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Chameleons - what’s the best night to go as a lone female
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"I’ve been for couples night a few times but I was part of a couple then
I would prefer some single guys but unsure what days are best without getting mobbed "
I think you’re answering your own question.
You’re aware that Saturday evenings are couples/females night and understand this dynamic.
Every other day accommodates single guys and I don’t think there’s a right answer to “without getting mobbed”, as it could happen or may not happen on any other day.
Naturally a Friday is likely to have more single guys visit than any other day, so you may want to avoid this to minimise risk. But it’s not going to guarantee anything, other than numbers and probability.
You could consider going on a Saturday where guys are allowed in until 7 (I think), so likely to get a lower uptake of males attending and the option to stay on and enjoy a night you’re familiar with.
Alternatively, you could go on the Friday and be crystal clear with your intentions and no means no. I’m sure if a male or two take your attention, they’d be decent enough to support you and help police you wants and needs.
I’d also say the staff are very good to have your safety and enjoyment at heart.
Hope these comments give you some food for thought and help you reach a decision.
Enjoy! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friday nights are great fun! Couples & single women & men. There are a lot of us who go and enjoy chams & we’re a friendly bunch.
Happy to meet you & show you around and introduce you to people on Friday if you would like.x |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
Kidderminster |
"Just want to make sure I get the most out my visit "
Fridays would be the night and you wouldn't be mobbed, just say no and if that doesn't work speak to the staff they are always helpful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d opt for a weekday evening, tends to be more relaxed, opportunity to talk and meet others a little bit easier.
As for mobbed by males, Simply say no thanks and they will leave you alone.
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By *ushLaurWoman
over a year ago
Solihull |
"Just want to make sure I get the most out my visit
Fridays would be the night and you wouldn't be mobbed, just say no and if that doesn't work speak to the staff they are always helpful."
I agree, Friday is the best night to go as it’s a real mixed bag. I have never felt mobbed and I have been going to Chams as a single girl for 14yrs!! I’d be more than happy to meet you there & show you round. My bestie & I are going next Friday for the St Patrick’s Day party if you’d like to join us? xx |
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For obvious reasons Saturday nights are rubbish for meeting single guys and hence why a lot of single ladies we've met tend not to go on a Saturday and get stuck innthe middle of couplefest.
Friday Night is the best for selection and pick of the single guys. Its very much a more crowed, vibrant, party vibe. Yes you will get more single male attention but also far more opportunities.
Weekday and Sundays can be brilliant. Chilled with a nice mix and some good people in. We've had some of our best times mid weeks and Sundays. However they can also be rubbish. It's hit and miss and you just can't guarantee numbers or the type of guys coming in.
So unfortunately we can't give you a gold plate solution. |
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