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Still a virgin at 29 - not having luck on here
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, I tend to be honest about myself on here as I am not confident person and shy but I am not having much luck on here. I think its probably people think I am a fake or a timewaster. I am genuine and can go on cam which I said in my profile but still no luck.
Anyone can help me as to why I am not having any luck on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, I tend to be honest about myself on here as I am not confident person and shy but I am not having much luck on here. I think its probably people think I am a fake or a timewaster. I am genuine and can go on cam which I said in my profile but still no luck.
Anyone can help me as to why I am not having any luck on here?"
You're single and male which means you're in the overwelming majority - make yourself stand out - the virginity think may put some females off, who knows?
Just be patient my friend; I haven't had any meets this time round either, but I don't give up hope someone will comet way, as they will yours  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What was your expectation of the site? I'm suspecting that you think it is somehwere that you will get easy sex?
I might be wrong but unless it panders to a specific fantasy why would anyone want a 29 year old virgin? People here want quality sex not just sex.
Sorry if that sounds harsh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please do not take any offence for what I am about to say, as I am only being honest in respond to an open request for advice and help.
For a start, not being able to accommodate or travel does not make one a good meet prospect.
Then the lack of pics in the profile would put off a lot of people.
On top of that, being shy and lacking in sexual experience of any kind??? For someone looking to meet people for sexy fun on a swingers site???
I do not know of many peeps who are prepared to "break" a gent, to take him under his/her/their wings, to show him the ropes etc...
IMHO, the chances of meeting anyone would be extremely low, and I would advise the OP to consider whether being on FAB is conducive to his well-being, or suited for his needs, as I personally do not believe FAB or similar is a place for a shy inexperience virgin.
However, I could be wrong.
Good luck!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, I tend to be honest about myself on here as I am not confident person and shy but I am not having much luck on here. I think its probably people think I am a fake or a timewaster. I am genuine and can go on cam which I said in my profile but still no luck.
Anyone can help me as to why I am not having any luck on here?
You're single and male which means you're in the overwelming majority - make yourself stand out - the virginity think may put some females off, who knows?
Just be patient my friend; I haven't had any meets this time round either, but I don't give up hope someone will comet way, as they will yours "
Your kidding! Not many meets this time round  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for those who replied and especially those with postive reply . I know I wont get many offers but I prefer to be honest and dont pretend to be someone I am not. anyway I am going offline as need sleep. Anybody interested or replying to me welcomed. I will reply to all messages received asap! Thank you once again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welcome to fab and the forums!!
Can I just ask, do you really want your first ever sexual experience to be with a total stranger?
And I don't mean that in a horrible way,
If it's a yes then maybe spruce up your profile a bit!! As there are lots of single guys on here looking to meet ladies and couples, so your profile needs to stand out!
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love virgins such a turn on!!
Hi, I'm a virgin. Please teach me how to have sex.
I can only meet every other week as I have joint custody of my son. That's not gonna be a problem, is it?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I knew i would get some negative reply but didnt expect this much! I already knew that majority girls wouldnt go for shy inexperience male but there are few that would as not everyone is the same or have same preference/ liking. As for comments that I am in the wrong place. I dont think I am in the wrong place as not everyone who joins this site is a hardcore swingers and plus I tend to be myself and not pretend to big myself up to look good.
Anyway I hope I will find some decent people on here who I can have fun with.
Thanks to all who replied positively and sent messages, appreciate it! |
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