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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, one of my exes was like this. It’s perfectly normal.
Everyone is different… not all are going to ‘jump in’ straight away.
Funny thing is that the ex I mentioned was more than eager when we went dogging… |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
"On a meet or in a club my wife doesn’t shut up but she has no interest in chatting to anyone on here or using fab at all for that matter."
I think you must be married to my wife |
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"the better half is happy to chat on meets or at clubs but is shy and finds it difficult to talk on the site. Anyone else relate to this?"
Hey...fem here. I can be like this when people message us. I find it can be quite awkward as there is only so much you can say to someone on here via msgs as you know nothing about the person your talking to.
We don't entertaine men who clearly want want material and instigate sex talk...its cringy and just not for us...I wouldn't worry about it. I'm far more open when face to face with someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes the same Lexi is not a big talk on fab .but ones we meet up with people you can't stop her lol some people do think it's weird that we are not both on all the time .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread has explained a bit to me, because I start talking to couples or single women and then it suddenly dies out and I was previously wouldn't do it. Was me or something I say as I don't instigate sex talk as I prefer to let the lady leave but I was thinking maybe it was because I was too non-sexual centred maybe?
Does anybody else have a problem with chats dying out before any meet? |
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I think we all have our favourite media and situation in which to chat to people. It’s usually associated with where we are most confident, competent and have had past success (however we define it).
I used to be great on the phone and a gibbering, embarrassed mess face to face. I suspect 5 years in telephone sales was the culprit.
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"the better half is happy to chat on meets or at clubs but is shy and finds it difficult to talk on the site. Anyone else relate to this?"
Cherry hates the sea of timewasters on here and tiny keyboard on her phone so rarely messages others unless things are looking VERY good. She'll then sometimes have a phone chat pre meeting but MUCH prefers face to face. Hence I'm left to do most of the finger work and fantasist filtering  |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
London |
"the better half is happy to chat on meets or at clubs but is shy and finds it difficult to talk on the site. Anyone else relate to this?"
Your photos are private. Make them public so that people can "Fab" them. Always gives anyone a boost. Jus look at all those in the Most Fabbed list. There are some weekly regulars there. Why do they do it so prolifically? Because they love the attention. That's what your missus needs to uplift her confidence. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
Hubbs is really sociable and funny when meeting anyone face to face. But he's doesn't like the Internet and hates Fab. Funnily on the other site we are on he is always the one who suggests let's go on cam, or as he calls it.. "put the satnav on" xxxxx Suzi |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"the better half is happy to chat on meets or at clubs but is shy and finds it difficult to talk on the site. Anyone else relate to this?
Your photos are private. Make them public so that people can "Fab" them. Always gives anyone a boost. Jus look at all those in the Most Fabbed list. There are some weekly regulars there. Why do they do it so prolifically? Because they love the attention. That's what your missus needs to uplift her confidence."
If they want to set their pics to private that is their perogative. They have the option to use this site and swing in whichever way pleases and is comfortable for them.  xxxxx Suzi |
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"the better half is happy to chat on meets or at clubs but is shy and finds it difficult to talk on the site. Anyone else relate to this?"
Maybe its due to being able to relax nerves in a group of likeminded people face to face, but 121 over this site theres no personalty or social signs to help relax, its all just text. Its alot harder to read if you would click. And to be fair theres alot of desperate guys on here.
Just my thoughts |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
London |
"the better half is happy to chat on meets or at clubs but is shy and finds it difficult to talk on the site. Anyone else relate to this?
Your photos are private. Make them public so that people can "Fab" them. Always gives anyone a boost. Jus look at all those in the Most Fabbed list. There are some weekly regulars there. Why do they do it so prolifically? Because they love the attention. That's what your missus needs to uplift her confidence.
If they want to set their pics to private that is their perogative. They have the option to use this site and swing in whichever way pleases and is comfortable for them. xxxxx Suzi"
I know Suzi. I don't disagree with that. I'm just making a suggestion as a possible solution to the problem OP has posted. It's not a criticism or even an observation. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"the better half is happy to chat on meets or at clubs but is shy and finds it difficult to talk on the site. Anyone else relate to this?
Your photos are private. Make them public so that people can "Fab" them. Always gives anyone a boost. Jus look at all those in the Most Fabbed list. There are some weekly regulars there. Why do they do it so prolifically? Because they love the attention. That's what your missus needs to uplift her confidence.
If they want to set their pics to private that is their perogative. They have the option to use this site and swing in whichever way pleases and is comfortable for them. xxxxx Suzi
I know Suzi. I don't disagree with that. I'm just making a suggestion as a possible solution to the problem OP has posted. It's not a criticism or even an observation."
 xxxxx Suzi |
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"the better half is happy to chat on meets or at clubs but is shy and finds it difficult to talk on the site. Anyone else relate to this?"
My wife is not a fan of chatting online leaving it to.me where possible.
In the flesh is a different story. |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
walsall |
It's a lot harder to talk through messages as you can't express tone, facial expressions or body language as easily as you can face to face so how you intend something to come across doesn't necessarily translate in words. xT  |
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"It's a lot harder to talk through messages as you can't express tone, facial expressions or body language as easily as you can face to face so how you intend something to come across doesn't necessarily translate in words. xT "
Absolutely !, things can easily be misread too and lead to disaster. Just one reason why we like a social as soon as possible after swapping face pics x |
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"On a meet or in a club my wife doesn’t shut up but she has no interest in chatting to anyone on here or using fab at all for that matter."
Exactly this, wife chats to everyone in clubs but cannot be bothered with fab, hence I do all the 'fabmin', although it can be quite draining at times!! |
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