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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If one really wants to stop you have to respect their wishes, you are supposed to be in this together. It will only lead to resentment if one feels pressure to carry on. Maybe you need a break for a few months , hide your profile and see how you feel later on xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fucking hell fella why not ask jeremy kyle lol. If you cannot work out answer yourself you have problems.
Whats more important your partner or you banging another person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fucking hell fella why not ask jeremy kyle lol. If you cannot work out answer yourself you have problems.
Whats more important your partner or you banging another person."
What you on about who said anything about it being the fella you got the problem by the sounds of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If one of us wanted to stop we would both stop! And we would respect the other one decision, we said from the start that if one of us wasn't happy then that would be it! No more swinging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day, you start swinging together and you stop swinging together.
Some couples are happy for one partner to play separately, but if this isn't an arrangement you can have then you respect your partners wishes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends. The partner that wants to stop swinging, do they want you both to stop swinging or do they just not want to swing themselves?
If they want you both to stop, the answer is obvious... You stop!
If they just want to stop themselves, between you you will need to work our whether you carrying on is an option. They may be fine with this, they may even be excited with this. They may also be against this.
It may even be a case of they are ok with this but you are against it!
Speak to them, found out their real feelings and then go from there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Divorce  "
Surely thats the way it may end up if one partner cant respect the other ones wishes to stop? As others have said if your partner wants you both to stop then you stop if you want your marriage to continue |
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