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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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starting to get abit frustrated and demoralised at the fact i have not found a meet yet any advice would be much appreictaed as i think im ok looking lol. xx |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"your spelling and grammer not great for starters ."
His grammar and spelling has fuck all to do with it, there are much worse on here.....get yourself to a local club, social party there is usually a list in the meets n parties section. Plump up your profile and add some good quality pics....dont forget to attach one as an avatar...maybe go into chat or try the forums...good luck xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to except you are one of many. Either live with this or moan.
One tip I can give you is to post forum comments. When people reply to them, send a private thank you. Doesn't mean you'll be any more successful but, maybe you'll get to chat to some nice people.
Oh, and keep smiling - this is a marathon not a sprint!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face 
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.  |
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to. "
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all  |
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"your spelling and grammer not great for starters ."
should that read 'your spelling and grammar isnt great, for starters'?
if you're going to pull someone up on something you need to make sure you're whiter than white yourself  (pet peeve of mine  )
OP i dont see anything wrong with your pics to be fair, seen far worse on profiles. maybe do some cheeky easing ones like the classic slightly open jeans etc
just keep at it. The fact that there are so many men on here means that women and couples can have a tendancy to get ultra picky....dont let it get you down, as Femme says, get to clubs maybe or a social and actually meet people so your personality can be seen.
hope your luck improves. |
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"Send a face pic with your messages and make sure the people your messaging are looking for someone like you.
Spell check your profile mate its shocking."
i may have entered into this thread after some work has been done to the profile but i cant see any spelling mistakes  apart from 1 missing word...'i AM sociable'
you however have 4 mistakes on your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your spelling and grammer not great for starters ."
See post for details of how people don't look in a mirror, if you are going to highlight someones spelling try spelling a simple word correctly yourself !!!!
Couldn't make this up !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all "
I never said anything about anybody mattering more. All I'm saying is that it will automatically rule him out from everyone who is pedantic about this as soon as they read his profile, thus lowering his chances significantly before a ball has even been kicked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all
I never said anything about anybody mattering more. All I'm saying is that it will automatically rule him out from everyone who is pedantic about this as soon as they read his profile, thus lowering his chances significantly before a ball has even been kicked."
Well count me out then as I am and I admit to being pedantic about spelling and grammar but I am wholly aware that some people cannot spell or are dyslexic so I wouldn't wholly rule someone out or pass them by because they cannot spell, indeed I have been chatting to someone for a very long time that cannot spell, admits to it but he comes across as a really nice man |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all
I never said anything about anybody mattering more. All I'm saying is that it will automatically rule him out from everyone who is pedantic about this as soon as they read his profile, thus lowering his chances significantly before a ball has even been kicked.
Well count me out then as I am and I admit to being pedantic about spelling and grammar but I am wholly aware that some people cannot spell or are dyslexic so I wouldn't wholly rule someone out or pass them by because they cannot spell, indeed I have been chatting to someone for a very long time that cannot spell, admits to it but he comes across as a really nice man"
As would I but I know people who aren't so forgiving. I'm not trying to argue about this, merely give pointers on how to increase his target audience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all
I never said anything about anybody mattering more. All I'm saying is that it will automatically rule him out from everyone who is pedantic about this as soon as they read his profile, thus lowering his chances significantly before a ball has even been kicked.
Well count me out then as I am and I admit to being pedantic about spelling and grammar but I am wholly aware that some people cannot spell or are dyslexic so I wouldn't wholly rule someone out or pass them by because they cannot spell, indeed I have been chatting to someone for a very long time that cannot spell, admits to it but he comes across as a really nice man
As would I but I know people who aren't so forgiving. I'm not trying to argue about this, merely give pointers on how to increase his target audience "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all
I never said anything about anybody mattering more. All I'm saying is that it will automatically rule him out from everyone who is pedantic about this as soon as they read his profile, thus lowering his chances significantly before a ball has even been kicked.
Well count me out then as I am and I admit to being pedantic about spelling and grammar but I am wholly aware that some people cannot spell or are dyslexic so I wouldn't wholly rule someone out or pass them by because they cannot spell, indeed I have been chatting to someone for a very long time that cannot spell, admits to it but he comes across as a really nice man
As would I but I know people who aren't so forgiving. I'm not trying to argue about this, merely give pointers on how to increase his target audience
Yes well I get you now "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all
I never said anything about anybody mattering more. All I'm saying is that it will automatically rule him out from everyone who is pedantic about this as soon as they read his profile, thus lowering his chances significantly before a ball has even been kicked.
Well count me out then as I am and I admit to being pedantic about spelling and grammar but I am wholly aware that some people cannot spell or are dyslexic so I wouldn't wholly rule someone out or pass them by because they cannot spell, indeed I have been chatting to someone for a very long time that cannot spell, admits to it but he comes across as a really nice man
As would I but I know people who aren't so forgiving. I'm not trying to argue about this, merely give pointers on how to increase his target audience
Yes well I get you now
Halle-bloody-lujah "
I have been up since 4.45 am no idea why so forgive me for my thickness at stupid o'clock when I read the post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all
I never said anything about anybody mattering more. All I'm saying is that it will automatically rule him out from everyone who is pedantic about this as soon as they read his profile, thus lowering his chances significantly before a ball has even been kicked.
Well count me out then as I am and I admit to being pedantic about spelling and grammar but I am wholly aware that some people cannot spell or are dyslexic so I wouldn't wholly rule someone out or pass them by because they cannot spell, indeed I have been chatting to someone for a very long time that cannot spell, admits to it but he comes across as a really nice man
As would I but I know people who aren't so forgiving. I'm not trying to argue about this, merely give pointers on how to increase his target audience
Yes well I get you now
Halle-bloody-lujah
I have been up since 4.45 am no idea why so forgive me for my thickness at stupid o'clock when I read the post "
Say 10 hail Marys and tug on my todger for an hour or so and you are forgiven my child |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all
I never said anything about anybody mattering more. All I'm saying is that it will automatically rule him out from everyone who is pedantic about this as soon as they read his profile, thus lowering his chances significantly before a ball has even been kicked.
Well count me out then as I am and I admit to being pedantic about spelling and grammar but I am wholly aware that some people cannot spell or are dyslexic so I wouldn't wholly rule someone out or pass them by because they cannot spell, indeed I have been chatting to someone for a very long time that cannot spell, admits to it but he comes across as a really nice man
As would I but I know people who aren't so forgiving. I'm not trying to argue about this, merely give pointers on how to increase his target audience
Yes well I get you now
Halle-bloody-lujah
I have been up since 4.45 am no idea why so forgive me for my thickness at stupid o'clock when I read the post
Say 10 hail Marys and tug on my todger for an hour or so and you are forgiven my child "
Is that like them rosary beads? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If at first you don't suceed. Re-invent yourself!!!
Seriously though, you have to perservere and be very very resilient. It's just a game, much like rugby. You play to the final whistle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I did this stuff as a single man, I found it despiriting too. As some have said improve profile, both pictures and info. Remember you're selling yourself against a massive number of competitors to a smaller group all of whom are looking for something different.
Best bets apart from profile are chat room (try not to be a look at my cock look at my cock kind of guy), forum and actually just going to a swingers club and saying hi to people. If you play rugby you should be pretty comfortable socialising while being naked
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I did this stuff as a single man, I found it despiriting too. As some have said improve profile, both pictures and info. Remember you're selling yourself against a massive number of competitors to a smaller group all of whom are looking for something different.
Best bets apart from profile are chat room (try not to be a look at my cock look at my cock kind of guy), forum and actually just going to a swingers club and saying hi to people. If you play rugby you should be pretty comfortable socialising while being naked
JandT"
Absolutely spot on - every word of it. I found it just the same when I was single, but then I'd look for a friendship first (rather than be forward and get knocked back - I'm still the same really lol) and put up with the 'shame you live so far aways' that I used to get.
It does happen OP and you'll get sorted, just eventually which kind of does most guys heads in, but if you stick with it you'll be okay in the end.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all
I never said anything about anybody mattering more. All I'm saying is that it will automatically rule him out from everyone who is pedantic about this as soon as they read his profile, thus lowering his chances significantly before a ball has even been kicked.
Well count me out then as I am and I admit to being pedantic about spelling and grammar but I am wholly aware that some people cannot spell or are dyslexic so I wouldn't wholly rule someone out or pass them by because they cannot spell, indeed I have been chatting to someone for a very long time that cannot spell, admits to it but he comes across as a really nice man
As would I but I know people who aren't so forgiving. I'm not trying to argue about this, merely give pointers on how to increase his target audience
Yes well I get you now
Halle-bloody-lujah
I have been up since 4.45 am no idea why so forgive me for my thickness at stupid o'clock when I read the post
Say 10 hail Marys and tug on my todger for an hour or so and you are forgiven my child
Is that like them rosary beads? "
Are they the ones I keep seeing folk pulling out of their bums and tuppys on profile pics? |
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
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This actually made me laugh out loud ... and that doesn't happen often on here |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
Spelling and grammar are not as important as being somewhat articulate. That even shows through messages which are not very accurate.
What is worse is txt spk. I delete straight away. (I know, arsey bitch!). I mean, we are not teenagers and this is not Facebook. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
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oh the things that people notice
first laugh of the day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
As the for the spelling and grammar, it might not matter to some but it will definitely rule out the ones that it does matter to.
What makes them so special that they matter more, not really sure I understand your comment at all
I never said anything about anybody mattering more. All I'm saying is that it will automatically rule him out from everyone who is pedantic about this as soon as they read his profile, thus lowering his chances significantly before a ball has even been kicked.
Well count me out then as I am and I admit to being pedantic about spelling and grammar but I am wholly aware that some people cannot spell or are dyslexic so I wouldn't wholly rule someone out or pass them by because they cannot spell, indeed I have been chatting to someone for a very long time that cannot spell, admits to it but he comes across as a really nice man
As would I but I know people who aren't so forgiving. I'm not trying to argue about this, merely give pointers on how to increase his target audience
Yes well I get you now
Halle-bloody-lujah
I have been up since 4.45 am no idea why so forgive me for my thickness at stupid o'clock when I read the post
Say 10 hail Marys and tug on my todger for an hour or so and you are forgiven my child
Is that like them rosary beads?
Are they the ones I keep seeing folk pulling out of their bums and tuppys on profile pics? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spelling and grammar are not as important as being somewhat articulate. That even shows through messages which are not very accurate.
What is worse is txt spk. I delete straight away. (I know, arsey bitch!). I mean, we are not teenagers and this is not Facebook."
Absolutely agree with this.
You're not being fussy your choosing people you might want to have sex with and if they start off irritating you likelihood is they're not compatible!
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
This actually made me laugh out loud ... and that doesn't happen often on here "
Thanks At least it's not just me seeing things then |
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
This actually made me laugh out loud ... and that doesn't happen often on here
Thanks At least it's not just me seeing things then "
Nope - I just thought 'Bagpuss' ... quite cute but perhaps not the image the OP wants to project |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"your spelling and grammer not great for starters .
should that read 'your spelling and grammar isnt great, for starters'?
if you're going to pull someone up on something you need to make sure you're whiter than white yourself (pet peeve of mine )
OP i dont see anything wrong with your pics to be fair, seen far worse on profiles. maybe do some cheeky easing ones like the classic slightly open jeans etc
just keep at it. The fact that there are so many men on here means that women and couples can have a tendancy to get ultra picky....dont let it get you down, as Femme says, get to clubs maybe or a social and actually meet people so your personality can be seen.
hope your luck improves."
I found 13 errors in your post, perhaps you should brush up on your pet peeve |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"your spelling and grammer not great for starters .
should that read 'your spelling and grammar isnt great, for starters'?
if you're going to pull someone up on something you need to make sure you're whiter than white yourself (pet peeve of mine )
OP i dont see anything wrong with your pics to be fair, seen far worse on profiles. maybe do some cheeky easing ones like the classic slightly open jeans etc
just keep at it. The fact that there are so many men on here means that women and couples can have a tendancy to get ultra picky....dont let it get you down, as Femme says, get to clubs maybe or a social and actually meet people so your personality can be seen.
hope your luck improves.
I found 13 errors in your post, perhaps you should brush up on your pet peeve "
I find most people do not write accurately. I don't understand picking them up on it unless it is impossible to understand. Text speak, though, is a definite 'no no' for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Regardless of the spelling and grammar the profile looks like it had about 2 minutes spent on it.
OP, as a single male you need to stand out and a profile like that is never going to, at least not for the right reasons. If you put the same amount of effort into your messages then it is unlikely you will get anywhere.
Plus you can't accomodate and talk about needing your privacy respected. Rightly or wrongly that comes across to many as cheating. |
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"your spelling and grammer not great for starters .
should that read 'your spelling and grammar isnt great, for starters'?
if you're going to pull someone up on something you need to make sure you're whiter than white yourself (pet peeve of mine )
OP i dont see anything wrong with your pics to be fair, seen far worse on profiles. maybe do some cheeky easing ones like the classic slightly open jeans etc
just keep at it. The fact that there are so many men on here means that women and couples can have a tendancy to get ultra picky....dont let it get you down, as Femme says, get to clubs maybe or a social and actually meet people so your personality can be seen.
hope your luck improves.
I found 13 errors in your post, perhaps you should brush up on your pet peeve "
My pet peeve is people picking others up for their poor spelling etc, not poor spelling itself. I accept my spelling and grammar isn't perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"your spelling and grammer not great for starters .
should that read 'your spelling and grammar isnt great, for starters'?
if you're going to pull someone up on something you need to make sure you're whiter than white yourself (pet peeve of mine )
OP i dont see anything wrong with your pics to be fair, seen far worse on profiles. maybe do some cheeky easing ones like the classic slightly open jeans etc
just keep at it. The fact that there are so many men on here means that women and couples can have a tendancy to get ultra picky....dont let it get you down, as Femme says, get to clubs maybe or a social and actually meet people so your personality can be seen.
hope your luck improves.
I found 13 errors in your post, perhaps you should brush up on your pet peeve
My pet peeve is people picking others up for their poor spelling etc, not poor spelling itself. I accept my spelling and grammar isn't perfect "
I would normally hide in the background but as you corrected the corrector of the OP, I decided to be the supreme corrector, and correct you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an observation but on your first picture, the shadows etc. make your lower back and arse look like a disturbing image of an overweight cat's face
This actually made me laugh out loud ... and that doesn't happen often on here
Thanks At least it's not just me seeing things then
Nope - I just thought 'Bagpuss' ... quite cute but perhaps not the image the OP wants to project "
Haha, yes I think you've actually got it there, I just couldn't quite put my finger on it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"your spelling and grammer not great for starters ."
Why is grammer so important?
Do you speak perfect English?
About time fab people stopped looking for grammer mistakes and started seeing the people behind the messages... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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GRAMMAR AINT THAT IMPORTANT THING IS MOST LADIES ON HERE ARE LOOKING FOR WHAT THEY AINT GETTING WHETHER THEY BE SINGLE OR ATTACHED SO IF YOU RE A BORING MIDDLE AGED MUNTER YOU RE GONNA HAVE TO WAIT FOR YOUR CHANCE ! |
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"GRAMMAR AINT THAT IMPORTANT THING IS MOST LADIES ON HERE ARE LOOKING FOR WHAT THEY AINT GETTING WHETHER THEY BE SINGLE OR ATTACHED SO IF YOU RE A BORING MIDDLE AGED MUNTER YOU RE GONNA HAVE TO WAIT FOR YOUR CHANCE ! "
Ahh... to think that boring, middle aged munters have a chance has made my day being an almost middle-ages munster myself
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By (user no longer on site)
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"starting to get abit frustrated and demoralised at the fact i have not found a meet yet any advice would be much appreictaed as i think im ok looking lol. xx"
1. Get real! Did you notice any promise of a 'guaranteed meet' in ANY time frame when you registered on Fabs? NO. So why are you now moaning that you have been on here on a few weeks and not met anyone?
2. Face facts:- You are one of MANY. In fact, many thousands of single guys on Fabs so you have got your work cut out.
3. 1 and 2 together mean YOU have got to get off your metaphorical arse and do some WORK if you are going to get meets. If that means you have got to work on your profile to make it better and stand out from others, then you have got to take it on the chin and do it. If it means you have to REALLY read single fems profiles and send an individual PM to each 100 times a day, then that's what you need to do.
3. Get Real (part 2!): you are one of the youngest single males on here and you will have an uphill struggle proving how sexually mature you are. This is why you will see LOADS of contributors telling you to go to clubs and get known that way - in person. Meets at clubs will get you verifications and they 'could' lead to meets through the site, as they will give your profile a bit more 'gravitas'.
4. Don't rely on Fabs as your only way of meeting people for sex. All the usual ways apply - just change the way you go about it. If you meet a girl in a club - let her know early on what you you are up for. You might get a lot of knock backs (so no different to Fabs!) but the ones which work will be .... WOW!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have been here for over a year and still not had a meet. I honestly do not know whats wrong with myprofile but im very patient. Patience is the key i guess,. Everyone has their own preference..just gotta wait for the right moment.
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"GRAMMAR AINT THAT IMPORTANT THING IS MOST LADIES ON HERE ARE LOOKING FOR WHAT THEY AINT GETTING WHETHER THEY BE SINGLE OR ATTACHED SO IF YOU RE A BORING MIDDLE AGED MUNTER YOU RE GONNA HAVE TO WAIT FOR YOUR CHANCE !
Ahh... to think that boring, middle aged munters have a chance has made my day being an almost middle-ages munster myself
Wolf
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This lady likes middle age munters  |
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"GRAMMAR AINT THAT IMPORTANT THING IS MOST LADIES ON HERE ARE LOOKING FOR WHAT THEY AINT GETTING WHETHER THEY BE SINGLE OR ATTACHED SO IF YOU RE A BORING MIDDLE AGED MUNTER YOU RE GONNA HAVE TO WAIT FOR YOUR CHANCE !
Ahh... to think that boring, middle aged munters have a chance has made my day being an almost middle-ages munster myself
Wolf
This lady likes middle age munters "
You can add me to that list as well a middle aged lady has made my day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Grammar and spelling is important to some because an educated articulate person can be a turn on to some. In the same way a person who isn't can be a turn on to others. Everyone has their own turn ons and offs. This site only whittles it down to people who are more open (not necessarily completely open) about what they do and don't want.
When you send your opening email it will be dealt with within moments so its important you make that first impression count.
Look at the clues. If the profile has txt speak then they are clearly not bothered by it. If their profile is clearly written by a person who is concerned with grammar then your message should have that. Include a picture of you not just your knob and present yourself honestly. You will be rejected many times as everyone likes different things. Suck it up and keep looking.
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"your spelling and grammer not great for starters .
should that read 'your spelling and grammar isnt great, for starters'?
if you're going to pull someone up on something you need to make sure you're whiter than white yourself (pet peeve of mine )
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Shouldn't that read 'Your spelling and grammar aren't great, for starters'?
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"Grammar and spelling is important to some because an educated articulate person can be a turn on to some. In the same way a person who isn't can be a turn on to others. Everyone has their own turn ons and offs. This site only whittles it down to people who are more open (not necessarily completely open) about what they do and don't want.
When you send your opening email it will be dealt with within moments so its important you make that first impression count.
Look at the clues. If the profile has txt speak then they are clearly not bothered by it. If their profile is clearly written by a person who is concerned with grammar then your message should have that. Include a picture of you not just your knob and present yourself honestly. You will be rejected many times as everyone likes different things. Suck it up and keep looking.
James "
Spot on!
I'm one that deletes without reading a "txt spk" message as I know the person hasn't read my profile as I've stated I'm not a fan.
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"your spelling and grammer not great for starters .
should that read 'your spelling and grammar isnt great, for starters'?
if you're going to pull someone up on something you need to make sure you're whiter than white yourself (pet peeve of mine )
OP i dont see anything wrong with your pics to be fair, seen far worse on profiles. maybe do some cheeky easing ones like the classic slightly open jeans etc
just keep at it. The fact that there are so many men on here means that women and couples can have a tendancy to get ultra picky....dont let it get you down, as Femme says, get to clubs maybe or a social and actually meet people so your personality can be seen.
hope your luck improves.
I found 13 errors in your post, perhaps you should brush up on your pet peeve
My pet peeve is people picking others up for their poor spelling etc, not poor spelling itself. I accept my spelling and grammar isn't perfect
I would normally hide in the background but as you corrected the corrector of the OP, I decided to be the supreme corrector, and correct you "
Fuck me!!!
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"your spelling and grammer not great for starters .
should that read 'your spelling and grammar isnt great, for starters'?
if you're going to pull someone up on something you need to make sure you're whiter than white yourself (pet peeve of mine )
OP i dont see anything wrong with your pics to be fair, seen far worse on profiles. maybe do some cheeky easing ones like the classic slightly open jeans etc
just keep at it. The fact that there are so many men on here means that women and couples can have a tendancy to get ultra picky....dont let it get you down, as Femme says, get to clubs maybe or a social and actually meet people so your personality can be seen.
hope your luck improves.
I found 13 errors in your post, perhaps you should brush up on your pet peeve
My pet peeve is people picking others up for their poor spelling etc, not poor spelling itself. I accept my spelling and grammar isn't perfect
I would normally hide in the background but as you corrected the corrector of the OP, I decided to be the supreme corrector, and correct you
Fuck me!!!
Bet you all had a "Texas Instruments Speak and Spell" parties growing up "
I didn't, I had a big trak instead
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