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By *ilhay OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
It usually takes me a while to relax into getting oral from anyone and it also takes me a while to climax too.
Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while (even the ones who claim to love it "for hours" on their profile!) or can get a bit frustrated that I haven't cum already.
I also dont wanna cum too quick because if someone has taken the time to visit me, just to suck me off, I want to make it worth their effort and not just cum inside two min, right?
or is that what people expect?
So, what is the perfect amount of time that a blow job should last for? |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I would suggest 20 minutes max for one hit. After that your jaw and throat begins to ache.
It also depends on the guy receiving, if he's interacting and fucking your mouth it makes it more fun than if a guy is just laid there.
The other alternative is to have about 3 ten minute sessions and do something else in between. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Define perfect
I'd say it's more down to how mentally the connection between the two is which would depend upon how long anything would be because wouldn't last as long or it's just not happening to plan  |
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By *ilhay OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Yes, the "perfect" blow job amount of time is subjective so theres no doubt that its different for everyone, and also depends on the situation.
I do like the idea of breaking it up into 10 min segments though. that might work out well. i defo like the sound of that suggestion and will try it out next time I feeel like the situation calls for it.
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"It usually takes me a while to relax into getting oral from anyone and it also takes me a while to climax too.
Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while (even the ones who claim to love it "for hours" on their profile!) or can get a bit frustrated that I haven't cum already.
I also dont wanna cum too quick because if someone has taken the time to visit me, just to suck me off, I want to make it worth their effort and not just cum inside two min, right?
or is that what people expect?
So, what is the perfect amount of time that a blow job should last for?"
As long as both participants are enjoying it  |
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Jeez! The “perfect blowjob” would be soft cock, to hard cock, to climax. I don’t think there should be a time limit for the act itself, should there? Women are just pleased they made you cum aren’t they?
I definitely would love to experience this at least once more, before I die  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.
A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge  .
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No pressure  |
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never timed it
every situation is different
mental connection is important,
mutual attraction is important,
tease levels are important,
sensuality is important,
the level of libido on the loose is important
so many factors involved in the lead up to it...
if boredom sets in something isn't right about it in my humble opinion.
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By *ilhay OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.
A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge .
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THIS, sounds like a lot of fun !!!
May steal this idea.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally depends ive been so horny before ive done CIM in a few min of having a BJ, and other times i can last longer. Id say if your cocks being sucked for too long then something aint right lol. I never last that long with a bj, maybe average 5 minutes. |
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By *egoMan
over a year ago
Preston |
I get bored receiving a BJ so there’s that.
Perfect time is a variable only really complete upon completion.
Unless you’re just trying to edge them. But then that takes a lot of experience. |
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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago
Hyde |
I do love and enjoy giving a BJ but I do get the point that jaw ache does set in.... specially for a girthy guy. You can usually tell when a woman moves more from using her mouth to more hand action with less mouth/ is that just me lol
I would say if it's just a BJ... or you can cum again... just go with the flow and don't hold back from cumming. |
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"I think a few minutes of really strong full shaft length work, with a bit of ball & tip licking - into me riding him hard - back to the blowjob to finish up.  "
Yes, I will have that, with a glass of Barolo, please.  |
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Unfortunately for me I have never cum from just a blowjob (or handjob) … yes I know loads of guys say that but I’m probably one of the only genuine ones that really can’t. It isn’t ‘a challenge’ to try and make a woman get my to finish, it’s not about skill. It just does not happen but god I wish I could.
So for someone like me, time is irrelevant but how they do it, what they do, how much they enjoy it themselves, the attention they show to different areas such as the balls… it all adds up.
I can’t have a perfect one but everyone is different and I’m happy just to be getting one and that someone wants to give me one in the first place. Besides if you are afraid of finishing in 2 minutes… maybe do some other stuff until you are ready to go again for longer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately for me I have never cum from just a blowjob (or handjob) … yes I know loads of guys say that but I’m probably one of the only genuine ones that really can’t. It isn’t ‘a challenge’ to try and make a woman get my to finish, it’s not about skill. It just does not happen but god I wish I could.
So for someone like me, time is irrelevant but how they do it, what they do, how much they enjoy it themselves, the attention they show to different areas such as the balls… it all adds up.
I can’t have a perfect one but everyone is different and I’m happy just to be getting one and that someone wants to give me one in the first place. Besides if you are afraid of finishing in 2 minutes… maybe do some other stuff until you are ready to go again for longer? "
I'll.give.it.a.go. made every guy cum so far haha |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
I (he) like them to last as long as possible but 10 minutes at least please. The longest I've had is 50 minutes, she wanted to see if she could go for an hour, loved every second of it, valiant effort from the lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's an odd one this, I adore sucking cock (for the record I am Bi), for ages to completion and although I love my cock being sucked by male or female, I can never seem cum unless either my balls or nipples are being teased at the same time
Am I alone on this ?
J xx |
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"Unfortunately for me I have never cum from just a blowjob (or handjob) … yes I know loads of guys say that but I’m probably one of the only genuine ones that really can’t. It isn’t ‘a challenge’ to try and make a woman get my to finish, it’s not about skill. It just does not happen but god I wish I could.
So for someone like me, time is irrelevant but how they do it, what they do, how much they enjoy it themselves, the attention they show to different areas such as the balls… it all adds up.
I can’t have a perfect one but everyone is different and I’m happy just to be getting one and that someone wants to give me one in the first place. Besides if you are afraid of finishing in 2 minutes… maybe do some other stuff until you are ready to go again for longer? "
You’re not alone in this mate, don’t worry, you’re among friends here  I think there’s more blokes who have a ‘hair trigger’, than women who have genuine talent for sucking cock…… |
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By *ave 42Man
over a year ago
pontefract |
"I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.
A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge .
No pressure "
Think I’ve got an old egg timer somewhere |
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I find it takes approximately 25 - 30 mins sometimes to make me cum. Whilst I’m getting a good bj I like to tease her pussy at the same time and get her to cum several times before me. I’m not a selfish guy |
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By *eckycdTV/TS
over a year ago
northwest |
"I (he) like them to last as long as possible but 10 minutes at least please. The longest I've had is 50 minutes, she wanted to see if she could go for an hour, loved every second of it, valiant effort from the lady."
Nevaquit I’d cum in minutes if you gave me a blow job x |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"I (he) like them to last as long as possible but 10 minutes at least please. The longest I've had is 50 minutes, she wanted to see if she could go for an hour, loved every second of it, valiant effort from the lady.
Nevaquit I’d cum in minutes if you gave me a blow job x"
I think you mean '_evaquits' (the Mrs). I'd be terrible, never given one and it would have to be under duress I'm afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is an "how long is a piece of string" type of question. For me receiving or giving a blowjob is not about performing some scripted routine with a *tadaaa* at the end. *Take a bow* etc. It's about being in the moment and needing to feel your partner's warm, wet touch on you or in you. It has to be spontaneous and different each time or else it's just mechanical. X |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.
A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge .
No pressure Think I’ve got an old egg timer somewhere "
Has anyone asked Alexa yet?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It usually takes me a while to relax into getting oral from anyone and it also takes me a while to climax too.
Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while (even the ones who claim to love it "for hours" on their profile!) or can get a bit frustrated that I haven't cum already.
I also dont wanna cum too quick because if someone has taken the time to visit me, just to suck me off, I want to make it worth their effort and not just cum inside two min, right?
or is that what people expect?
So, what is the perfect amount of time that a blow job should last for?"
Am the same, takes a good while for me to come just through a blow job. Always feels wonderful though |
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"I like to set a timer to a random, unspecified period of time, and see if she can finish me off before it rings.
A bit like ‘Beat the Clock’. Ladies love a challenge .
No pressure Think I’ve got an old egg timer somewhere
Has anyone asked Alexa yet? "
Fuck Alexa |
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"It usually takes me a while to relax into getting oral from anyone and it also takes me a while to climax too.
Sometimes people seem to get a bit bored of sucking cock after a while (even the ones who claim to love it "for hours" on their profile!) or can get a bit frustrated that I haven't cum already.
I also dont wanna cum too quick because if someone has taken the time to visit me, just to suck me off, I want to make it worth their effort and not just cum inside two min, right?
or is that what people expect?
So, what is the perfect amount of time that a blow job should last for?"
Takes me a while as well so:eland you can suck each other as long as we want |
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