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Hows my profile?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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... I get a lot of "not my type, sorry" when I send face pics which is fair enough (if a little bruising). Competition on here is stiff (excuse the pun) and there are some serious gym bods with huge cocks and Hollywood looks.
But many more just straight deletions, or no response. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
Honestly? The very first paragraph on your profile put us off straight away. We're not all looking for that kind of guy and get fed up of guys blaming their lack of success on others shallowness (or personal preference). It comes over as a bit passive aggressive.
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"Hello. Looking for feedback on my profile if any couples and single females would be kind enough to give their take on how I come over on it.  "
Delete the first two paragraphs from your profile text, and the “good looking” from your profile header  |
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"Hello. Looking for feedback on my profile if any couples and single females would be kind enough to give their take on how I come over on it.
Delete the first two paragraphs from your profile text, and the “good looking” from your profile header "
Also just leave your arse pic on public display |
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Lots of people on here take offence at cockpics which could be why your messages are getting deleted before they are even being read
Add a clothed pic head cropped
As for the bio this isn't a sex site, there's a difference between sex/hook up & swinging & this site is called FAB Swimgers, add to that you've said your not single which will put even more people off as they'll rightly or wrongly presume you are cheating
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have no photos now"
Yup. A lovely character has threatened to [had to remove the word as is a banned word apparently] me on the back of this thread for being a "cheating scumbag"  so took the pics down for now. |
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"You have no photos now
Yup. A lovely character has threatened to [had to remove the word as is a banned word apparently] me on the back of this thread for being a "cheating scumbag" so took the pics down for now. "
I hope you've reported whoever threatened you
You might also want to ask admin/mods to take this thread down if you getting that kind of stuff directed at you - you can do that by hitting the report button on your first message on this thread & explaining why you'd like it removed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have no photos now
Yup. A lovely character has threatened to [had to remove the word as is a banned word apparently] me on the back of this thread for being a "cheating scumbag" so took the pics down for now.
I hope you've reported whoever threatened you
You might also want to ask admin/mods to take this thread down if you getting that kind of stuff directed at you - you can do that by hitting the report button on your first message on this thread & explaining why you'd like it removed "
Nah. Not gonna bow to it. But thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks. Taken that on board and yes I know its a swinging site not a hookup site but I am here.
That first paragraph needs to go mate, as you only repeat yourself in the last two "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All i will say on this is, there has been some very good advice given to you OP.
But I would advise OP to look at how he is responding to some people on this tread, as it does not show you in a good light.
Written words can be taken very differently, compared to whe you are speaking face to face with someone. So be careful. |
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"It’s run of the mill on here 
In fairness, yours isnt enticing either. I guess thats just differences in taste. "
Did I ask for profile advice?
Am I looking to shag women am I?
Attack is usually the the best form of defence for wounded ego men |
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"You have no photos now
Yup. A lovely character has threatened to [had to remove the word as is a banned word apparently] me on the back of this thread for being a "cheating scumbag" so took the pics down for now. "
Please report any profile that sends you abuse so Admin can have a look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s run of the mill on here
In fairness, yours isnt enticing either. I guess thats just differences in taste.
Did I ask for profile advice?
Am I looking to shag women am I?
Attack is usually the the best form of defence for wounded ego men "
Hope you don't mind me saying but your profile is pretty damn good. Clear, concise and excellent pictures. |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"Our opinion is you come across as a bit of a bellend to be honest.
If you don't have any respect for your own partner then you are hardly going to have any for randomers you hope to meet on here."
Says it all. |
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'Bellend' not heard that in years. My word of the week, will be used daily. Was worth me reading another 'advice on profile please even though I know its good all under thinly veiled ego boost but destined to backfire' this is worse than the others even though its a good profile,. I've no idea if your a bellend or if your a scumbag, as I have no idea of your situation, and just because he's married doesn't necessarily mean shit also I consider the possibility he is in fact a decent human being and his wife is a bellend, or other way round or neither. Before you asked for advice people will have read your profile and I'd be amazed if they gave two shits if you were married really as people are not analysing profiles. But ask for advice in the forum it will get dissected word by word, things will get taken a million different ways and then they move onto you, and any response you make will be taken out of context and you could be labelled anything from ok, to bellend to cheater and your wife who doesn't feature anywhere really in this site most people have made her the victim when she could be neither and its all amicable. |
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