We want to meet a black female as I have never been with one before (female) but wanted to ask what the best way to phrase it would be on here without causing offense I know it sounds a bit silly but just want to make sure we use the right language x |
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Look at your motives for wanting to do so… if its a tick box exercise ‘just to try a black lady’ then personally i’d be miffed about that. I’m a person not a fairground ride. If you see that person as another lady with the same body parts as yourself and a cracking personality to boot then i’d say, pass go and collect 200  |
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"Definitely not a box tick but had so many lovely ladies that we haven't had the courage to ask them about it before x"
Bless youse why would you need courage. Drop the race bit. You see a lady you fancy then message them - hey loved your profile etc, would really be interested in getting to know you more. (All that never had a black lady stuff is cringe and i can only speak for myself, its a turn off. They see my colour not me). |
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"Definitely not a box tick but had so many lovely ladies that we haven't had the courage to ask them about it before x"
I don't understand. You have had "so many lovely ladies" but before meeting "haven't had the courage to ask them" what colour they are ? |
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"We want to meet a black female as I have never been with one before (female) but wanted to ask what the best way to phrase it would be on here without causing offense I know it sounds a bit silly but just want to make sure we use the right language x"
“You look amazing” is a great place to start with any female, regardless of ethnicity…..   |
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