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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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With this dynamic, is it wrong to say the ball is in the man's court. For example it only happening if the partner receives pictures and videos. Kinda classing it as cheating if this isn't what happens because its not what was agreed. Or am I being stupid haha.
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It very much depends on the dynamic of the couple, my wife is totally in control as to who she plays with and when, my cuckold duties depend on if I’m there when she plays, but ultimately she’s always in control |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It very much depends on the dynamic of the couple, my wife is totally in control as to who she plays with and when, my cuckold duties depend on if I’m there when she plays, but ultimately she’s always in control"
Thankyou for this im just confused how I felt about it haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With this dynamic, is it wrong to say the ball is in the man's court. For example it only happening if the partner receives pictures and videos. Kinda classing it as cheating if this isn't what happens because its not what was agreed. Or am I being stupid haha.
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There's not going to be a one size fits all in either of these situations.
If you've put rules in place to say this can happen but you'd like pictures to feel part of it and she hasn't followed through on that then you've a right to be upset. I wouldn't necessarily class it as cheating but she has cleared crossed a line that you've both put in place.
Really it sounds like you both need to sit down and have a conversation again about what the expectations are surrounding your dynamic. If boundaries are still being crossed after that then maybe this dynamic isn't something that is going to work for you. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"I think the one thing they have in common is that it often seems to be the guy in the couple who's calling the shots over who his wife has sex with "
Which is EXACTLY the opposite of cuckolding. That's Stag/Vixen if the guy is doing the deciding.
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"I think the one thing they have in common is that it often seems to be the guy in the couple who's calling the shots over who his wife has sex with
Which is EXACTLY the opposite of cuckolding. That's Stag/Vixen if the guy is doing the deciding.
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I still find it quite odd |
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