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If I am playing in a gloryhole with my husband, and other cocks come through the holes, what do I do? I don’t think I want to play with people without knowing who they are, but I’d be happy to give a handjob. Is giving a handjob an acceptable option? That feels like a cop-out, but I’m just not in to total strangers! I like talking to someone first.
Is it just that glory holes aren’t for me? Can I ignore cocks without causing offence? |
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"If I am playing in a gloryhole with my husband, and other cocks come through the holes, what do I do? I don’t think I want to play with people without knowing who they are, but I’d be happy to give a handjob. Is giving a handjob an acceptable option? That feels like a cop-out, but I’m just not in to total strangers! I like talking to someone first.
Is it just that glory holes aren’t for me? Can I ignore cocks without causing offence? "
You do know what a glory hole is right?  |
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"If I am playing in a gloryhole with my husband, and other cocks come through the holes, what do I do? I don’t think I want to play with people without knowing who they are, but I’d be happy to give a handjob. Is giving a handjob an acceptable option? That feels like a cop-out, but I’m just not in to total strangers! I like talking to someone first.
Is it just that glory holes aren’t for me? Can I ignore cocks without causing offence? "
Think handjobs accepted, it’s whatever you are comfortable with if you don’t play with it, it will soon disappear x |
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"If I am playing in a gloryhole with my husband, and other cocks come through the holes, what do I do? I don’t think I want to play with people without knowing who they are, but I’d be happy to give a handjob. Is giving a handjob an acceptable option? That feels like a cop-out, but I’m just not in to total strangers! I like talking to someone first.
Is it just that glory holes aren’t for me? Can I ignore cocks without causing offence? "
There's nothing wrong with a nice handjob.... the thing to remember is that you're only obliged to please yourself.... pleasing others is just a bonus for everyone involved.
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"If I am playing in a gloryhole with my husband, and other cocks come through the holes, what do I do? I don’t think I want to play with people without knowing who they are, but I’d be happy to give a handjob. Is giving a handjob an acceptable option? That feels like a cop-out, but I’m just not in to total strangers! I like talking to someone first.
Is it just that glory holes aren’t for me? Can I ignore cocks without causing offence? "
Need know where ones are near Ashford Kent first for me to enjoy lol ..
But you say you go with your husband? So he like playing with others cocks? If you just suck him of and enjoy being watched more than obviously sucking cocks then you probably better off dogging or finding a room with glass windows. |
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I always suck or fuck, I must admit that give giving and handjob would feel like a cop out or disappointment. It interesting to hear that people would still be satisfied with that xx |
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You are not obliged to do anything. The excitement for a man when he realises there is someone in the glory hole is to put his duck through and see what happens.
I would be more than happy and grateful for a handjob. You can just ignore the dick if you want.
But if you’re not really into playing with strangers that you don’t know, why don’t you and your partner play in a different room than the glory hole? You will always get cocks coming through the holes if someone is in there. |
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"I always suck or fuck, I must admit that give giving and handjob would feel like a cop out or disappointment. It interesting to hear that people would still be satisfied with that xx"
I’d be happy with a wank if that’s what she wanted to do. Unless, that is, I find out if I’d moved one hole over I’d find you lifting your skirt and backing up onto my cock…. |
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"If I am playing in a gloryhole with my husband, and other cocks come through the holes, what do I do? I don’t think I want to play with people without knowing who they are, but I’d be happy to give a handjob. Is giving a handjob an acceptable option? That feels like a cop-out, but I’m just not in to total strangers! I like talking to someone first.
Is it just that glory holes aren’t for me? Can I ignore cocks without causing offence? "
Then don’t use a glory hole. |
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There is no obligation to play with cocks that come through. You may not like the look of some. There may be more come through than you can handle at one time. They're ideal for a bit of fun without the chit chat! |
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Just because it’s a glory hole doesn’t mean a blowjob is automatic.
It’s always the glory hole inhabitants choice..
the cock presenting itself might be not what the sucker is looking for or not clean even..
putting your cock through the hole doesn’t give entitlement.
If you don’t like it, ignore it.
Nothing stopping anyone playing in a glory hole.
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"Just because it’s a glory hole doesn’t mean a blowjob is automatic.
It’s always the glory hole inhabitants choice..
the cock presenting itself might be not what the sucker is looking for or not clean even..
putting your cock through the hole doesn’t give entitlement.
If you don’t like it, ignore it.
Nothing stopping anyone playing in a glory hole.
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Exactly this x |
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"If I am playing in a gloryhole with my husband, and other cocks come through the holes, what do I do? I don’t think I want to play with people without knowing who they are, but I’d be happy to give a handjob. Is giving a handjob an acceptable option? That feels like a cop-out, but I’m just not in to total strangers! I like talking to someone first.
Is it just that glory holes aren’t for me? Can I ignore cocks without causing offence? "
Absolutely no obligation to pay any attention to a cock you don't know or like. I was talking about glory holes with a friend at the weekend and she said that the cocks you often get at them aren't the best anyway and not ones you'd want to play with. |
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"If I am playing in a gloryhole with my husband, and other cocks come through the holes, what do I do? I don’t think I want to play with people without knowing who they are, but I’d be happy to give a handjob. Is giving a handjob an acceptable option? That feels like a cop-out, but I’m just not in to total strangers! I like talking to someone first.
Is it just that glory holes aren’t for me? Can I ignore cocks without causing offence? "
Totally up to you what you decide you want to do ! If they take offense then that’s their issue. |
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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago
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"I’ve never been at a glory hole and always wondered how you know if it’s a women versus a guy on the other side or is that just part of the mystique!"
Interesting question. As a bi guy it doesn’t bother me but I’m curious where I’d stand as the inhabitant. |
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"I’ve never been at a glory hole and always wondered how you know if it’s a women versus a guy on the other side or is that just part of the mystique!
That's part of the thrill 
Ms x"
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You play the gloryhole as you want to, even if the other side of it wants something different. Consent and preferences are all. Even if you change your interests whilst active, that's fine - I've occasionally adjusted what I'm enjoying.
If you touch a cock etc once, there's no requirement for you to ever engage with it again. It is better to be more comfortable with who you start playing with, before you do start. You can explore who others are in different ways, including leaving the gloryhole area.
I play it similarly to when I am a greedy girl, I still don't engage with everyone.
The cock that comes through uninvited may be wonderful and owned by the most compatible guy. But it may not. So work things in your way. |
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"If I am playing in a gloryhole with my husband, and other cocks come through the holes, what do I do? I don’t think I want to play with people without knowing who they are, but I’d be happy to give a handjob. Is giving a handjob an acceptable option? That feels like a cop-out, but I’m just not in to total strangers! I like talking to someone first.
Is it just that glory holes aren’t for me? Can I ignore cocks without causing offence?
You do know what a glory hole is right? "
It's quite obvious she knows what one is..why would you try to humiliate her like that? |
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"I used to enjoy glory holes but then once a small, soft, smelly, sloppy/soggy one was presented and it put me off permanently!"
That's gipping I hope you ignored it!
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"Just because it’s a glory hole doesn’t mean a blowjob is automatic.
It’s always the glory hole inhabitants choice..
the cock presenting itself might be not what the sucker is looking for or not clean even..
putting your cock through the hole doesn’t give entitlement.
Precisely so. If what one expects is a service, they can look elsewhere and expect to pay a charge for it. Ohterwise they should be happy with what they get, if at all, discretion being in the hands of those offering
If you don’t like it, ignore it.
Nothing stopping anyone playing in a glory hole.
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"I used to enjoy glory holes but then once a small, soft, smelly, sloppy/soggy one was presented and it put me off permanently!
That's gipping I hope you ignored it!
KJ"
I backed away so quickly that I hit my head on the wall behind me!  |
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"If I am playing in a gloryhole with my husband, and other cocks come through the holes, what do I do? I don’t think I want to play with people without knowing who they are, but I’d be happy to give a handjob. Is giving a handjob an acceptable option? That feels like a cop-out, but I’m just not in to total strangers! I like talking to someone first.
Is it just that glory holes aren’t for me? Can I ignore cocks without causing offence? "
I would be happy with receiving anything if you were both behind the hole. Only you knowing who was doing what. |
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The whole point of a gloryhole is that it's anonymous but there no obligation to do anything with any cock that pops through, if you don't touch it, it will soon go away
Guys asking how you know whose on the other side, GH are traditionally male/male, so you pops it through & take your chances, if there's a chance you won't lbe happy with whose on the other side don't pop it through - that said plenty of women myself included enjoy gloryholes and if a guy pops his hand through (indicating he wants a cock to suck, I'll pop my breast into the hand so he knows it's a women behind it)
If I go in with my husband I wouldn't put my breast forward as we would enjoy the cock together |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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"I may have to visit some, dressed in cosplay outfits, so anyone taking a sneeky look, remains uncertain who the service is being delivered by. "
I think I’m planning on wearing a fake beard next time I visit one. |
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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago
Scottish Borders |
Interesting thread. Looks like lots of different ideas of what constitutes the use of a glory hole.
We've only really enjoyed using them at clubs. Hubby likes the contrast between the hardness and feel of the strange surface with the ladies soft mouth and tongue. It's not always about the anonymity and can be a useful easy way to get play started and get in the mood.
Mrs Deef loves giving as long as hubby is supervising who's doing the sticking in. Haven't had a problem yet and hubby's able to confirm to any gents that it is indeed a lady behind the hole.
Great fun. |
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"I used to enjoy glory holes but then once a small, soft, smelly, sloppy/soggy one was presented and it put me off permanently!
speachless. "
To be fair we have seen a a 1 or 2 horrendous unclean cocks among the wanking dead in clubs. I remember one that looked like the rim of the bell end was covered in wart like growths all the way round. The guy who pull it out and was waving it about seemed oblivious and us and another couple who were playing all stopped and moved to a private lockable room.
There's a few cocks exactly like the above on fab. How can the owners take close up pictures to post in public on fab?
KJ |
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