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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
Exactly, every cuck and bull will be different and like and want different things.
The key is that the bull takes the time to see what the couple likes and agree boundaries.
But if it's a sub cuck then a real willingness and wanting to please is essential. |
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We've also found it depends on how everyone gets along. Extended our boundaries for some but not others just based on everyone's comfort level. It's really more dynamic a relationship than most people think. |
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"Hi all, So in a cuckold situation what expectations do you as a bull have from the cuck?"
To have the decency to make me a proper cup of tea , while I’m slamming his Mrs .
And ideally fetch a couple of chocolate digestives or hobnobs .  |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"We've also found it depends on how everyone gets along. Extended our boundaries for some but not others just based on everyone's comfort level. It's really more dynamic a relationship than most people think."
It really is. It's all about what people like and want and respecting it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, So in a cuckold situation what expectations do you as a bull have from the cuck?"
Well I expect respect. I respect the fact that as a couple you are letting into an intimate part of your life and I respect your boundaries your trust and your privacy. Whatever happens between us three is between us.
I expect the same.
I expect to be treated as a person with feelings and not a black cock "pounding ya missus".
If he is a submissive cuck I treat him as such and he will be taking orders from us both.
If he is a voyeuristic cuck we will put on a great show for him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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thats for the 3rd guy to learn and explore just as no cuckold couples are the same niether are the 3rd guys..
sorry we tend to not buy in to the bull (shit) termology |
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In my hotwife and cuck dynamic they refer to me as her bull and he has never participated other than enjoying her after I’ve finished with her and sent her home. I do send him pics and vids of how his wife is my little slut for the night and it works for us all. Main this is to understand the needs of all in the dynamic and don’t be afraid to discuss it openly  |
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"Hi all, So in a cuckold situation what expectations do you as a bull have from the cuck?
Well I expect respect. I respect the fact that as a couple you are letting into an intimate part of your life and I respect your boundaries your trust and your privacy. Whatever happens between us three is between us.
I expect the same.
I expect to be treated as a person with feelings and not a black cock "pounding ya missus".
If he is a submissive cuck I treat him as such and he will be taking orders from us both.
If he is a voyeuristic cuck we will put on a great show for him"
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"In my hotwife and cuck dynamic they refer to me as her bull and he has never participated other than enjoying her after I’ve finished with her and sent her home. I do send him pics and vids of how his wife is my little slut for the night and it works for us all. Main this is to understand the needs of all in the dynamic and don’t be afraid to discuss it openly "
He also messages me with requests of what he wants me to do to his hotwife. Of course I oblige and send him pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A proper cuck should prepare both cock and pussy with his mouth and then clean up the bulls cock before eating his wife clean and swallowing all the fresh thick sticky cock snot |
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By *w_cuckCouple
over a year ago
Cambridgeshire |
It very true that everyone plays slightly differently but it's the bulls job to understand this.
It's not just about fucking another guys wife which is what most guys think, if you want to try if get a experienced bull who fully understands the dynamics and listen to keys and anklets podcast. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think you should have expectations of a cuck. Expectations often push past limits and boundaries and unless a cuck has specifically said to do that, it could tip the whole dynamic into a shit storm. People seem to forget that the general rule is that the sub sets the rules and boundaries, not the dominant, but in the case of cuckolding, that rule gets all too often swept away because, let's be honest, it's a submissive man. So, "expectations" need to be curbed to work with the subs own limits. Just like any other type of play, there are possibly severe detrimental possibilities from not following the general rule. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I don't think you should have expectations of a cuck. Expectations often push past limits and boundaries and unless a cuck has specifically said to do that, it could tip the whole dynamic into a shit storm. People seem to forget that the general rule is that the sub sets the rules and boundaries, not the dominant, but in the case of cuckolding, that rule gets all too often swept away because, let's be honest, it's a submissive man. So, "expectations" need to be curbed to work with the subs own limits. Just like any other type of play, there are possibly severe detrimental possibilities from not following the general rule. "
So very well put.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think you should have expectations of a cuck. Expectations often push past limits and boundaries and unless a cuck has specifically said to do that, it could tip the whole dynamic into a shit storm. People seem to forget that the general rule is that the sub sets the rules and boundaries, not the dominant, but in the case of cuckolding, that rule gets all too often swept away because, let's be honest, it's a submissive man. So, "expectations" need to be curbed to work with the subs own limits. Just like any other type of play, there are possibly severe detrimental possibilities from not following the general rule. "
Well written, so many "bulls" or wannabes think that it's a set way when it really isn't.
Each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously not every bull is the same and my Mistress would always have the conversation with the bull about what he enjoys, what he is willing to do and what he’s not etc. Some bulls said they would prefer me to not be involved at all so I would just kneel in the corner and watch whereas other bulls liked to include me and would start of by getting me to suck his cock and wanted me in bed with them while they were fucking so he could use me to make the experience even more pleasurable. I was happy doing whatever pleased the Bull and my Mistress the most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So aside from the obvious element of everyone's personal preferences, I suppose for me I'd like to find a couple with a submissive husband/cuck.
I'd like the cuck enjoy (or at least love to hate) the element of humiliation.
I see a lot of "bulls" like the idea of meeting the wife alone etc. For me, that wouldn't work as well as all 3 playing together. I'd want a cuck who could be involved.
I'd like a cuck willing to clean up, do our bidding, be comfortable orally pleasing me - and also be prepared to go over my knee should he disappoint or disobey |
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