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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi All.
I been on here almost 6 months and got nowhere so Advise, I am honest and open and stated i have a disability, Do you think that's all people are seeing when they read my profile?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of these threads descend but quickly while it’s still alive:
You have a public pic but it’s not wet as a profile pic, people will assume you don’t have one, and they get ignored by practically 100% of users. Set your public pic as your profile pic, don’t be a silhouette
Lots of typos like Adonis etc in your text, minor things and not everyone will care or notice but you might as well perfect what you can.
And then, tbh, almost universal other stuff applies which I won’t repeat, but it’s on the forum every day from someone and people rehash the same advise.
Start with your pic though, it’s the biggest obvious no no for most
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi All.
I been on here almost 6 months and got nowhere so Advise, I am honest and open and stated i have a disability, Do you think that's all people are seeing when they read my profile??"
The lack of a profile pic puts you at a bad start.
Then there’s only one unflattering face picture of you.
Your profile “about you” isn’t really great either if I’m honest. Lighten up and liven it up a bit!
I know my profile isn’t much either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe change your text a little bit
Some off it’s good other parts come across and your just looking for nothing more than getting your end away
Would take out the “fun” not meany like that word makes it sound like people are only a toy if you know what I mean
Try adding some more pics off your self and also setting one as a profile pic instead off a blank aviator |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of these threads descend but quickly while it’s still alive:
You have a public pic but it’s not wet as a profile pic, people will assume you don’t have one, and they get ignored by practically 100% of users. Set your public pic as your profile pic, don’t be a silhouette
Lots of typos like Adonis etc in your text, minor things and not everyone will care or notice but you might as well perfect what you can.
And then, tbh, almost universal other stuff applies which I won’t repeat, but it’s on the forum every day from someone and people rehash the same advise.
Start with your pic though, it’s the biggest obvious no no for most
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There are other people with disabilities, obvious and less obvious on the forums so
You would expect they exist in greater numbers in general profiles. They’re probably better to comment on peoples perceptions/reactions and so on them I |
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Your profile is quite generic...horny man....up for anything type profile. It mentions disability three times, but not what the disability is. Giving an indication of the disability or wheelchair user, colostomy etc, gives the reader a better idea of limitations/possibilities etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile is quite generic...horny man....up for anything type profile. It mentions disability three times, but not what the disability is. Giving an indication of the disability or wheelchair user, colostomy etc, gives the reader a better idea of limitations/possibilities etc."
I done a few alteration would you take a look, I tryed to pm you but out side you profile rules. |
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I'm an ambulant wheelchair user, hasn't really caused much issue really. We've had a handful of abusive messages and a few people immediately cease contact when they realise but the majority have been polite, respectful and it's been no problem. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice may be being honest and telling people mite have been my mistake.
ps got a chair like yours but mines bright green lol
Thanks Again. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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In all honesty, we wouldn't notice the disability part. For us to consider a meet there has to be an attraction and although refreshing to see a face and clothed pics, they're not doing anything for you. Maybe replace them with some better, smiling pics.
Also, your profile text is littered with mistakes and although we might be overly picky, it never gives us a good impression of someone. If you can, get someone to proof read it and offer suggestions for corrections.
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By *olo911Couple
over a year ago
wigan |
Hi this site is full of single and married men trying to get some action, and I admire your honesty but your profile is uninspiring. Put your self in a couple’s point of view and she is picking a fun date from the thousands of men why would she pick you ? your not selling yourself, but good luck . |
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I too am diaabled and on the whole get treated ok. Some d'*cks but made some good contacts on both sites. Some people don't see the disbled mention and then go off on one when a met is arranged and say they didn't know I am disabled. |
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I (Jack) have relapse and remitting MS so sometimes my mobility isn't great and have to use a stick. Have been mistaken for being d*unk numerous times. We always mention it to potential meets. Thankfully most people have been understanding and appreciate the honesty. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Swap your photos for clear smiling ones.
Mentioning your disability is good, but see if you can word it more concisely. I like the comment about your shower, showing you have a sense of humour.
Your last sentence about you
might be surprised, rather the person reading it being surprised is a bit odd.
The main thing is that there are a couple of hundred men on here for every lady, so you have to work hard to get meets I'm afraid. |
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