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Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you? |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
Maybe go to bi nights at clubs like chameleons .meet bi single gents ..
Good luck |
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Shocked that nobody would want to regularly play with you. You have an amazing body.
If only I lived closer...
One bit of advice, show some pics of hubby publicly. Might entice more bi-guys. |
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We've never found bi comfortable black guys, but have a regular friend for me to play with. |
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I'm a bit out of your age range sadly.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finding a long-term couple is the best. Luckily I've had this a few times. But it is difficult finding people that are well suited to you as well as you being the perfect bull for them.
Don't give up hope though, it's very difficult but not impossible. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple"
...and yet the vast majority (who have written a profile) say that they want quality over quantity, that they're not here to shag all of Fab, that they want to build connections 
Do you have a local social event you can get to? We go to ours and it looks like most there are regulars with each other.
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When I was single I had a few cuckold encounters and I have to say the best were both reasonably long term. It's amazing what you can get cucky to do when he's kept horny and deprived.  |
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"We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
...and yet the vast majority (who have written a profile) say that they want quality over quantity, that they're not here to shag all of Fab, that they want to build connections
Do you have a local social event you can get to? We go to ours and it looks like most there are regulars with each other.
(Bry)"
No socials that we’re aware of or have seen. We’ll have to keep our eyes open and hopefully attend one as that may be the best way forward |
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Just hang in there until the right fella comes along pardon the pun.
We have a regular guy. This was something we were looking for but didn’t really go out of our way to pursue. After months of being on fab this chap asked for a social. We invited him to ours one thing led to another and he said he’d like to meet again so now it’s a regular thing. You get more out of playing with a regular mate as the connection is there and there is scope to go further if you want in a relaxed environment. |
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Hey, guys. I’m a single bi guy and struggle to find couples that want a bull for cuckhold sessions!! |
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We are also struggling to find a reliable, single, regular bull, get the usual that want to meet but when arranging specific dates they stop messaging, very frustrating |
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We’ve tried for years and never managed this sadly. Hopefully one day we click with the right person |
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Single bi man here looking to find a regular couple for mutually rewarding times, any scenario you wish, just pm for a chat and see how things go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think men do want regular here.
Even if they say they do they rarely do
I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
We haven't found the right guy for us for regular.
There are guys we have spike to but they live down south etc so it doesn't work.
It's hard find the right person with the right personality connection.
But it's not something we are chasing. If it happens great if not we are fine, we won't compromise on what we want. |
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We have struggled to find a regular playmate for fun and most seem to just want one offs  |
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Strange, I was a regular 3rd person for a married couple for nearly 4 years until they moved to the other end of the country.
Being a regular is MUCH better than one offs imo, as people have said, the fun gets better each time and you get to know each others bodies.
Hopefully I'll find another regular couple, prefer it personally! |
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Our last long standing guy we met in a club
Definitely difficult to find the right guys on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our last long standing guy we met in a club
Definitely difficult to find the right guys on here"
Nice to hear. We met a couple of nice men on here but not long term types for us. So we going to va club soon and we probably won’t find a long termer but gonna have fun looking and trying before we buy |
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"We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
...and yet the vast majority (who have written a profile) say that they want quality over quantity, that they're not here to shag all of Fab, that they want to build connections
Do you have a local social event you can get to? We go to ours and it looks like most there are regulars with each other.
(Bry)
No socials that we’re aware of or have seen. We’ll have to keep our eyes open and hopefully attend one as that may be the best way forward "
There was a big Croydon social earlier this month, check out the London Forum I think they are planning another one for March/April |
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I used to have a regular couple. Lost touch when a I had a monogamous relationship and deleted my numbers.
I’ve started my search to find myself a new hotwife for a lover.
Hopefully I’m already on the way to finding them.
Good luck and enjoy the search!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would be great to chat to you both some more about this. It seems we are all looking for similar things, I’m an hour max from you. Regular meets gain a level of trust and everyone gets to know what each other enjoy. A x
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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago
Bickliegh |
We are looking for two one in Plymouth area and one in Cornwall area  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always preferred regular, had it 3 times, 2 singles and 1 couple. And certainly would be more than happy to find long term regular to be exclusive with. So it seems difficult all around sadly  |
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I also prefer regular but never seemed to find anyone up north
But mayb thats me! |
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We have hooked up with guys more than once ... think it’s only natural for a guy to wanna enjoy himself elsewhere whilst on fab ..exclusivity’s hard to expect these days |
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I'm guessing that as you've hid your profile and blocked messages from single guys that you've been overwhelmed with offers! Good luck, and if you ever fancy anyone older..... |
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We have had regulars but so difficult to find guys that get the cuckold dynamic/relationship |
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"I don't think men do want regular here.
Even if they say they do they rarely do
I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X "
This is so true, I’m on here as a single female and don’t like random hook ups and one offs. I’m here to try find regular meets but as said no one seems to want it and they lie saying they do then you never hear from them again  |
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"I don't think men do want regular here.
Even if they say they do they rarely do
I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X
This is so true, I’m on here as a single female and don’t like random hook ups and one offs. I’m here to try find regular meets but as said no one seems to want it and they lie saying they do then you never hear from them again "
If I lived near you you'd have to throw me out! |
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100% regular is better, I have played with 2 couples for over 3 years and the level of understanding, needs, likes, etc just grows with time and makes meets better and better. |
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I do like regular couples or female meets. It keeps getting better and better the more you meet up. Yorkshire anyone? |
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"I don't think men do want regular here.
Even if they say they do they rarely do
I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X
This is so true, I’m on here as a single female and don’t like random hook ups and one offs. I’m here to try find regular meets but as said no one seems to want it and they lie saying they do then you never hear from them again
If I lived near you you'd have to throw me out!
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Haha thanks  |
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Ive found it hard to meet a couple that want a regular male. I used to have a couple but they moved away |
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"Our last long standing guy we met in a club
Definitely difficult to find the right guys on here
Nice to hear. We met a couple of nice men on here but not long term types for us. So we going to va club soon and we probably won’t find a long termer but gonna have fun looking and trying before we buy"
Very true it’s great fun trying before you buy or test riding lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love to find a hotwife or couple for a long term relationship |
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"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else? |
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else? "
Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else?
Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also"
That sounds perfect, reading all the comments it's hard for both singles and couples....
Local enough to spend time and build that friendship and Trust  |
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else?
Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also"
Ah OK, the way I read your op "they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple" I thought that's what you were after and thought it was unreasonable as well
Hopefully you find someone who ticks all the boxes sooner rather than later! |
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"We have struggled to find a regular playmate for fun and most seem to just want one offs "
Blocking the guys your looking for might not help lol |
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"I don't think men do want regular here.
Even if they say they do they rarely do
I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X "
I don’t like one offs ? Must be weird ? As I think that you need to know and understand someone’s needs and desires to truly have the best time ? |
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While most of the couples that I meet want a one off experience a few do invite me back on a regular basis.
So long as it remains primarily sexual then I am at ease with this but wary of emotions complicating things. |
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Would love to meet another regular bi guy and girl preferably not a couple J&t |
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By *x cplCouple
over a year ago
North of Oxford |
Why a regular could improve on the actual physical sex there is the risks of feelings and attachments growing. For some it's the newness of a partner that excites. It's all down to each individual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why a regular could improve on the actual physical sex there is the risks of feelings and attachments growing. For some it's the newness of a partner that excites. It's all down to each individual."
totally agree also having sex with someone who you know is already commited to someone else is a different dynamic when it comes to sex.... you know you will always be an outsider
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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago
forest |
I've been a regular for a couple before. Was great fun. Would love to find another for a regular situation |
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I’ve been unsuccessful so far on here despite being an active bull in the past via LocalSwingers.com |
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Happy to chat with couples close by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Takes us a lot of courage to meet a guy for the first time, but thankfully most of the people we've met have become regulars and good friends too. Sadly there have been those few who have fallen by the wayside |
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It’s tough for the Cuckold couples and also for the bull/stud. Often you find the perfect couple but they live at the other end of the country or you find a couple that lives close but there are differences in interests that stop it from developing into long term.
Long term arrangements are so much better as everyone has the time to feel more relaxed and develop the relationship, it allows you to live out all fantasies and scenarios within the realms of the lifestyle m.  |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
Laura has had a couple of regular guys in the past but they aren’t interested in the Cuckold dynamic that we have evolved into.
We had been finding things difficult but some recent messages have made us think that all is not lost. |
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Mr D living the dream of many of us  |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
S. Northants |
"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
We're a cuckquean/reverse cuckold couple and we always aim for regular ladies to join in. We've had more regulars than one offs. Would love to meet a cuckold couple/hot wife for regular fun. |
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else?
Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also"
Your profile is hidden now! Because of all the offers now, no doubt
Feel free to drop me a wink or message if you'd be interested. Sounds ideal to me! x |
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I’m with the OP on this one!!
We meet very occasionally, but would just prefer one guy that we can call on…. Maybe this is a bit selfish. Generally though, the guys say they are single, but are really hiding a partner!!
We don’t cheat on each other and don’t want to be part of someone else cheating on theirs either.
It sounds so easy, but I tho k maybe we’re too fussy or just overthinking things….Mrs G x
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By *aughtydanteMan
over a year ago
Midlands Based But Travel |
Im shocked to see so many couples who can't find a Male for a regular meet.
My thoughts are thats what most "Men" want and it was couples who enjoyed the fuck and go scenario more.
I think "Single" guys want regular .. the "pretending to be Single guys dont.
Im very interested in finding a couple for regular fun. Ideally looking for FWB. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy regular doesn't happen enough.
My last couple expected me to only sleep with her... working around their availability which quickly got very boring...so I ended it. |
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"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
I have been fortunate to meet two couples who wanted exactly this arrangement, on an exclusive basis, and it worked well for all concerned, so don’t give up hope OP.
I am straight btw, there was no male-male interaction apart from dvp |
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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago
Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow |
True cuckold dynamic is all about the tryst.
Long term bull is the only way for that tryst part of the dynamic to work. How is a bull exactly expected to put cuck through his paces on one meet?
Cuckold play, while I accept one offs do provide fulfilment, they do not really cut the dynamic entirely.
Have been in three longish term tryst over the years where we all learnt and developed from each other. Which is how it should be.
Cuckold play is complex, but when dine properly it is mind blowing for all.
Good luck on your search OP, and can fully understand why you would be seeking same. |
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It's not true that all men don't want regular. I much prefer regular playmates as you build a connection and in my opinion the sex gets better. |
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"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
I have really enjoyed this question and the responses I have so far been able to read. I am looking for a cuckold couple for regular long term play and find myself changing my requirements as my experience change.
For example, I like regular text contact but it doesn’t need to be everyday and for a relationship based on sex I have found that I don’t want to talk about sex all the time or fantasies in the middle of the work day.
As I search I start to learn more about my wants etc so it is turning in something of a discovery of self. Thanks again for the question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
I much prefer a regular couple scenario. You get to build trust push boundaries and explore knowing everyone involved in sa safe space. Much better than trying to learn a different couple's idea of fun each week. |
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Possibly an isssue is you have blocked all men just sayin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So I find it frustrating that there are so many people out there struggling to find a man who is interested in the cuckold dynamic when cuckold is something I'm into I'm straight but love being deep in a man's wife while he watches. I have also been looking for regular meetings for struggling to get the single one.
If there are any cookout couples from Manchester out there, have a look at my profile and if you're interested in potentially meeting, don't hesitate to get in contact |
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We find that guys contact us without really understanding the cuckold dynamic or even reading our profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We find that guys contact us without really understanding the cuckold dynamic or even reading our profile "
it's different for different couples will I saw codes like to be humiliated while others just enjoy watching some like to direct their action for me it's about having a conversation and finding out what the other expects to get out of it and then tailoring what I do in order to ensure they get maximum pleasure |
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Yes agreed and that takes time to build that connection |
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Well I am in Lincolnshire so if a couple want a male to please her whilst he is cuck give me a shout. I'd prefer long term!
Paul x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the opposite problem.. I am looking for a cp for something regular... to develop a cuckold scenario, but seems very difficult to happen.. however never say never.. open to chat |
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If you unblock single guys from your profile you’ll find that men like me want to meet a couple like you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
The dream for me would be find a couple who 1 I get in with and 2 all 3 of us find each attractive, but no such luck
Not sure why but I've always thought it would be easier from the couples pof than the singles, but obviously from the replies everyone is struggling with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you unblock single guys from your profile you’ll find that men like me want to meet a couple like you"
They probably don't want to be inundated by messages from single men and want to search and message those who tickle their fancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finding a regular couple to explore a range of scenarios with, as trust grew, would be the dream! |
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I've had a few regular cuckold/hotwife relationships over the years but covid stopped the last one and I haven't found one since |
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There a kik group called #coffeeandcukold |
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"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
Stay positive and Keep looking  he’ll pop up soon!!! |
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"Yes agreed and that takes time to build that connection "
Most definitely |
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I am bi and was meeting a cpl on and off for 3yrs unfortunately for us all relocation due to work ended it would love to find the same closeness with another cpl |
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We’ve found it quite difficult to find regular guys, had one or two but usually quite short term x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finding a couple or fem for regular FWB fun is what Im here for. I would much prefer that over loads of meets. Sadly Im getting neither  |
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They say variety is the spice of life. Personally I'd prefer a regular relationship. |
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By *olfie26Man
over a year ago
Brierley Hill |
I've had a few regular cuckold couples. As far as I'm concerned regular is integral to the cuckold dynamic. I'd dearly love to find another regular cuckold couple in the West Midlands area. |
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"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
If only I lived a bit closer to you.
For a time a woman I met on here but already knew from "normal" life would come over once a week. Her fella expected her home that night but the first time she was here she wanted to stay the night. That became a regular thing. He would ask for photos and she would decline.
They were very much in love, but she seemed to enjoy keeping him hanging. He seemed to enjoy her control of the situation. I just wanted to please her, so we all had a great time, I think |
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We also agree,
It’s hard to find a guy that fits our dynamic. |
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By *w_cuckCouple
over a year ago
Cambridgeshire |
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By *w_cuckCouple
over a year ago
Cambridgeshire |
My wife had a guy she meet on a weekly basis for over 2 years until the lockdown started and that put a stop to it all.
If you can find the right guy then its great to have a regular bull, but they are very hard to find. |
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"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
We’ve been searching too…..:: no such luck.
We can’t, obviously, tell a guy they can’t meet anyone else, but we also don’t want the guy we meet to be meeting all and sundry, which creates a difficult situation.
Selfishly, it would be great to just have the one guy, but, being realistic, never gonna happen.
Most guys want their cake and to eat it. Who can blame them…..but as a couple who are we to dictate, and there is lots of choice on here. So, you’re unlikely to ever get a guy, just for you! X
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We were lucky to have a regular young student guy to serve me for two years till he got his degree by the time covid came up.Recently he came back for some uni work and he was our first meet since then.Hopefully will be meeting him once a month,regular for me but not exclusive... |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my now ex had a regular local lad who she found herself to do cuckholding with, he was our age 6ft 3 very athletic with a huge penis, i loved seeing her have the time of her life shagging him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife has been meeting the same man for nine years now. |
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By *jekimMan
over a year ago
Wigan |
I'd love to find one in Wigan especially older than me who'd make me cum in her an him lick us clean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If any couples from the north east are looking for a regular gentleman, don't hesitate to send me a message. |
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I am seeking a regular couple after my previous one moved to Switzerland.... |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
I would much rather find a regular couple to have fun with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are the same as we can’t acomm and do not want loads of singles. So many time wasters |
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The law of sod is truly at play here. I've had a couple of regular cuckold couples in the past but none post lock down so far.
I too prefer semi-regular meets but so far none of the couples that I think are compatible are local to me.
Glass half full though right |
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By *evlishduncMan
over a year ago
north suffolk south norfolk |
Much prefer long term relationships. My first was 3 years with a couple in London; they moved back to California.
You’ll find the right one soon enough. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular is best. Was a liver to a couple for 4yrs on here and it totally changed my perspective. We sort of became a bit poly where we would also just meet for coffee and lunch and i would even play golf with hubby.
Sex.just got better and better as our connection did. You just know what the other wants ....finished due to personal.reasons on both sides and covid.
Miss it terribly but hoping to find another situation...
OP.....sure you will.find what you seek. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have struggled to find a regular playmate for fun and most seem to just want one offs "
I beg to differ....what i really seek |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
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Hard to believe you struggle to find a guy for regular. It’s something I’d be very interested.
Living a busy life with work and hobbies I would love to find something regular and stable. Message me if you are interested in a sorted guy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I echo that and surely regular is best |
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regular guy so much better yet hard to find, we found ours on here met for drink got on great , started to see him, as most guys on here he was married , so hard for him to arrange visits to us , but we played with him for well over 8 years and in that time the sex was amazing, sadly we no longer see him , not sure why , but we do believe he got found out , as all communication was lost |
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We're a cuckqean couple and it's the same for us. We would love a regular lady and have in the past but those came to a natural end.
We're quite open to meeting a cuckold couple as a pair or me on my own meeting a couple or hotwife.
I know its not applicable to all cuckold/hot wife couples but when we've explored that avenue they're either wanting an actual single guy (lots of no married guys on their profiles), a guy who's going to berate their partners (which isnt my style), someone who can accomodate (which is fine but we have the same issues other couples have there) or a bi guy (which I am not). This is made even more comicated as the people we have spoken to always want a guy on their terms (You've got to be free when they want you, which again, I have a life) or they also want exclusivity.
Now I know ow not all couples are like this but that's just what we've run across in our time.
I'm sure with the right flexibility and relevant compromises though a good balance can be found for all parties if they really want it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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HW has a guy she is free to meet anytime she wants , recently had her first solo with him after meeting a few times before when I was there to take pics etc |
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I prefer regular only when it comes to cuckold dynamic. The key is to go with people where sexual chemistry goes hand in hand with social compatibility.
I am straight and prefer that the cuck and I are able to chat/ have a drink every now and then. Whatever the level of involvement during sex, it is about 3 people and if you strike the balance, it gets better every time.
I do find that there are couples here prefer no social connection and keep it fuck and go - just to keep the emotional side to themselves. I respect that, but those encounters don’t work for me.
May be meet socially first with play off the table, if you get along well, you have a better change of finding a regular OP. Good luck and it does get better when it’s quality not quantity |
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"I prefer regular only when it comes to cuckold dynamic. The key is to go with people where sexual chemistry goes hand in hand with social compatibility.
I am straight and prefer that the cuck and I are able to chat/ have a drink every now and then. Whatever the level of involvement during sex, it is about 3 people and if you strike the balance, it gets better every time.
I do find that there are couples here prefer no social connection and keep it fuck and go - just to keep the emotional side to themselves. I respect that, but those encounters don’t work for me.
May be meet socially first with play off the table, if you get along well, you have a better change of finding a regular OP. Good luck and it does get better when it’s quality not quantity "
Everything he said
*Except the straight bit* |
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We'd very much like to find a regular to join us... |
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"We'd very much like to find a regular to join us... "
If ever a proifle showed a loving couple its yours and what husband would not be proud of his wife taking a BBC |
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To be fair im looking for regular meets with couple. But being a single male, most of my messages saying hi how are u get deleted. Im respectful and easy going, that seems to be what no one is looking for
Happy friday peeps |
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By *eeboCouple
over a year ago
basingstoke |
When Mrs C is wanting to meet again then someone regular would be the preferred option
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone in wirral im up for it |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
"When Mrs C is wanting to meet again then someone regular would be the preferred option
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Yes please |
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"We'd very much like to find a regular to join us...
If ever a proifle showed a loving couple its yours and what husband would not be proud of his wife taking a BBC "
Thank you! That's incredibly accurate and kind of you to say xx |
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At least it isn't just us in this situation of not be able to find someone |
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Regular would be the ideal
Meeting a couple on a regular basis is as far am I’m concerned the best way to go .... quality over quantity anyday |
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"Regular would be the ideal
Meeting a couple on a regular basis is as far am I’m concerned the best way to go .... quality over quantity anyday "
Though as we all know it’s not as simple as it sounds... for some reason it’s difficult to find |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would love to try wife share |
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By *jekimMan
over a year ago
Wigan |
Why are all these women an couples not in Wigan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been meeting Dave for over nine years now, works well for us all |
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else?
Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also"
A few times a month is a lot. I normally see my regular fab friends every few months. |
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I think you’ll find someone eventually, just a numbers game.
Hoping it doesn’t take too long though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're looking for volunteers then.. give me a shout.. more than happy to help out. |
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Not looking for cuckold thing. Have sought another guy so two of us guys for one female. Intention - a regular. Yes the impression is there are some seeking numbers with seemingly no clue how to do the actual activity. Can be a strange world at times. |
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So glad it’s not just us!
It’s really hard to find a reliable single male that wants regular fun………the search goes on! |
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Ive found over the yeaes that a regular couple helps to build the excitement more than meet and leave ones. Building the closeness and connection increases the fun. But finding a couple who want this isnt easy for us regular guys either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks like is difficult on both sides of the page.
Finding that regular couple that all 3 click, trust can be built and the sex gets better and better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be keen to be a regular play partner |
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Yes can be difficult finding something semi regular for us |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"Are you looking for a regular guy who exclusively meets only you amd nobody else?
Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also
A few times a month is a lot. I normally see my regular fab friends every few months. "
I would love a couple of times a month. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wirral anyone |
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We're still looking for the right guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here had one regular guy when we lived in London seems very difficult in Kent |
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I was a regular lover to a hotwife for some years. It’s difficult to find an appropriate match, but there are those of us out there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be willing to meet up with a regular couple or hot wife for regular meets,
the one thing I dislike about swinging is the one off meetings as I truly believe that sex gets a lot better when you understand each others likes and have established a connection. |
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By *on50Man
over a year ago
Stockport |
Like many have said I found that a regular meeting was more enjoyable for everyone involved. Also looking for someone new either a woman alone or part of a couple |
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"Nope. That’s an unreasonable thing to ask/expect. Just someone who wants to meet regularly with us (few times a month). Someone to actually have a friendship with with the added benefit of having sexual fun also
A few times a month is a lot. I normally see my regular fab friends every few months. "
I had the pleasure of having a 'regular' playmate who I visited on-and-off for three years - her husband would get in touch as and when, to see if I was free the next day...
....over that time my afternoon visits to her varied anywhere from weekly to fortnightly to monthly - at one stage I was fucking her every week for a couple of months, at another it was only a couple of times during a few months...
With two other couples, I was an occasional 'regular' who visited whenever my wife was away - with one of them, my trips to see them became an 'annual' thing, five times over five years; with the other, it was twice one year, and three times the next... |
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I have been so fortunate over the years finding myself the lucky third! Some of these threesomes lasting a decade or more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow my last couple lasted over 2 years.
It's great to find that that bond and start building trust.
Looking in Lancashire |
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Hi I am looking for a regular meet with a couple that want cuckold meets . I always meet and very genuine |
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amazing, unable to find when actually searching profiles with all the filters and photo to entice and ability to directly communicate possibilities....the forum is where they have all been hiding, presumably unable to message cuckold couples directly, which is an odd approach |
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I'm looking for a regular couple or regular woman to meet often. I live in Salford, just outside of Manchester city centre.
I can meet easily and accommodate.
Ideally we would meet regularly either during the week or weekends or on a semi regular basis.
Both for sexual meets and social meets. I'm chatty so I'd like to speak to you and we go out places. Think of it as me as you HW bf or single girl lover.
I like to party so we can both go regular bars and clubs as well as singers clubs together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a little love touch
I met while back with Couple for over 2-3 years
Helped build their home
Partial stopped in their acoms
It'd be suitable for greater reward & involvement, Somewhere more private
but where's it going after that
Who's going to love me - where's my bull up before Vaseline-ing back down or the summer warmth
Someone got a Spain Hop for couples to meet me -
I want sex and the strength that comes with it
Right here - U know where I am
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It’s actually kinda refreshing to see that we aren’t the only ones who have really struggled with this.
We’ve been looking for almost two years and would start a conversation with the potential lad regularly enough but terns out most either they don’t get the dynamic, are secretly attached and not regularly available, or are just using fab for fantasy wanks.
In those two years, we had just one lad that we had a regular arrangement. Sadly it only lasted to months because he started a relationship (great for him obviously and we wished him well).
So, back looking now and put a fresh status up every 2/3 days but realistically we are kinda deflated and feel it’s a bit of a fools errand.
Hope you folks have some luck soon!
Rhett and Scarlett xx |
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I'd love to find a couple for regular meets |
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It does take time to find a regular meet and, in my experience, you tend to fall into it rather than go looking for it on purpose.
What I have found is that you have a meet, find you all get on well and have another. Then things just start to progress. It is as much about the social side of the relationship as the physical in my experience.
Once everyone is really comfortable then the sex is always so much better and you can all explore different things.
It’s what makes this site so great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s actually kinda refreshing to see that we aren’t the only ones who have really struggled with this.
We’ve been looking for almost two years and would start a conversation with the potential lad regularly enough but terns out most either they don’t get the dynamic, are secretly attached and not regularly available, or are just using fab for fantasy wanks.
In those two years, we had just one lad that we had a regular arrangement. Sadly it only lasted to months because he started a relationship (great for him obviously and we wished him well).
So, back looking now and put a fresh status up every 2/3 days but realistically we are kinda deflated and feel it’s a bit of a fools errand.
Hope you folks have some luck soon!
Rhett and Scarlett xx"
Just curious why it's a must that he be single? Surely if his married and his wife knows then it should be OK considering you're also married ?
Genuine question, not intended to throw bad vibes in your direction |
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"It’s actually kinda refreshing to see that we aren’t the only ones who have really struggled with this.
We’ve been looking for almost two years and would start a conversation with the potential lad regularly enough but terns out most either they don’t get the dynamic, are secretly attached and not regularly available, or are just using fab for fantasy wanks.
In those two years, we had just one lad that we had a regular arrangement. Sadly it only lasted to months because he started a relationship (great for him obviously and we wished him well).
So, back looking now and put a fresh status up every 2/3 days but realistically we are kinda deflated and feel it’s a bit of a fools errand.
Hope you folks have some luck soon!
Rhett and Scarlett xx
Just curious why it's a must that he be single? Surely if his married and his wife knows then it should be OK considering you're also married ?
Genuine question, not intended to throw bad vibes in your direction "
In our experience, very few of the lads that claim they are playing with permission are.
Also, even a genuine stag has domestic commitments which would naturally take priority and possibly limit availability.
Really, it just reduces potential complications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s actually kinda refreshing to see that we aren’t the only ones who have really struggled with this.
We’ve been looking for almost two years and would start a conversation with the potential lad regularly enough but terns out most either they don’t get the dynamic, are secretly attached and not regularly available, or are just using fab for fantasy wanks.
In those two years, we had just one lad that we had a regular arrangement. Sadly it only lasted to months because he started a relationship (great for him obviously and we wished him well).
So, back looking now and put a fresh status up every 2/3 days but realistically we are kinda deflated and feel it’s a bit of a fools errand.
Hope you folks have some luck soon!
Rhett and Scarlett xx
Just curious why it's a must that he be single? Surely if his married and his wife knows then it should be OK considering you're also married ?
Genuine question, not intended to throw bad vibes in your direction
In our experience, very few of the lads that claim they are playing with permission are.
Also, even a genuine stag has domestic commitments which would naturally take priority and possibly limit availability.
Really, it just reduces potential complications."
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We find ourselves in same position xx so your not alone |
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"We've never found bi comfortable black guys, but have a regular friend for me to play with."
most of us at straight see it deh
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to find just one couple to have a regular thing with rather than keep going back and forth messaging, so if I'm your type feel free to pm me x |
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"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
Hi, such a surprise to keep seeing that the couples are struggling to find suitable long term fellas..
I’m just outside London near high Wycombe if anyone fancies a chat.. |
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"Morning all
We’ve been members of the site for a while and have been fortunate to have had some great meets but one thing we’ve struggled with is finding a guy for regular meets
We’ve spoken to a number of guys and majority don't want a regular arrangement and clearly told us this is a swinging site and they’re here to meet as many people as possible not stay to just one couple
Questions to other cuckold couples, is there a social, events or other more specialist places to find a guy/bull for frequent meets that have been successful for you?"
Odd, I thought that was very much part of the cuckold dynamic - a regular playmate (bf) for the wife?
I’d love to have a regular arrangement rather than one-offs… |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
I'm surprised there aren't more socials arranged where likemined folk who are interested in or enjoy cuckold fun can meet up for a drink and a chat. |
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I've had regular couples ..they come and they go ..but it is possible |
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"I don't think men do want regular here.
Even if they say they do they rarely do
I don't think it's just couple's struggle. Occasionally people think it's beneath then to see a swinger regularly X "
I would prefer to have regular meets with a lady or couple, sex gets better as you get to know what they like |
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Hi any cuckold couple looking for a regular older man ? I always met and happy to chat |
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I'm a single guy in Newcastle have my own place been involved with a cuckold couple before for a few years till they moved .would love to meet an other couple for long term fun please drop me a message. |
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Would love to find a regular couple ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to find a regular man or a couple to cuckold my partner with but it’s harder than you think  |
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This is what I primarily look for, not lots of one-offs. I find it much more satisfying meeting a small select group of ladies & couples on a regularish basis. Everybody is more relaxed, knows what turns the other on and the sex is much better.
I'm always looking to meet some new people for regularish fun, can accommodate or happy to travel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am bisexual , from North Yorkshire and ideally looking for a regular couple who want a genuine Bi man to join them
J x  |
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This scenario would certainly appeal to me. |
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By *_weadenMan
over a year ago
Near Hull |
Would love to find another cuck couple who were up for a regular visitor. Couple of times a month or so. Certainly leads to a really good deep exploration of the dynamic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a great experience to behold. Use to have a regular meeting with a couple, until they moved. Personally I prefer regular meetings then a ton of new ones.
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Would like to find a couple in Devon. ... Nothing I like more than satisfying a married woman in ways her beloved husband doesn't |
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Looking for a regular couple now if any are interested |
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