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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a bit board of single males posting in the forums wondering why they are finding it hard to get meets so I posted this in the wales forum and had some very positive feedback.
Single males mostly join the site with illusions of grandeur, expecting every single fem, and couple to be busting to meet
so...this is FACT
1. Pictures of your cock as your profile pic WONT work
2. Bragging about how wonderful you are WONT work
3. Messaging asking for a fuck WONT work
4. Expecting people to go outside their preferences WONT work
5. No content in your profile WONT work
6. Believing that your going to play with super models WONT work
7. Messaging repeatedly WONT work
8. Being inflexible WONT work
9. And bad attitudes indefinably WONT work.
What WILL work....
1. Be yourself
2. Go on chat
3. Attend a social
4. Make your messages have some meaning
5. Accept "no thanks" and move on
6. Put some effort into your profile
7. Have a picture of YOU on your profile
8. Respect people on here at ALL times
9. If you get a meet TURN UP !
Well if you can follow that, then I hope that some others on here may agree with me and you will have an amazing time.
There are some wonderful people on here that you will find that, even if you don't play, you will find some great friends.  |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm a bit board of single males posting in the forums wondering why they are finding it hard to get meets so I posted this in the wales forum and had some very positive feedback.
Single males mostly join the site with illusions of grandeur, expecting every single fem, and couple to be busting to meet
so...this is FACT
1. Pictures of your cock as your profile pic WONT work
2. Bragging about how wonderful you are WONT work
3. Messaging asking for a fuck WONT work
4. Expecting people to go outside their preferences WONT work
5. No content in your profile WONT work
6. Believing that your going to play with super models WONT work
7. Messaging repeatedly WONT work
8. Being inflexible WONT work
9. And bad attitudes indefinably WONT work.
What WILL work....
1. Be yourself
2. Go on chat
3. Attend a social
4. Make your messages have some meaning
5. Accept "no thanks" and move on
6. Put some effort into your profile
7. Have a picture of YOU on your profile
8. Respect people on here at ALL times
9. If you get a meet TURN UP !
Well if you can follow that, then I hope that some others on here may agree with me and you will have an amazing time.
There are some wonderful people on here that you will find that, even if you don't play, you will find some great friends. "
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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add to that..... all single males should have respect for themselves, their standards, their integrity & their self belief
some may chose to treat you like something from the bottom of their shoe, expect you to jump through hoops for a lick of their muff..... don't do it.
respect is for all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a bit board of single males posting in the forums wondering why they are finding it hard to get meets so I posted this in the wales forum and had some very positive feedback.
Single males mostly join the site with illusions of grandeur, expecting every single fem, and couple to be busting to meet
so...this is FACT
1. Pictures of your cock as your profile pic WONT work
2. Bragging about how wonderful you are WONT work
3. Messaging asking for a fuck WONT work
4. Expecting people to go outside their preferences WONT work
5. No content in your profile WONT work
6. Believing that your going to play with super models WONT work
7. Messaging repeatedly WONT work
8. Being inflexible WONT work
9. And bad attitudes indefinably WONT work.
What WILL work....
1. Be yourself
2. Go on chat
3. Attend a social
4. Make your messages have some meaning
5. Accept "no thanks" and move on
6. Put some effort into your profile
7. Have a picture of YOU on your profile
8. Respect people on here at ALL times
9. If you get a meet TURN UP !
Well if you can follow that, then I hope that some others on here may agree with me and you will have an amazing time.
There are some wonderful people on here that you will find that, even if you don't play, you will find some great friends. "
9b - this site is called Fabswingers and NOT Instashag
9c - Get a decent sized dictionary and look up the word 'Patience' as you are going to need to understand precisely what it means.
9d - Don't - repeat DON'T - start whinging in the Forums that you 'ain't bin laid' after just four weeks (or four months) ... if EVER.
9e - learn to accept criticism of your profile AND your attitude.
Other than that - should be a breeze!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love single guys and hate threads like this that make out they need lessons in how to do things right
If someone is an idiot anyway and that means couples and females too then all the help and advice in the world is'nt going to help as they just won't get it anyway and its likely they never will |
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"I love single guys and hate threads like this that make out they need lessons in how to do things right
If someone is an idiot anyway and that means couples and females too then all the help and advice in the world is'nt going to help as they just won't get it anyway and its likely they never will "
yes agree with this we have met some great single males (also some not so great but that's another story) and frankly in our experience we've found that couples are more difficult to deal with. We're not here to mould some guy into what we want him to be |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I love single guys and hate threads like this that make out they need lessons in how to do things right
If someone is an idiot anyway and that means couples and females too then all the help and advice in the world is'nt going to help as they just won't get it anyway and its likely they never will
yes agree with this we have met some great single males (also some not so great but that's another story) and frankly in our experience we've found that couples are more difficult to deal with. We're not here to mould some guy into what we want him to be "
especially when they don't follow their own advice they give to single guys
the irony |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I love single guys and hate threads like this that make out they need lessons in how to do things right
If someone is an idiot anyway and that means couples and females too then all the help and advice in the world is'nt going to help as they just won't get it anyway and its likely they never will "
thank you.... thank you.... thank you....
those who need that type of advice won't read it, and all you are doing is handing out a charter that makes it harder for those who do get it to stand out... and those doing the picking to work out who "gets it" and who followed a template....
the one thing at the moment is at least you can work out who does and doesn't get it rather quickly........
and it sometimes these "guides" feel arrogant bordering on condescending... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"add to that..... all single males should have respect for themselves, their standards, their integrity & their self belief
some may chose to treat you like something from the bottom of their shoe, expect you to jump through hoops for a lick of their muff..... don't do it.
respect is for all x"
Absolutely.
Except the ones who annoy me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP: this is nothing more than my opinion, but I've thrived for a long time on this Earth without your shouty and patronising advice and I reckon I can still do without it now.
All the same, I hope you feel a lot better for posting it. |
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I find that correct spelling, grammar and politeness goes a long way in emails. When I read things with 'your' instead of 'you're' or 'there' instead of 'they're', it makes me cringe. Most people went to school for at least 10 years. Try to use what you learnt. Basically, I don't find ignorance and stupidity attractive and it can come across immediately in a poorly written message. There - rant over  |
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"I love single guys and hate threads like this that make out they need lessons in how to do things right
If someone is an idiot anyway and that means couples and females too then all the help 6and advice in the world is'nt going to help as they just won't get it anyway and its likely they never will
thank you.... thank you.... thank you....
those who need that type of advice won't read it, and all you are doing is handing out a charter that makes it harder for those who do get it to stand out... and those doing the picking to work out who "gets it" and who followed a template....
the one thing at the moment is at least you can work out who does and doesn't get it rather quickly........
and it sometimes these "guides" feel arrogant bordering on condescending..."
This
It's just telling people that haven't a clue how to get round the filters. I know a few guys that were quite successful single swingers, including me , and you know what? We are all different. I really don't think there is a one size fits all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached"
WTF? 
What has other mens looks got to do with a reply to you?
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached"
oh dearie me, do you really think this post will endear you to couples and ladies...
'real dogs'...... are you serious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that correct spelling, grammar and politeness goes a long way in emails. When I read things with 'your' instead of 'you're' or 'there' instead of 'they're', it makes me cringe. Most people went to school for at least 10 years. Try to use what you learnt. Basically, I don't find ignorance and stupidity attractive and it can come across immediately in a poorly written message. There - rant over "
People think I am being a total pedant when I witter on about this, but guys just don't get it that women put a LOT of store behind the standard of writing in messages and use it as one of the key ways to form an impression of the sender.
And just DO NOT get me on 'text speak' (innit doode!!) ARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!
(One feels better for that....)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached
oh dearie me, do you really think this post will endear you to couples and ladies...
'real dogs'...... are you serious"
Ones who are not obesessed with how amazing they are, yes |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached
oh dearie me, do you really think this post will endear you to couples and ladies...
'real dogs'...... are you serious
Ones who are not obesessed with how amazing they are, yes"
good luck with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached
oh dearie me, do you really think this post will endear you to couples and ladies...
'real dogs'...... are you serious
Ones who are not obesessed with how amazing they are, yes
good luck with that."
Pretty sure I'll do better than you pal, well, I already am |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached
oh dearie me, do you really think this post will endear you to couples and ladies...
'real dogs'...... are you serious
Ones who are not obesessed with how amazing they are, yes
good luck with that.
Pretty sure I'll do better than you pal, well, I already am"
and you are right, you probably will. Enjoy every minute.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached
oh dearie me, do you really think this post will endear you to couples and ladies...
'real dogs'...... are you serious
Ones who are not obesessed with how amazing they are, yes
good luck with that.
Pretty sure I'll do better than you pal, well, I already am
and you are right, you probably will. Enjoy every minute.
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I will and do ta |
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached
WTF?
What has other mens looks got to do with a reply to you?
Miss T "
I think he struggles to understand that a nice physique but ugly attitude will never trump average looks to nice attitude.
He's endearing himself with every post.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached
WTF?
What has other mens looks got to do with a reply to you?
Miss T
I think he struggles to understand that a nice physique but ugly attitude will never trump average looks to nice attitude.
He's endearing himself with every post.
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I bet you have an amazing personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached
WTF?
What has other mens looks got to do with a reply to you?
Miss T
I think he struggles to understand that a nice physique but ugly attitude will never trump average looks to nice attitude.
He's endearing himself with every post.
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I think he sounds like a complete tool in all honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached
WTF?
What has other mens looks got to do with a reply to you?
Miss T
I think he struggles to understand that a nice physique but ugly attitude will never trump average looks to nice attitude.
He's endearing himself with every post.
I think he sounds like a complete tool in all honesty "
lol, the White Knights spring to the defence of the couples and single women, yet again, despite the fact that amongst ourselves single men have the same very low opinion of so many rock star mentality couples on here |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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not sure if the 'white knights' comment includes me but if it does, please read my original comment on here. As a single bi sexual male, I consider myself equal to all on here, not better.... not less.
However, I don't consider others being dogs. Swinging should be about respect for others and their choices.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not sure if the 'white knights' comment includes me but if it does, please read my original comment on here. As a single bi sexual male, I consider myself equal to all on here, not better.... not less.
However, I don't consider others being dogs. Swinging should be about respect for others and their choices.
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It certainly could. Then again, no way in world a woman ina coupke would wish to meet a saggy older man with a small penis over me, not in a million years, so it goes back to what I wrote on another thread-so many couples are dominated by the man, and the man often hates idea of his partner having sex with a muscular, dominant looking male. This is a simple fact born out by experience of the site. If the white kights were honest then they would admit this |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"not sure if the 'white knights' comment includes me but if it does, please read my original comment on here. As a single bi sexual male, I consider myself equal to all on here, not better.... not less.
However, I don't consider others being dogs. Swinging should be about respect for others and their choices.
It certainly could. Then again, no way in world a woman ina coupke would wish to meet a saggy older man with a small penis over me, not in a million years, so it goes back to what I wrote on another thread-so many couples are dominated by the man, and the man often hates idea of his partner having sex with a muscular, dominant looking male. This is a simple fact born out by experience of the site. If the white kights were honest then they would admit this"
I think you are right, that some would love to meet a good looking adonis with a huge cock.
and the rest may meet a saggy older guy with a small cock and you.
there are people for all on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not sure if the 'white knights' comment includes me but if it does, please read my original comment on here. As a single bi sexual male, I consider myself equal to all on here, not better.... not less.
However, I don't consider others being dogs. Swinging should be about respect for others and their choices.
It certainly could. Then again, no way in world a woman ina coupke would wish to meet a saggy older man with a small penis over me, not in a million years, so it goes back to what I wrote on another thread-so many couples are dominated by the man, and the man often hates idea of his partner having sex with a muscular, dominant looking male. This is a simple fact born out by experience of the site. If the white kights were honest then they would admit this
I think you are right, that some would love to meet a good looking adonis with a huge cock.
and the rest may meet a saggy older guy with a small cock and you.
there are people for all on here.
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haha, a man so great looking he is pictureless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that answers the question of how far someone can get their head up their own arse!!!!
thing is mate, you know exactly what I mean"
No not really, it's just all down to personal preferences of the individual or couple.
But I suppose we all have our own _iews and opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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haha, a man so great looking he is pictureless
, works for me
and I am sure your pics will work for you.
all the best"
haha, all the best to you I am sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that answers the question of how far someone can get their head up their own arse!!!!
thing is mate, you know exactly what I mean
No not really, it's just all down to personal preferences of the individual or couple.
But I suppose we all have our own _iews and opinions. "
aye we do, and honesty always the best policy imho. |
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"not sure if the 'white knights' comment includes me but if it does, please read my original comment on here. As a single bi sexual male, I consider myself equal to all on here, not better.... not less.
However, I don't consider others being dogs. Swinging should be about respect for others and their choices.
It certainly could. Then again, no way in world a woman ina coupke would wish to meet a saggy older man with a small penis over me, not in a million years, so it goes back to what I wrote on another thread-so many couples are dominated by the man, and the man often hates idea of his partner having sex with a muscular, dominant looking male. This is a simple fact born out by experience of the site. If the white kights were honest then they would admit this"
I don't think you're using "white knight" in it's correct context: there are more than a few here, I've called then myself on occasion...but I digress.
People are here for hedonistic pleasure without a doubt, and for those that like your body type, physically you look appealing.
What you appear to miss is this is fun!
Read over your comments, if you think you're endearing yourself to the couples you're hoping to attract then continue in the same vein after all every pot has its lid and I wish you happy swinging and a good day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not sure if the 'white knights' comment includes me but if it does, please read my original comment on here. As a single bi sexual male, I consider myself equal to all on here, not better.... not less.
However, I don't consider others being dogs. Swinging should be about respect for others and their choices.
It certainly could. Then again, no way in world a woman ina coupke would wish to meet a saggy older man with a small penis over me, not in a million years, so it goes back to what I wrote on another thread-so many couples are dominated by the man, and the man often hates idea of his partner having sex with a muscular, dominant looking male. This is a simple fact born out by experience of the site. If the white kights were honest then they would admit this
I don't think you're using "white knight" in it's correct context: there are more than a few here, I've called then myself on occasion...but I digress.
People are here for hedonistic pleasure without a doubt, and for those that like your body type, physically you look appealing.
What you appear to miss is this is fun!
Read over your comments, if you think you're endearing yourself to the couples you're hoping to attract then continue in the same vein after all every pot has its lid and I wish you happy swinging and a good day."
Exactly, your own profile is very specific and frthright. To each their own. Tbh, I doubt I will meet many couples on here, and it is not my main aim. If there are couples where the woman is in charge then great, but most are the other way, and that ain't for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Read over your comments, if you think you're endearing yourself to the couples you're hoping to attract then continue in the same vein after all every pot has its lid and I wish you happy swinging and a good day.
Exactly, your own profile is very specific and frthright. To each their own. Tbh, I doubt I will meet many couples on here, and it is not my main aim. If there are couples where the woman is in charge then great, but most are the other way, and that ain't for me "
Why do you need the Woman to help you overpower her Husband to get your own way then... can you not do it yourself?
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"OP: this is nothing more than my opinion, but I've thrived for a long time on this Earth without your shouty and patronising advice and I reckon I can still do without it now.
All the same, I hope you feel a lot better for posting it."
Well, all we can say is, its great advice from one of only a small handful of single males that we would consider good friends.
CJ is well liked, and well respected in our neck of the woods.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well that answers the question of how far someone can get their head up their own arse!!!!
thing is mate, you know exactly what I mean
No not really, it's just all down to personal preferences of the individual or couple.
But I suppose we all have our own _iews and opinions.
aye we do, and honesty always the best policy imho."
So, honesty is the best policy for you is it? Is that why you state 'safe sex' on your profile yet are bareback up someones ass? Maybe you don't wish to meet a couple where the male is dom because he would sling you out by the ear for attempting that with his missus? I know i would! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Aww shucks two days this thread has been up and I hadn't noticed.
If only I'd have known sooner. Things could have been so much different.
I could have had at least 2 shags by now if I'd followed all those helpful tips.
If not more !
I suggest all single men read this thoroughly and follow the tips to the letter.
In fact I think it should be sent out to all men as a welcome email once they have registered.
And a few women and couples too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely would never consider doing the dont,s,,,,, but will take on board all the positives........ New to the scene, but have never been a chaser,,, or dwel on spilt milk....... Thanks for your advice.... X |
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over a year ago
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"the wont work, 1234 can work...it is not fact
a couple gave advice last week, lmost in the same vein, I'll say again...
fab forums are not reflective of fab..I have a wide circle of male/female/cpls as friends...90% of them have no care for reading the forums, most of them never use the chatrooms,lots have never even thought about attending the socials.
maybe start sending single men a list when u see they are new or moaning on fab..give them pics,contacts etc- as posting on the forum does fuck all
in fact...why not just send it to cpls too(in fact that could be a bigger rule book!)..alot of them cant organize themselves into keeping and maintaining meets either.
as for the single females(esp the bi ones)...well theyre perfect arent they?
dont bother with forum users, as we have been there done that and still have the wet T-shirt"
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"not sure if the 'white knights' comment includes me but if it does, please read my original comment on here. As a single bi sexual male, I consider myself equal to all on here, not better.... not less.
However, I don't consider others being dogs. Swinging should be about respect for others and their choices.
It certainly could. Then again, no way in world a woman ina coupke would wish to meet a saggy older man with a small penis over me, not in a million years, so it goes back to what I wrote on another thread-so many couples are dominated by the man, and the man often hates idea of his partner having sex with a muscular, dominant looking male. This is a simple fact born out by experience of the site. If the white kights were honest then they would admit this
I don't think you're using "white knight" in it's correct context: there are more than a few here, I've called then myself on occasion...but I digress.
People are here for hedonistic pleasure without a doubt, and for those that like your body type, physically you look appealing.
What you appear to miss is this is fun!
Read over your comments, if you think you're endearing yourself to the couples you're hoping to attract then continue in the same vein after all every pot has its lid and I wish you happy swinging and a good day.
Exactly, your own profile is very specific and frthright. "
Thank you, that's my aim...works perfectly. |
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"I'm a bit board of single males posting in the forums wondering why they are finding it hard to get meets so I posted this in the wales forum and had some very positive feedback.
Single males mostly join the site with illusions of grandeur, expecting every single fem, and couple to be busting to meet
so...this is FACT
1. Pictures of your cock as your profile pic WONT work
2. Bragging about how wonderful you are WONT work
3. Messaging asking for a fuck WONT work
4. Expecting people to go outside their preferences WONT work
5. No content in your profile WONT work
6. Believing that your going to play with super models WONT work
7. Messaging repeatedly WONT work
8. Being inflexible WONT work
9. And bad attitudes indefinably WONT work.
What WILL work....
1. Be yourself
2. Go on chat
3. Attend a social
4. Make your messages have some meaning
5. Accept "no thanks" and move on
6. Put some effort into your profile
7. Have a picture of YOU on your profile
8. Respect people on here at ALL times
9. If you get a meet TURN UP !
Well if you can follow that, then I hope that some others on here may agree with me and you will have an amazing time.
There are some wonderful people on here that you will find that, even if you don't play, you will find some great friends. "
By the way, your granny phoned! Shes asking when your gonna teach her to suck those eggs she got from farmfoods! |
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There seems to be a lot of resistance to what seems like tidy advice. Maybe you won't agree with every point, but I hardly see the need for people getting uppity about the advice, particularly those feeling patronised. If you're feeling patronised, then why are you taking general advice, given in an advice forum, so personally? |
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached"
I'm a bit late to this party, but hey-ho!
I guess if you can't compete with proper men then what can I say sure I may not have your muscles, but with the ultra distance running I do I'm a more true representation of what nature intended a guy to be built like.
I alao have a decent personality so ner! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"slag single males all you want, this site would be making a huge loss without them.
I am more annoyed by couples who have met some real dogs and yet fail to reply to polite messages with nice pictures attached
I'm a bit late to this party, but hey-ho!
I guess if you can't compete with proper men then what can I say sure I may not have your muscles, but with the ultra distance running I do I'm a more true representation of what nature intended a guy to be built like.
I alao have a decent personality so ner!"
lol, you have a bigger cock, but I don't think anything else about you is a nature intended |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a bit board of single males posting in the forums wondering why they are finding it hard to get meets so I posted this in the wales forum and had some very positive feedback.
Single males mostly join the site with illusions of grandeur, expecting every single fem, and couple to be busting to meet
so...this is FACT
1. Pictures of your cock as your profile pic WONT work
2. Bragging about how wonderful you are WONT work
3. Messaging asking for a fuck WONT work
4. Expecting people to go outside their preferences WONT work
5. No content in your profile WONT work
6. Believing that your going to play with super models WONT work
7. Messaging repeatedly WONT work
8. Being inflexible WONT work
9. And bad attitudes indefinably WONT work.
What WILL work....
1. Be yourself
2. Go on chat
3. Attend a social
4. Make your messages have some meaning
5. Accept "no thanks" and move on
6. Put some effort into your profile
7. Have a picture of YOU on your profile
8. Respect people on here at ALL times
9. If you get a meet TURN UP !
Well if you can follow that, then I hope that some others on here may agree with me and you will have an amazing time.
There are some wonderful people on here that you will find that, even if you don't play, you will find some great friends. "
Hmm. Well no offence meant but if we received a message from someone with a profile like yours we would just reach for the 'delete' message.And if this is the case with us it would probably be the case with some other couples too.
Perhaps the only single man who is really in a position to offer advice to other single men is he whose messages have never been deleted by anyone!!!
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On the topic of advice for single males, wonder if anyone can give me any.
Looking through the tips below, I think I meet some of these.
My profile is short (a bit like me!!), but I think it's to the point.
I'm not a bragger, in fact the exact opposite.
Certainly don't think I'm going to get super model look a likes.
Try to be myself, and honest without telling everyone my life story
The problem I have is I've never had much look with women, even down to getting dates.
So confidence is at an all time low, and I'm terrible at approaching women, well I believe so.
I haven't put a picture of my profile mainly due to been embarrassed, should someone see it and then see me walking down the street.
That might sound like I'm saying everyone is going to take the piss which probably isn't the case, but it's happened many times before.
I'm no Hollywood Hunk, but I'm not to bad!! I do have pictures I can send though, and have done when sent messages.
If anyone can help out with some ideas that would be a great help. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the topic of advice for single males, wonder if anyone can give me any.
Looking through the tips below, I think I meet some of these.
My profile is short (a bit like me!!), but I think it's to the point.
I'm not a bragger, in fact the exact opposite.
Certainly don't think I'm going to get super model look a likes.
Try to be myself, and honest without telling everyone my life story
The problem I have is I've never had much look with women, even down to getting dates.
So confidence is at an all time low, and I'm terrible at approaching women, well I believe so.
I haven't put a picture of my profile mainly due to been embarrassed, should someone see it and then see me walking down the street.
That might sound like I'm saying everyone is going to take the piss which probably isn't the case, but it's happened many times before.
I'm no Hollywood Hunk, but I'm not to bad!! I do have pictures I can send though, and have done when sent messages.
If anyone can help out with some ideas that would be a great help. Thanks"
my advice would be dont listen to the op its patronising ,and dont whatever you do have a pic of your socks on your profile would much rather see a cock pic good luck and happy hunting xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well, all we can say is, its great advice from one of only a small handful of single males that we would consider good friends.
CJ is well liked, and well respected in our neck of the woods.
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Well all i can say is Wales is a lot bigger than just being Brecon and Cardiff in reference to respected and our neck of the woods.
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