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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey! So I’ve been talking with a fwb of mine and we’ve warmed up to the idea of trying out swinging, in particular meeting an older couple- it’s really exciting for both of us but we have little to no experience with this sort thing. Any couples out there have any advice for approaching them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We haven’t made it yet.
With all due respect, how would that make any difference at all in regards to just asking a question on the forum? It would be worded pretty much exactly the same and anyone can reply  |
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Have you had a good look through the site with her, talked about the site and had a good look at others couples accounts? I think that's a good way of going about it. That way you can work out a joint vision of what you want from a couples account on Fab, get some inspiration and hopefully get really excited about your new joint venture together. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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First step would be to have your couples profile set up with photos of you both and text explaining the type of people you are hoping to meet and think about what they would gain from meeting you.
My initial thoughts were who would want to meet an inexperienced younger couple who are a couple only for the sake of sex? Sorry if that's harsh, but you will need to be consider how you could make yourselves sound appealing.
Send messages to couples whose criteria you match eg age, likes etc.
You might get a better response by going to clubs. Meeting others face to face is quicker, you meet many couples in one evening, and others can see your personality and looks clearer than on paper.
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Unless stated otherwise always approach them as a couple and just be with them how you'd like people to be with you.
Things guaranteed to make us turn down a couple
No pictures of the guy
Assumption that Mrs N will be bi
Ignoring either one of us
Insisting on fem to fem chat first
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers to all of you for your helpful responses 
We’re meeting up next week and we’ll go through it all and set it up then, rather than just talking about it online. Looking forward to it! |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
My fwb and I set up a couple account a few weeks ago. It was very exciting talking about it and selecting the name, photos, etc....
However, at least in my view, the account doesn’t have anywhere as much “traffic” as my single account does. Neither of us are natural approachers so don’t know how it is going to work out lol  . We’ve just started going to clubs and socials together so the profile is mostly to give to people we connect with- rather than 2 single accounts.
It is a lot of fun though- enjoy the experience! |
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