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Wife needs a friend in the lifestyle
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello everyone,
Firstly I’m hoping this doesn’t come across slimy or anything.
Me and the wife have been talking about things more and more and she recently said she really wants a girly friend or couple of girly friends that are also on this journey. She wants someone she can talk to about things and understand more and more.
I’m a very complicated husband with probably a few more kinks than most but I really think it would be good for her to find girly friends so it isn’t such a “weird” or “strange” thing for her. The more she talks and understand people do have bulls or fuck buddies or you can be bi and have fun with whoever you want she’ll be so much more open. It’s just finding that elusive friend.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont think talking to others is whats needed ...whats needed before that is that you are both on the same page before any involement from others ..
also you say your more complicated than others with kinks and stuff i very much doubt that as swingers are the most openminded lot with every kink on the spectrum..
sounds a little one sided and that your looking for someone else to change her mind ..in my mind that wont work it has to come from you two nobody else ..its easy to see how others live the lifestyle by just reading on fab and elsewhere ...so before another step id suggest getting both yourselves on the same page before venturing out ...good luck op |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone,
Firstly I’m hoping this doesn’t come across slimy or anything.
Me and the wife have been talking about things more and more and she recently said she really wants a girly friend or couple of girly friends that are also on this journey. She wants someone she can talk to about things and understand more and more.
I’m a very complicated husband with probably a few more kinks than most but I really think it would be good for her to find girly friends so it isn’t such a “weird” or “strange” thing for her. The more she talks and understand people do have bulls or fuck buddies or you can be bi and have fun with whoever you want she’ll be so much more open. It’s just finding that elusive friend.
Feel free to inbox us xx"
If your good lady is looking for a female friend, might be better for her to be posting messaging. |
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"Hello everyone,
Firstly I’m hoping this doesn’t come across slimy or anything.
Me and the wife have been talking about things more and more and she recently said she really wants a girly friend or couple of girly friends that are also on this journey. She wants someone she can talk to about things and understand more and more.
I’m a very complicated husband with probably a few more kinks than most but I really think it would be good for her to find girly friends so it isn’t such a “weird” or “strange” thing for her. The more she talks and understand people do have bulls or fuck buddies or you can be bi and have fun with whoever you want she’ll be so much more open. It’s just finding that elusive friend.
Feel free to inbox us xx"
Always happy to chat but we are outside your age range. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to agree with the comments on here it does look one sided you have been on here over a year would your wife not ask for herself if she really wanted this if I asked for my wife I'd be a dead man lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The sub topic this is posted in is called support & advice. Some very judgemental comments.
Sometimes a partner may need a bit of guidance in this lifestyle, in a happy relationship there’s a lot at stake. Speaking to like minded people is invaluable in our experience & you’re definitely doing the right thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sub topic this is posted in is called support & advice. Some very judgemental comments.
Sometimes a partner may need a bit of guidance in this lifestyle, in a happy relationship there’s a lot at stake. Speaking to like minded people is invaluable in our experience & you’re definitely doing the right thing!"
that might be correct but a couple swinging needs to be on the same page from the start or it wont work at all ..see it all the time one sided couples and then whosh no longer together ...its not a platform that works if your not on the same page ... thats the advice op is being given ..just like the other saying swinging wont fix a broken marrige for the same reasons if your not on the same page it wont work... as many find out |
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"The sub topic this is posted in is called support & advice. Some very judgemental comments.
Sometimes a partner may need a bit of guidance in this lifestyle, in a happy relationship there’s a lot at stake. Speaking to like minded people is invaluable in our experience & you’re definitely doing the right thing!"
I agree that sometimes if the basic idea is there.. that talking to some people may help. OP women are not going to reply via PM though as you have blocked all women x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you hear a man ask women who are into swinging to talk dirty to their “wife” it is very suspect. Most on here are very smart.
If it is genuine- good luck. . "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m sure there are some that have already commented on here that would say we are genuine as they are already speaking to Naomi. I don’t mind the comment though as I do totally understand with having a couples profile we get a lot of tries, god loves a trier haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure there are some that have already commented on here that would say we are genuine as they are already speaking to Naomi. I don’t mind the comment though as I do totally understand with having a couples profile we get a lot of tries, god loves a trier haha"
Has she found some friends? 
The comment about fakes goes both ways. Remember the 'women' she's chatting to could be fake.
If the women want sex chat it's likely a man. I never talk about sex until I've met them in person amd know they are real. |
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I'd suggest to her that she starts reading & interacting on the forums
Especially if you relationship is a little FAB unbalanced, the forums may help her find her confidence
My husband (we've got a couples & singles profiles) would have one of us meeting each day if time allowed & definitely has more kinks than me, but that's not to say I don't enjoy myself, the forums etc definitely helped me find my confidence in chatting to people & knowing it's ok to want what I want etc |
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