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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I think a healthy discussion between you both a decision made as to the why's and why nots.
I don't see 'letting', if either of you want to do something, you should discuss, agree/disagree and respect decision. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't have the confidence to go on my own.
I like my husband there just in case..
If i was to go with another couple or lady then it would be different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you play seperatly, then yes. If no, then no, couse you not looking to go to swingerclub just to drink a coffe."
Some of us do not go to clubs to play.. but to catch up with swinging friends..and maybe make new ones..
And to answer the OP... I know lots of ladies that go alone or with friends.. As to the rules for you being there.. ie playing or just having a good social time.. that is what you would have to work out.
Master sometimes lets me play.. sometimes tells me no... Either way I have a good time.. and even when I have permission to play I dont always.
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The whole point of swinging for us is that we do it together. We take great pleasure from watching each other and playing together.
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Exactly the same for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes Sammi has been to a club on her own on 2 occassions!"
Whats good for the goose is good for the gander!
The secret to a successful relationship is the trust that emotional connections will not be formed, thus to swing together or alone, but to be back in the arms of your loved one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes Sammi has been to a club on her own on 2 occassions!
Whats good for the goose is good for the gander!
The secret to a successful relationship is the trust that emotional connections will not be formed, thus to swing together or alone, but to be back in the arms of your loved one." Me Billy never been on my own and no desire to do so! Sammi and 1 have 100% trust and was a great turn on to hear what she did alone |
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We're still newish to swinging... However in a short time things have changed and moved on fast than we expected. So this Friday Frisky is going to a party without me but with a couple. Also a couple of single males whome we know are also going to keep an eye on her. Yes I wish I was going but it was a late notice thing and I'm working.
So I'll just make the most of it knowing she's having fun and will share all the juicy details with me later. |
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By *issMidsWoman
over a year ago
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When one of us isn't available we let the other head to a club. We have some excellent ones that we go to where we trust the regulars and the staff are amazing (we love you all!), so all is good |
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