Hi everyone,
Looking for advice I would like to get back into a relationship I do prefer to be with someone, I don't like being alone and prefer to spend time with a women.
Now my ex wife and myself did enjoy a couple of bisexual experiences with another female and although I enjoyed them am not sure if my ex did it to please me more at the time and this did cause issues.
Now moving forward with my life should I rule out swinging altogether and just be happy with having a normal relationship or can you actually find someone on this site that wants a full relationship was well as some fun from time to time?
Thanks phil |
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over a year ago
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I think there’s lots of people looking for that Holy Grail of a relationship with a fellow fabber!
For me it would be a huge trust exercise but it has been done.
Don’t rule it out but don’t search for only that OP
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It can happen, we are proof of that. We met as singles here over 6 years ago and decided we wanted to swing together.
Be open and honest with people, I think many are open to more than fun on here nowadays, I know of several couples who met here, there's even going to be a wedding for one couple.
Good luck
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10 years ago I met my last partner on here after swing together for a while. However, it soon became clear that we were just swinging buddies that moved in with each other. We stayed in the relationship for 4 years but only ever seemed to have sex when we were clubbing, at parties, dogging or with others. Rarely had any intimacy just between ourselves. There is no doubt it works for some but it didn't for me. In retrospect, he was not the type of guy I'd normally have gotten into a relationship with. I think we were both just swept up with the joy of finding someone to share swinging with and rushed into it. It's made me more wary now but not put me off should the possibility arise again. Finding out you're incompatible once the initial newness has faded can happen regardless of where you meet xx |
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There's one dating app I can think of that is specifically aimed at polyam/ethical non monogamist couples but otherwise most of the regular apps, users tend to play their cards quite close to their chests regarding being open to swinging or other forms of non-monogamy. In fact I often see people I recognise from here on other dating apps, but very rarely do any of them so much as hint at the fact they're open to this lifestyle. At the same time I suspect people are concerned they'll put potential 'vanilla' matches off if they do... |
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We met on via a fetish sight and now have two kids and a house together and couldn’t be happier, so yes, it is possible. It was only supposed to be casual to be fair but one thing led to another and we fell in love. |
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