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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Eh up all
I have met a new friend who would like to be trained up as my slave but, although we have made a start (a few phrases which have a call and response nature) and I am fairly Dom, I have not realy been exposed to a Dom/Sub relationship.......Anyone got any advice or know somewhere we can go to see others 'in action'? Cheers
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about you two. What you both feels work for you.
Talk and talk some more. Then talk some more to iron out the kinks. Well kinda lol
A tool master and I find very useful is my journal. I write in this each day. Sometimes more. Master is only person who can read it. I can put whatever I like but I have to be honest in it. As there is no point me hiding things.
It's a journey and it's individual to you. So you have to find what works for you. If not already look on the fetish sites but don't let people tell you that you have to do things a certain way. The only right way is the way that works for you.
Discuss and set limits and safe words. Find what areas your both interested in and explore together.
Hope that helps a bit
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with masterq it's about you two not anyone else. One persons d/s is another's vanilla. The book is an excellent idea as one of the worries for a new master is he runs before his slave is ready. Although I'm in charge of Tor, it's not really any fun unless she's along for the ride! Have fun and have a safe word that can be used without people feeling they've gone too far
James and Tor
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