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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi ladies,
I'm updating my profile and would like some advice. What do you think I'm missing? What could make my profile more appealing and therefore more likely to message me?
Thank you in advance for the suggestions ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Hi ladies,
I'm updating my profile and would like some advice. What do you think I'm missing? What could make my profile more appealing and therefore more likely to message me?
Thank you in advance for the suggestions "
Personally I’d try and use the timer to get photos where you haven't got your phone in your hand.
The photos are okay, they show what you look like but not who you are. There wasn’t any personality coming through.
Your bio needs work.
Standard phrases like been here before can lead to disinterest.
Why did you leave? Boredom, found a partner, went to jail etc? Better to leave it off as you don’t get brownie points for starting a new account. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"I'm updating my profile and would like some advice. What do you think I'm missing? What could make my profile more appealing and therefore more likely to message me?)"
Change your mindset - women (and couples) very rarely have to message anyone. Granted, some do, but most of them get so many offers that they can pick and choose from that they don't need to go looking.
Work on your photos (they're pretty good, but self-timers are better than mirror shots) and concentrate on looking for people that are looking for what you can offer, read and understand their profile and write tailored messages to them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your suggestions, I'll work on those timer photos.
I've made changes based on your comments, would love it if you'd have another look now and comment on the changes. Cheers ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago
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Had a little read, I think what put me off is the last bit, so you are in a relationship and you are allowed to “mess about” but then you say everything is good as long as you “don’t bring it home”
2 things pop into my head, 1 …. Can you reword it so it sounds less crass… it… what’s it.. I’m no it… sex is not it… stds is an it … just think maybe that last part needs a rethink
2 put the fact you are in a relationship near the top… so I would describe yourself as in an open relationship possibly… it’s a label but one that explains it simply… I guess the top allows me to decide straight away if I want to message as some people won’t be bothered by that, but others will.
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It’s nothing to do with ya profile bro trust me it’s just the fact it’s a single guy’s profile THATS ALL were at the bottom of plié on this site bro and if your in a relationship then y not try to get her onboard ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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