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By *ohn liz OP Couple
over a year ago
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Hi Guys
This question has probably been raised a million times but here goes again.
I have been on scene for a number of years but my new partner is a scene virgin.
She loves the idea in bedtime fantasies but cant switch to real time, how do you experienced ladies switch between love and sex ?
I have told her from the male prespective but she needs the female version I think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a difficult one to explain tbh.
It does take a different mindset to "swing" and I don't think everyone is made for it.
I have always enjoyed sex as sex, but I make love with my husband. I think your new partner will need to be able to make sure she can differentiate between the two before swinging together can go anywere.
It was the opposite way for me and hubby, until he was in the situation of seeing me with someone else, he wasn't sure he'd be able to deal with it, luckily he could and we now both enjoy it hugely. Everyone has to start somewhere , but despite all my spiel, I'm not sure how you find that somewhere!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just look upon sex as fun and love as emotion and never the twain shall meet!
Sex is a pleasurable action but love is a powerful emotion and hopefuly something that will endure in a relationship long after sex with strangers becomes a pleasant memory. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well we treat this as a game some u win sum u lose. there will be times when either of u have a better time than the other . but if use have what we have and thats a good sound relationship it will work . you will get a good time out of someone else but you wont ever reach the heights of what use 2 have togther dont be pushed though cos after all its supposed to be fun jimmy n linda xxx |
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over a year ago
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Hi, this is Beccy. My partner Mark and I had never done this before, but we talked about it and since have had a couple of MMF threesomes with a lovely guy. We both enjoyed it immensely.
Mark has been trying to get me to understand that sex can be seperated from love, and I am slowly learning to accept that fact, although it does seem rather strange for me lol. In fact, this new adventure we are both starting out on has brought us closer together |
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"Hi, this is Beccy. My partner Mark and I had never done this before, but we talked about it and since have had a couple of MMF threesomes with a lovely guy. We both enjoyed it immensely.
Mark has been trying to get me to understand that sex can be seperated from love, and I am slowly learning to accept that fact, although it does seem rather strange for me lol. In fact, this new adventure we are both starting out on has brought us closer together "
It usually does!
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"Hi, this is Beccy. My partner Mark and I had never done this before, but we talked about it and since have had a couple of MMF threesomes with a lovely guy. We both enjoyed it immensely.
Mark has been trying to get me to understand that sex can be seperated from love, and I am slowly learning to accept that fact, although it does seem rather strange for me lol. In fact, this new adventure we are both starting out on has brought us closer together "
thats good, but could u handle a ffm ? |
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" thats good, but could u handle a ffm ? "
That is our future plan, being bi would like to try it eventually. I would be lying if I said I would be totally fine with it, but when we do have a FFM I shall be more at ease to try it as Mark is not going to rush me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" thats good, but could u handle a ffm ?
That is our future plan, being bi would like to try it eventually. I would be lying if I said I would be totally fine with it, but when we do have a FFM I shall be more at ease to try it as Mark is not going to rush me "
at the end of the day, u do what yr both happy and comfy with :0)
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