago
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??
I'd revise the 100% straight bit if I was you"
lol....nailed it! |
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??"
I coined a phrase for someone like you. You’re fab straight not straight straight |
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"Didn't do anything for me.
I let him try as he really wanted to.
Had to stop him after a bit.
If it did nothing for your then you wouldn't have been hard
Lots of porn stars in gay porn are straight, as are some escorts. They can perform with the gender they don't find attractive. Maybe it can be a little like using a sex toy, which doesn't attract you but can support pleasurable feelings to be gained. "
What ridiculous tosh. Who are they trying to fool? If you are straight, you don't engage in sexual acts with people of the same sex, period.
Just to flip this on its head, have you ever heard of a porn actress making the same claims even though they film bi and lesbian scenes?
Come on.
Dont let people piss on your leg and tell you it's raining. Be smarter than that.
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Labels are useful, for people looking for other people.
If it's a one-off with your friend, and you don't want to do it again, you can write it off as a curious moment, and still be "100% straight".
Or accept you are bi-selfish (only receiving blow-jobs)
Or maybe, as some other people on the thread have stated, giving and receiving blow-jobs so Orally bi.
Just as straight people don't have to do everything sexually, neither do bi or bi-curious |
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??"
You typed that with your cock in his mouth? That’s a bit rude  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sexuality is a personal thing. I prefer to say straight guys who don’t mind who sucks them as horny, I’d never presume to label them beyond that. I have a few good fab friends like that. Rules are clear and respect boundaries on a meet. If any of them are freaked out by it I’ve happily chatted afterwards. The OP gave it a go and not for him, kudos for trying. I wouldn’t want a woman so it’s the same in reverse. I’ve had a few guys on here try me and not like it but I wish them nothing but well. |
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"Didn't do anything for me.
I let him try as he really wanted to.
Had to stop him after a bit.
If it did nothing for your then you wouldn't have been hard
Lots of porn stars in gay porn are straight, as are some escorts. They can perform with the gender they don't find attractive. Maybe it can be a little like using a sex toy, which doesn't attract you but can support pleasurable feelings to be gained.
What ridiculous tosh. Who are they trying to fool? If you are straight, you don't engage in sexual acts with people of the same sex, period.
Just to flip this on its head, have you ever heard of a porn actress making the same claims even though they film bi and lesbian scenes?
Come on.
Dont let people piss on your leg and tell you it's raining. Be smarter than that.
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Gay for pay is huge in adult industry. Usually guys just juice up with injections so they are hard for 4 hours ish (many studios / agents will provide these ) and can fuck do what is required regardless if they are turned on or not. . It’s about money ultimately in exchange for service for this aspect and it’s very prevelant in European porn (Budapest etc ) there is far more work in gay / ni porn hence the crossover There isn’t enough studios / shoots for guys to all be lucrative in straight content.
Hence we have the gay for pay term within the industry , though it does shut out some guys from filming with certain studios if they go bi. Suprisingly the same rule is not applied to females though  there is a shocker |
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"Didn't do anything for me.
I let him try as he really wanted to.
Had to stop him after a bit.
If it did nothing for your then you wouldn't have been hard
Lots of porn stars in gay porn are straight, as are some escorts. They can perform with the gender they don't find attractive. Maybe it can be a little like using a sex toy, which doesn't attract you but can support pleasurable feelings to be gained.
What ridiculous tosh. Who are they trying to fool? If you are straight, you don't engage in sexual acts with people of the same sex, period.
Just to flip this on its head, have you ever heard of a porn actress making the same claims even though they film bi and lesbian scenes?
Come on.
Dont let people piss on your leg and tell you it's raining. Be smarter than that.
Gay for pay is huge in adult industry. Usually guys just juice up with injections so they are hard for 4 hours ish (many studios / agents will provide these ) and can fuck do what is required regardless if they are turned on or not. . It’s about money ultimately in exchange for service for this aspect and it’s very prevelant in European porn (Budapest etc ) there is far more work in gay / ni porn hence the crossover There isn’t enough studios / shoots for guys to all be lucrative in straight content.
Hence we have the gay for pay term within the industry , though it does shut out some guys from filming with certain studios if they go bi. Suprisingly the same rule is not applied to females though there is a shocker "
Think there a documentary about a year ago ish possibly Ch5 about the "straight gay porn guy" |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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I'm sure your "gay friend "has sucked a cock before, so why is yours any different?
Is it bigger?
Did you really not enjoy it?
If you went to a gloryhole would you know if it was a female or male that was sucking you off?,I doubt it but you would still enjoy it and even cum. Pushing him away is just an excuse isn't it, you did enjoy it....admit it lol. |
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I think things are pretty fluid, i fancy women and not guys, but being single for years and struggling to find fem or cpl meets i ended with a local older guy offering a nothing in return quick bj, so tried and was great, he loves sucking, so i use him regular where i pop in hallway for 5mins.
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Dont get the labels on this thread.
Surely if you like having your cock sucked... you just like having your cock sucked.
Could a blind folded male tell the difference?
Im bi curious as i enjoy giving oral to both sexes during a mmf sitution... i dont think im gay as i would never kiss a male, take anal or even be pegged by a woman. |
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"Dont get the labels on this thread.
Surely if you like having your cock sucked... you just like having your cock sucked.
Could a blind folded male tell the difference?
Im bi curious as i enjoy giving oral to both sexes during a mmf sitution... i dont think im gay as i would never kiss a male, take anal or even be pegged by a woman."
You are not gay, as you play with women.
You are not bi-curious, as you know that you enjoy giving oral to either sex.
You may have limits such as no anal, or no male only meets, but you are bisexual.
Labels are useful, when you are trying to find people who might be interested in meeting up.
And a man getting pegged by a woman isn't gay either, else two lesbian ladies with a strap-on would be a straight couple. |
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"A few men have said a bj is a bj.. but for me, it's not just a sensation, I need to fancy the person
So yeah. I didn't enjoy it and won't be repeating the the experience "
i get loads of messages offering me bjs just be polite and say sorry but no |
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"Didn't do anything for me.
I let him try as he really wanted to.
Had to stop him after a bit.
So he didn't get you so hard as you said.."
I got myself hard ... was watching porn and thinking about a woman... but couldn't keep hard |
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I ate a Thai curry earlier. Doesn’t make me Thai.
Never understood the need to define sexuality by biology, as if we are unthinking and unfeeling machines.
If you can/have fallen in love with someone of the same gender it’s likely you’re gay. Probably.
Everything else is just physical sensations and doesn’t define who you are. |
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By *i50Man
over a year ago
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"Didn't do anything for me.
I let him try as he really wanted to.
Had to stop him after a bit.
You wouldn't have gotten hard if it didn't do anything for you
This comes down to men having 2 brains and only being able to use one at a time.
The pleasure centres are firing so we get hard
Ignoring labels lots of guys get off on doing something others would consider taboo, same as lots of people on here overtime will try things that at the start they'd said they never would
There's no shame, it's exploration, it's pushing your own boundaries, that's fun, that's exciting, good on you for trying something different
If there's a next time, try & forget he's your friend just try & focus on the experience, forget whether it's a male or female mouth, I bet you find you'll enjoy it "
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Sexuality is very fluid and exploration doesn't make someone gay. X
100% agree …. But then define gay… ?
I mean I enjoy being sucked and sucking guys … do I like anal - NO , would I kiss a guy ewwww NO
Is a label even required ?? "
wait..... Touching a man like that to me you are bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??"
Maybe not quiet 100% straight then |
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??"
I think your enjoying it more lol |
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??
I think your enjoying it more lol"
I think he's done enjoying it by now to be fair.
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??"
He’s sucking your cock right now? Then you aren’t 100% straight. |
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"I'm 100% straight but I thought I'd let him try
Try anything once, right?
He's sucking my cock right now. He's got me hard. He seems to be enjoying it ??
He’s sucking your cock right now? Then you aren’t 100% straight. "
That would have been a better observation 7 weeks ago.
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